On Saturday, I did mall game for the first time in 2016. I spoke to six girls, and couldn't get past the introduction with any of them. Like you said, it's a numbers game. I've been doing day game for almost a year, so I have more experience in it than you. If you think any of this is easy, it's not. Haven't gotten laid from it yet, but I will keep at it.
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I've cold approached in the past to mixed results but never in a mall, yet. We all got our preferred niches. Mine's hired gun game, others its night game ect... What did you say to these chicks, how hot, reactions, your inner mindsets ect...
I don't do a whole lot of approaching in malls, but I have done some, but more particularly in the store.
Being normal is the best here. She's at the mall for basically two reasons: to shop or to eye shop.
She's not expecting any guy to approach her because most guys are too self-conscious or dense to approach. I like to open with very situationally relevant topics and project intent through my body language and eye contact. Or I'll be very plainly direct and tell her that I like her style or the way she wears that dress and I wanted to come meet her.
I haven't gotten any negative reactions so far. But keep it light and project your intent through your nonverbals and make it clear to her that the reason why you're talking to her is because you find her attractive.
Being normal is the best here. She's at the mall for basically two reasons: to shop or to eye shop.
She's not expecting any guy to approach her because most guys are too self-conscious or dense to approach. I like to open with very situationally relevant topics and project intent through my body language and eye contact. Or I'll be very plainly direct and tell her that I like her style or the way she wears that dress and I wanted to come meet her.
I haven't gotten any negative reactions so far. But keep it light and project your intent through your nonverbals and make it clear to her that the reason why you're talking to her is because you find her attractive.
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I did a lot of mall game over the year or so that I devoted seriously to this activity. I got two dates out of it that I remember, although those went no further. Both super cute Russian ladies as it happens, I guess the stereotype that they enjoy shopping is accurate!
The food court environment in American malls (distasteful as it may be from both a gastronomic and atmospheric point of view) is practically made for the "seated approach"; you can also wander through several times casing the joint, as it were, without drawing particular attention, due to the typical activity level in these surroundings. Once you've settled on your target(s), a "May I sit here?" is very natural in this casual, high-traffic environment.
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On-the-go approaches akin to a street-stop work great here too, and make a nice substitute to outdoor daygame when the weather is too hot, too cold, too rainy, or otherwise unsuitable. Scoping out a nearby coffeeshop in advance is a good thing, and a decent-sized mall normally has more than one appropriate venue for an insta-date... in my case I kept this short, took advantage of an extra 10-15 minutes in a more relaxed setting to build rapport, before exchanging phone numbers and setting up a "true" date.
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It was fun to go back and look up these, hope this helps, I love this forum.
The food court environment in American malls (distasteful as it may be from both a gastronomic and atmospheric point of view) is practically made for the "seated approach"; you can also wander through several times casing the joint, as it were, without drawing particular attention, due to the typical activity level in these surroundings. Once you've settled on your target(s), a "May I sit here?" is very natural in this casual, high-traffic environment.
FR: CrimeanKitten
On-the-go approaches akin to a street-stop work great here too, and make a nice substitute to outdoor daygame when the weather is too hot, too cold, too rainy, or otherwise unsuitable. Scoping out a nearby coffeeshop in advance is a good thing, and a decent-sized mall normally has more than one appropriate venue for an insta-date... in my case I kept this short, took advantage of an extra 10-15 minutes in a more relaxed setting to build rapport, before exchanging phone numbers and setting up a "true" date.
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It was fun to go back and look up these, hope this helps, I love this forum.
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Marty said:
Hi Marty! Long time no talk bud! Hadn't thought about the food court really, good idea if I sit down by it. What about when your in Starbucks in line or waiting for your order. How would u approach with all them people around you? Have you done something similar that has helped you open smoothly or is it luck of the draw for u. Also, I noticed that when im sitting down in the middle of traffic of passersbys (a bench or something) I get more eyes drawn to me (by both sexes lol). In your experience, what would your nxt move look like? Im all ears bud, mall game is something I'll probably do in the future.
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Never did this. The coffeeshop mention was to have in your back pocket in case the girl needs more time to get comfortable with you than the fast-paced shopping mall environment will allow. The sequence I was talking about was a walking approach, initial pleasantries exchanged, then if she seems on the fence, propose having coffee for 10-15 minutes somewhere close. It's useful if you know where you're going. That was the exact sequence in the FR+ I linked and it worked pretty well.Eternity said: