married women

[shaneawi]

I'm in law school. I'm 25. There is a girl who used to be in one of my classes who is 31 and married. We've never spoken.

Whenever I see her in the hallway or just walking around and we meet eyes she has this big smile and always says hi. One of those smiles was almost like a giggily laugh type of smile.
I'm not sure if she's being friendly or is interested in me because she is married. Should I go further with this girl or leave it be?

 

[starlord]

dude, shes married. Interact with her however you want, but don't pursue her.

Everyone has crushes, in a relationship or not. That doesn't mean you will or should act on your crush. Be friendly, flirt, be cool, don't chase (she's married), don't even think about it.

 

[Eternity]

I would. Married chicks can be such sluts. Make sure you do it far away from the husband and keep all your personal details to yourself (address, number, ect). This is not for everybody, tight game & logistics are a must. Do you have those? If not, don't bother, it will probably blow up in your face...

 

[daviddreamer]

I am married.

If my woman strayed with another man she made that choice to stray. It is her fault. Maybe she lost love for me or I became a lower man and she wanted someone better. Fair enough I guess. It is also the mans, OPs, fault for crossing moral boundaries and sleeping with a married woman. You do realize you threaten half of my assets and probably more? That's like taking everything from me that I worked for. My money and my woman.

So It will, however, not change the fact that I would rip your face off, cut off your dick, and use your ear as a trophy. I will gladly declare temporary insanity in court.

 

[daviddreamer]

I am married.

If my woman strayed with another man she made that choice to stray. It is her fault. Maybe she lost love for me or I became a lower man and she wanted someone better. Fair enough I guess. It is also the mans, OPs, fault for crossing moral boundaries and sleeping with a married woman. You do realize you threaten half of my assets and probably more? That's like taking everything from me that I worked for. My money and my woman.

So It will, however, not change the fact that I would rip your face off, cut off your dick, and use your ear as a trophy. I will gladly declare temporary insanity in court.

lol found this post I wanted to clarify something for OP when I used the pronoun "I".

OP, what Eternity said when he meant "blow up in your face" is the raw emotion in the above post you will have to deal with a husband who finds his wife straying. Now me, personally, I don't know if I would do that (never been in this situation and hope I never will!) but this is a reality you could very well face when you play with fire...

-David

 

[Drck]

The morals are sometimes questionable. She is married, true, but she may not love that guy. She may stay with him only for reason that they have children, he may be typical boring provider. So she is looking around to have fun. If she was in love with him she would never cheat on him.

Sometimes married women are 'just flirting'. They talk sex, they seem interested, they lead you on, but when things become more serious they pull away. Perhaps she is really open to the possibility of having sex outside of the marriage, but her anxiety from doing wrong is quite high, and she can't get over it. Other married women of course cheat, and they simply cheat because they are not satisfied.

The question remains, why bother with married woman? She is taken, she's got baggage. If she's got children her baggage is huge. You are risking that her husband will find out. You may break her family apart, she will end up in divorce because of you. Fucking drama. What you gonna do, take care of her and her two children?

You are risking that you will go after her but she withdraws, leaving you look like an fool who can't get single woman because all she really wanted is to increase her self-esteem and get rid of her boredom. You are risking that you will end up in platonic relationship, she will love you - but she will fuck with her husband. Or, you will love her while she doesn't give a damn about you, and at the same time fucking her husband.

Too risky, the possibility of potential pain is too high, and the rewards are just not there...