Thoughts about meeting women around Christmas and New Years
Seems like women feel a lot of pressure about being single around the holidays. Particularly attending holiday parties without a date. I've had a couple women mention that specifically to me. Holiday parties tend to be couple activities.
Now for those of us with children, it is further complicated with vacation schedules and family obligations. It is a nice scarcity excuse, but I'm wondering how you "keep 'em warm" while you deal with all the holiday programs, visiting family, and various gift and date expectations. As soon as Christmas is over, if you have multiple women in your life, they are angling to be your New Years evening date. How do you placate those who didn't make the cut?
What is the Texting pattern and frequency that will keep them "interested but out of your hair"? Better yet, If you have one flake, how can you appeal to second stringer, without sounding desperate or like she was the back up plan?
I'm sure the same principle applies to Valentines day in a couple months, so this conversation can continue...
Seems like women feel a lot of pressure about being single around the holidays. Particularly attending holiday parties without a date. I've had a couple women mention that specifically to me. Holiday parties tend to be couple activities.
Now for those of us with children, it is further complicated with vacation schedules and family obligations. It is a nice scarcity excuse, but I'm wondering how you "keep 'em warm" while you deal with all the holiday programs, visiting family, and various gift and date expectations. As soon as Christmas is over, if you have multiple women in your life, they are angling to be your New Years evening date. How do you placate those who didn't make the cut?
What is the Texting pattern and frequency that will keep them "interested but out of your hair"? Better yet, If you have one flake, how can you appeal to second stringer, without sounding desperate or like she was the back up plan?
I'm sure the same principle applies to Valentines day in a couple months, so this conversation can continue...
