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Men Asserting dominance over you?

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Space Monkey
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Now this has nothing to do with seduction, but it's an issue that I've encountered today. My friend Sam asked if he could borrow some headphones. I said sure, and I handed him my Beats. I trust Sam not to go off and steal my headphones, so I'm okay with him using them. Now this is where it gets weird. The class period ends and I don't see Sam with my headphones. I couldn't find him in the lab, and that's where he said he was going. Now I trust him not to steal the headphones so I go down to lunch in order for him to return my headphones. After some time , He walks to his regular lunch table, without even acknowledging the fact that he didn't have my headphones. He had a lot of solutions. He could have returned them before the end of the hour or put them in his locker. He could have given them to the teacher, but he chose to leave the headphones in the computer lab. He told me he left them there, and I got somewhat angry, not screaming, just telling him to go get my headphones because what he did was stupid. So he goes upstairs and after he returns he says. "here are your headphones, but don't threaten me." I had said nothing similar to a threat against my friend. Why would I wish any bodily harm to somebody that I enjoy talking to and drawing with. I asked my other friend if I said anything threatening, and I said no. Now keep in mind this dude is at least 3 times bigger than me. What type of harm could I even cause him, if I wanted to. I guess he just felt the need to re-assert dominance in a place where no dominance is required. This aggravates me that someone I called a friend would need this sort of ego boost. I don't know how you can mishear something as a threat, but I guess that's the end of our friendship.

it seems like every time I come back to the boards, It is because somebody wants to fight.
 

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Space Monkey
space monkey
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I also think that some of the issue may have came up in first hour. My teacher asked me, what happens when you pray, and I said "Nothing"
He's a super Christian,contradictions and all. I guess that some people really take offense to something that they should know themselves has no meaning.
 
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