Met 2 girls who're friends. Can't understand which one to hit on. Confusing!

[razir110]

Hi everyone!

So I met these two girls who are friends. They were clearly into talking to me, we exchanged numbers and when I asked for their contact, girl A said to girl B "write down his number please" when I was saying the number, I also got girl B number, I didn't get A's number and A wasn't the one writing my number down. So to me this was the cue of who is interested in me between the two of them, girl B!

I texted girl B my number later on (she already had it, but I wanted us to have the "Nice to meet you, have my number" text). Girl B replied "nice to meet you too. I have your contact now" cool... This morning girl A texts me. So she got my number from B. She said "Nice to meet you, have my number. When you go to the beach let's meet to talk"

*here I didn't get the "let's talk" is that with two of them? Or only her?*

I replied something like "We just met and you already want to see me without t-shirt??.. I don't want to be treated like an object" A: "We are recent acquaintance (she didnt say friends lol) so we can also have a coffee, it doesn't have to be the beach" (after some texts) me: "But how can even trust you?" and A gave me a 20 lines text about how trust takes time to build and she thought I was a good conversationalist and she told me a bunch of details about her friend B who "is a respectable girl you can trust"

We didn't exchange any other texts with B yet.

So guys..... I don't get Sh*t of what's going on here. I was convinced B wants me. Now A comes with this talk out of nowhere.. Honestly I was more into B. I want to sleep with B but don't mind A. A took the initiative while B is standing aside.

How to go here?
-Should I invite B for a coffee? But it would go against the texting with A. Could it ruin my chances with A and maybe B isn't that much into me then?

-Should I invite A for a coffee?.. But I'm not that much into her, although I don't mind to sleep with her.

-What if they are referring to both meeting me? Should I meet them both? Usually I wouldn't go on a "date" when she has a girlfriend there, but this case might be different. Should I push for a 1 on 1 meet here as always? Or should I allow a 2 on 1 meeting perhaps?

legend level:
-Should I meet A, bed her and then try a threesome with them?..

Thank you!

Best.

 

[Fuck This]

As an aside, I remembered this movie clip from Bull Durham. It is the very definition of Outcome independence....

I had a similar situation with a couple of sorority girls in college. I liked one more than the other who of course liked me. I got neither.

Earlier that year was two roommates. I went hard after one and she rejected me after a couple nights of making out. Her roommate though was a friend the whole time through college, and I could have really paired up with her now looking back...

So I'm 0-2 on picking the right one. Another friend of mine dated one girl through high school and a year of college. Then started dating her roommate and now they are married....

Got a wing man to join you? I think that is your best bet...Do a double date with an extraction plan, and be open to potentially switching dates if something develops. Let him in on your dilemma, and see where it goes.

 

[razir110]

Thanks for the reply mate!

Well I don't have a wingman and I don't really care much about them, so I just asked the one I'm into out. She said she still has to confirm before the date.. so smells fishy to me. Anyways, I will let you know how it went!

Cheers!

 

[Average]

Hey bro,

Disclaimer: I’m still a beginner, so I might be completely wrong.

From what I can deduce, I’d say it sounds like they’re framing this as a group thing. Having a meetup on the beach seems like a big step. So girl A was probably going to show up with B. When I think beach, I think bikini. And that’s hypersexual. So if she was really gonna meet you one on one, then sex seemed to be on the table and it means she’s really attracted to you.

IF it’s a one on one thing.

If they’re working this hard to frame this as a group relationship then it probably means that they wish to include you into their social circle. This can have its own benefits, so going down this route may not be a bad idea. If girl B also agreed to meet up with you and girl A at the beach, then it could be their looking for a threesome. Possible, but the least likely. It might also need a lot of skill to pull off.

If you wish to choose between girl A and B, then I’d say that girl A is your best shot. After all, girl B may have never messaged you if you didn’t hit her up first. She was just helping her save your digits. Girl A telling girl B to do this could be for a whole host of reasons. Including: sending mixed signals, problems with her own phone like a dead battery, or just a good ol’ fashioned shit test to see if you’d flip out or not.

Then again, it is possible that this was a sneaky way of letting you know that girl B is the one that likes you.

So in order of likelihood to succeed:

1. Enter their social circle (good)
2. Go for girl A (good)
3. Go for girl B (risky if she doesn’t like you but girl A does)
4. Go for a threesome (easy to mess up and nobody may even be thinking of this)

To figure out which of these scenarios you are in, I’d say just go with the flow. The fact that she suggested the beach means that they probably have a plan in mind. So once you get there, depending on who you see, your question shall be answered.

1. Both will show up
2. Girl A will show up alone
3. Girl A will make up some excuse and leave you with girl B
4. Both will show up

Other scenarios include either everyone flakes, or they’re leaving it up to you.