Decided to jump into the deep end, probably make or break this number
Me: Morning mami, hope you're keeping up with the gym!
Me: Keeping yourself nice and sexy
We'll see if there's any response lol
Hey Echo, if you're interested in my opinion, a woman who has experienced this many MANY times from men, you are coming off a bit to thirsty, a bit too eager. Which has the potential of turning her, or any woman really, off.
It wouldn't hurt to step back and allow her the opportunity to think about you and wonder about you. Wonder if YOU are still interested in her.
Incorporate a bit of uncertainty into this scenario, that's how you build attraction in my experience, indicating interest combined with a bit of uncertainty and her wondering about you. A bit of push/pull if you will. The key is finding the right balance between the two.
Trust me, she KNOWS you're interested, you have made that abundantly clear, it's time for you to step back and leave it be.
I mean let's face it, this "dance" as you call it has resulted in her essentially blowing you off twice, imo it's really time for you to pull back and let HER make the next move.
By move I mean get together. No "maybe's." Something I have learned over the years if it's not a yes, it's a no. Including "maybe's."
For me as a woman, when I have initiated and a man replies "maybe," I take it as a NO and move on. If he's interested, he WILL get back to me with a definitive plan. Women are no different, imo, it's not a gender thing it's a human thing.
If there is any interest at all (which is what you want) she will, I promise you. We women can't help ourselves when we dig a guy, hell I've initiated texts, I have double texted, I have triple texted when interested!
I am really sorry to say this, but I see nothing coming from her side. She is tossing you crumbs. She most likely digs the attention from you, but again if she had even the slightest interest in you, she would be coming forward, she would be making it easy for you. Or not this difficult anyway.
As you know, I am new here and don't know how you guys feel about this, but imo stay away from women who throw up resistance blocks. When a woman is interested (and you have given her plenty of opportunity to develop interest), she will make it easy for you. She won't make you jump through hoops and she won't make you chase. Please trust me on that.
Women who do, well again my advice is to next them. I don't believe in "chasing." Chasing implies that a woman is running away from you and you are forced to chase them to catch them. Screw that, life's too damn short!
Pursuing yes, but there is a limit to how much you should pursue without coming off too thirsty or sorry but a bit desperate.
A woman should think you have LOTS of options and she is one. Your frame should be if she's not into it, into you, making it easy for you, then that's fine, you have plenty of other women to choose from.
JMO mate, good luck and let us know what happens!!
