MILF THREAD

[Skjöldr]

So it is time for a milf thread. I'm 20 years old and would like to bang women 30-50 years old. I like girls my age and younger as well, but i already have success with these, so MILFs/cougars are my sticking point. I have approaching them by daygame means and have done dozens of approaches, and i get shot down all the time (with very few exceptions). It seems they are all A) taken or B) thinking i'm too young. I would think older women would enjoy the sexual experience of being with a younger guy in bed, but i also think they auto-reject out of social frame issues. They want to but... they "can't".

I have been reading everything you are gonna get if you google "how to pick up MILFs" "How to get a cougar as a young guy" etc. on quora, seduction sub-reddit, sosuave etc. So that's why i am making this thread. One of my very first cold approaches (here) was actually an extremely sexy woman aged 34 and i was only 19 and we went on a date. It fizzled out, and it was an exception to the rule, and i lied that i was 26 haha and she bought it. Anyways, i'm making this thread because i wanna get results like that consistently. I have tried on online dating sites the same thing and they either ignore/reject or lead me on for attention with no success. Is it only possible to get MILFs with night-game or what?

Thank you

 

[POB]

You are fighting an uphill battle for sure.
If you really wanna be successful with older chicks being 10+ years younger, this is what you have to do:

1) Don't pretend to be older on your attitudes and mannerisms...nobody likes a fake;
2) That said, lie about your age as much as you can (just say you are 28 or older). If she likes you, it will be a non-issue once you are dating her;
3) Hide your age on apps, put 28 or older on profile, but never show it (older women don't change their range to match with 20yos, even when they like them);
4) go out with successful older dudes, wing them as much as you can...pick and adapt their vibe and style;
5) grow a beard if possible;
6) try to date at least one older woman for an extended period of time, even if you don't have feelings for her...make her a low-end MLTR if you don't want anything serious. She'll teach you more in a month than 30 lessons with a player;
7) up the provider vibe by 5% (and stay there). She has to see some kind of "future" with you;
8) be ready to be ghosted a lot, post sex included;

 

[Mr STIF]

I got my first lay from SC, I'm a salesman, she's 7years older than me. We met 2012, I found gc 2015 and she was the first person I tried anything on gc on( I tried moving fast: when next we saw and it ended up as a lay).

We still fuck few times in a year: and talk about business. She likes that I'm ambitious: she tested me about my age, while we were cuddling in July. I held frame and recollected the lie I told her about that aspect. She wasn't fully convinced, she could feel in my demeanor that I'm younger from being with me overtime. She told me about her son: which she has never told me (mysterious bitch) .
...........................................................................

Another one again but we haven't had the time to isolate ourselves from the public's eyes.

She's a customer in our shop. She just started her business, I give her motivational talks. We've talked about hanging out. She told me she gives her husband a blowjob. She's very jovial and friends with my Father who's the owner of the shop.

Also found out from Dad that her husband is very old. She's got three kids(all girls) Almost like a family friend/customer. She's told me about meeting up outside where we live but everyone's been busy.

I'm thinking she wants real action cause her husband maybe inactive as a result of age

Milfs do really love ambition, I'm only 27. They also love the fact that they see me selling and making some bucks, legally. So they know I'm growing up to be a gentleman, that can provide plus I've got good game- this is intriguing to them and they get drawn into me.

Anyways, those two Milfs are considered as social circle, as we(my family) live close to our shops and run into this people once or twice of a week.

You can also hit the gym to get muscles to make you look bigger so you seem older.

 

[Fuck This]

What you think it is like .....

it's really more like this....

Seriously Older women know not to shit where they eat. You would have more luck as a staff member in a vacation local where alcohol flows free, and the 30 year old girls take their "girl trips". and she is going to fall into your lap. About that time it's last call. she is going to ask you where the after party is, and you have to not mess it up.

I'll tell you though women who latch on to a younger guy long term are real control freaks. I've got a HS female friend who has a live in Bf 20 years younger and I think she just likes telling him what to do.

 

[Skills]

Day game is very unlikely for you to have success with a milfs, milfs are not really attracted to the 20s demographic, they are attracted to the 35+ demographic....

-If you notice most of the guys that have success with milfs are night gamers or swingclubs.

- go to one of the bars that are frequent by older women... But they are not really attracted in general to the 20 year old type.(despite the 1 in a million teacher sensational stories)

 

[Skjöldr]

Day game is very unlikely for you to have success with a milfs, milfs are not really attracted to the 20s demographic, they are attracted to the 35+ demographic....

-If you notice most of the guys that have success with milfs are night gamers or swingclubs.

- go to one of the bars that are frequent by older women... But they are not really attracted in general to the 20 year old type.(despite the 1 in a million teacher sensational stories)

Yeah i've heard you should go to bars. The bars started closing at 10 pm here now and you have to wear a mask when you are not sitting down. Nightlife is mostly dead, for now, but i will go there when they open up in earnest again.

 

[Skjöldr]

In this article tip number one is daygame...

How to Find and Pick Up MILFs

Has the modern mating game been making you weary? Are you tired of dealing with one flighty, stuck-up, flaky girl after another who wouldn’t know a strong man if he bit her on the neck? Well then my friend, the MILF is the answer for you. You’re not going to deal with any of the nonsense that...

www.girlschase.com

 

[Skjöldr]

What you think it is like .....

it's really more like this....

Seriously Older women know not to shit where they eat. You would have more luck as a staff member in a vacation local where alcohol flows free, and the 30 year old girls take their "girl trips". and she is going to fall into your lap. About that time it's last call. she is going to ask you where the after party is, and you have to not mess it up.

I'll tell you though women who latch on to a younger guy long term are real control freaks. I've got a HS female friend who has a live in Bf 20 years younger and I think she just likes telling him what to do.

I don't wanna become exclusive with one, just casual sex

 

[Skjöldr]

You are fighting an uphill battle for sure.
If you really wanna be successful with older chicks being 10+ years younger, this is what you have to do:

1) Don't pretend to be older on your attitudes and mannerisms...nobody likes a fake;
2) That said, lie about your age as much as you can (just say you are 28 or older). If she likes you, it will be a non-issue once you are dating her;
3) Hide your age on apps, put 28 or older on profile, but never show it (older women don't change their range to match with 20yos, even when they like them);
4) go out with successful older dudes, wing them as much as you can...pick and adapt their vibe and style;
5) grow a beard if possible;
6) try to date at least one older woman for an extended period of time, even if you don't have feelings for her...make her a low-end MLTR if you don't want anything serious. She'll teach you more in a month than 30 lessons with a player;
7) up the provider vibe by 5% (and stay there). She has to see some kind of "future" with you;
8) be ready to be ghosted a lot, post sex included;

Great tips, i will use these. I already lie about age, where do you think you should go to find available cougars/milfs? Nightgame or daygame?

 

[Skills]

In this article tip number one is daygame...

How to Find and Pick Up MILFs

Has the modern mating game been making you weary? Are you tired of dealing with one flighty, stuck-up, flaky girl after another who wouldn’t know a strong man if he bit her on the neck? Well then my friend, the MILF is the answer for you. You’re not going to deal with any of the nonsense that...

www.girlschase.com

Peter day game yes, if you are 35 plus looks wise.... As you have tried and see yourself is super very low odds.... If you want higher odds with a milf while being in your 20s is night game.

 

[Fuck This]

I don't wanna become exclusive with one, just casual sex

I seriously doubt the ability of most men to not become emotionally attached when a hot older woman rocks the world of a younger man, giving him the best sex of his life. It is in your favor if

you know how many licks it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie pop
How to eat just one Lay's Potato chip

That is why anonymous, one night stands while you or her are out of town, are the best bet. Your best bet is to have a wide range of acceptable age ranges and if an older one happens to be interested, make it happen....

Fucking the neighbor, or your best friend's mom or your hot step mom is a common porn fantasy for just that reason.

Learn to recognize DTF women and the opportunities will present themselves.

 

[Skills]

Age and quality of sex is not necessarily proportional to age you can have incredible sex with a young girl, and horrible sex with older and vice versa. The new generation a woman grew up on porn.

 

[Fuck This]

I will share one such experience since I didn't do a LR on it.....

I went to a large city famous for its bright lights for a National Competition. My equipment to compete with got lost on the flight so I was talking with other competitors including a couple from another state, at the preliminary evening. The couple had brought her older sister (15 years my senior) along and I locked eye contact with her right away that first night. After the second night of competition, I joined the couple to go out and see the sights and became the older sister's defacto "date". The couple wanted some alone time, so I winged them and took the sister back to my room after more than a few drinks.
This woman was not the most attractive woman I was around during this event. In fact I was with a nationally recognized model in that discipline who was also an NFL cheerleader. I knew other women closer to my age who were hotter who had other men interested in them. But she was the MOST DTF and she was there....She didn't rock my world, or have some hot older woman magic touch, But she didn't have a lot of bullshit to plow through to get the lay.


Never saw her again. Never told anyone about her either. Probably my biggest age difference....

 

[POB]

Great tips, i will use these. I already lie about age, where do you think you should go to find available cougars/milfs? Nightgame or daygame?

In that order:
Night > online > day