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As I get back into cold approach, I've noticed that both ladies at work and on the street, at events who I talk to are very warm and welcoming. I think I need to just brush up on my sexual tension and leave some of the jokes to the side. That said, recently I scaled down my apartment from a much larger place to a small place in order to use some of the rent money to sort out other aspects of my life.
But I've run into some confidence issues when I think women may not want to stick around when they realize how small my space is. Here is how much space my other tenants have.
On the other hand, here are my living area dimensions.
So all in all, while the space is small, I've designed it to be organized and clean.
It's the 1st I've lived in such a small space and was wondering if when I bring girls over they will judge me negatively for living here. Aside from the small living space, it's always clean and nicely put together. So do I have anything to worry about girls telling each other about how small my space is?
P.s. there is 1.25 inches of walking space to the side of my bed so I can walk towards my wardrobe. The room setup is the bed and wardrobe are side by side with of course a small width wardrobe (about 2 feet when the draws are open so I still have much of the space at the side of my bed to stand)
And the desk is situated to the corner of the wall next to the door. So between the edge of my bed and the desk, I have about 32 inches / 2.7 feet width x 60 inches / 5 feet in length of space to stand, stretch my legs, and this space also holds my fan which I need to move closer to the bed when opening the door and closer to the door when going to sleep).
PeacockMan
As I get back into cold approach, I've noticed that both ladies at work and on the street, at events who I talk to are very warm and welcoming. I think I need to just brush up on my sexual tension and leave some of the jokes to the side. That said, recently I scaled down my apartment from a much larger place to a small place in order to use some of the rent money to sort out other aspects of my life.
But I've run into some confidence issues when I think women may not want to stick around when they realize how small my space is. Here is how much space my other tenants have.
- On the apartment complex are 3 other tenants, all of whom have their own kitchen, living room area, and bedroom. The largest apartment on the complex has 2 bedrooms.
- We all share the same yard space
- There are 3 car spaces for the 3 tenants on the property
On the other hand, here are my living area dimensions.
- I have just a room and the dimensions are 68 inches / 5.67 feet in width and 137 inches / 11.42 feet in length
- This holds my: twin size bed (very nicely furnished) with 3 pillows and nice clean sheets
- Desk (20 inches width by 46 inches length) which holds my laptop, sound speaker (about the size of an Anker speaker and very portable), and a desk organizer (for books, pens, e.t.c.) The drawers in the desk holds personal care items such as cologne, razors, hair brush and other items like my jewelry.
- A standing fan (manual turn on)
- A one door wardrobe (to give a realistic view, here is a similar image I could find here). It is situated right beside my bed and holds all my folded clothes, dish drainer, hanger rack *holds about 20 hangers*
- A 24" by 24" window and a 48" by 36" window and my door of course
- I've recently purchased a very nice rug which fits in nicely with the bed linen and I painted the room white to bring more light to certain areas
- A small food storage container (holds 1-2 weeks supply of groceries)
So all in all, while the space is small, I've designed it to be organized and clean.
- My room is at the back of the apartment complex and when I need to use the bathroom though, I need to walk from my room to the main house complex (about 20 feet away). The great thing is I have my own bathroom with a very nice bath that could easily hold 3 people standing and I've fixed up the bathroom as well. It's always clean and my personal items such as soap, tissue, mouthwash e.t.c have their caddy
- In front of my room door is an open area that currently has dirt and I've recently planted grass seeds so I can have a vibrant lawn. This space is about 14 feet by 6 feet and has a low wall around it which I've painted. It's a very nice area I could use to even have back yard picnics with girls in the future.
It's the 1st I've lived in such a small space and was wondering if when I bring girls over they will judge me negatively for living here. Aside from the small living space, it's always clean and nicely put together. So do I have anything to worry about girls telling each other about how small my space is?
P.s. there is 1.25 inches of walking space to the side of my bed so I can walk towards my wardrobe. The room setup is the bed and wardrobe are side by side with of course a small width wardrobe (about 2 feet when the draws are open so I still have much of the space at the side of my bed to stand)
And the desk is situated to the corner of the wall next to the door. So between the edge of my bed and the desk, I have about 32 inches / 2.7 feet width x 60 inches / 5 feet in length of space to stand, stretch my legs, and this space also holds my fan which I need to move closer to the bed when opening the door and closer to the door when going to sleep).
PeacockMan
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