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This was an easy one, once I passed the initial tests over text.
Initial text game
She's one of the first girl I contacted in Badoo during my approach campaign two weeks ago. The vibe is good, we have some basic get to know chat, she seems very much into my pictures, I tease her with my cooking (preparing the idea of coming home for dinner). The chat goes on very slowly over the week, until Friday 15th. She compliments me over and over on my pics. I try:
” She says I’m a little aloof and reserved (read: not chasing her all the time, not spilling my beans). Our discussions later confirmed that one of her two other chatmates is getting crazy (expressing frustration) that she does not meet her. The other guy is needy and pushy (she says “aggressive”). My game was cool, to the point, and non chasey. We get into this interesting convo:
First date
In the car I can tell she’s into me immediately, I sense her looking at me while I’m driving. The vibe is immediately good, I initiate physical contact with incidental touching in conversation. When I park, I take her hand immediately as we walk. She likes it. After that she’ll be the one putting her hand in mine. After a quick dinner in a simple place, I take her for a walk in the corniche, hand in hand. We sit on a bench for 15 minutes, I have my hand over her shoulder. She is really into me and compliment me many times. As I drive her back, she takes my hand. I place my hand on her left leg, and she puts her two hands over mine. Back to her place, there are security cameras, no kiss. The next day we agree that she will come home on Tuesday for a dinner.
Second date at my place
Mia comes to my the nearby intercontinental hotel where I meet her and bring her home. I can sense a bit of nervousness. I defuse it with a positive, confident and cool vibe. She takes off her shoes immediately when we reach and she comes to help me in the kitchen. There isn’t much left to do now - she has to be back home before 10pm and she reached my place at 7:30pm. No time to waste, so I prepared all the food before.
Dinner served in my living room, we’re in my sofa. So far my only game has been to defuse her slight nervousness, I have barely touched her (incidental touch). When we’re both seated on my sofa, and before we even start eating, she literally jumps at me and kiss me. We have lipstick now all over our mouths. She’s in my arms, kissing me like crazy. OK, nice but I’m hungry. After 10 minutes of making out, we have the quick dinner - food is good. Done. She takes out the plates and fix the table, then comes back. I resume making out, and soon she’s over me, literally in charge. In fact she seems to like keeping control. Well, fine with me.
When I start caressing her skin under her shirt (forearms) she suggests taking out her clothes. Yes, ok. “But not here!” OK so I take her in my bedroom. It’s 8:10 pm, she’s been here only 40 minutes, I’m sitting on the side of the bed, she’s standing up in front of me, and I try taking off her dress. Some resistance. "OK fine, why don’t you take off my clothes then" I tell her. She removes my tee shirt, then my belt, then unbuttons my trousers and my zip. I take out my trousers, she takes out her dress. She has some small but very sexy boobs, she’s petite and thin. It’s very welcome, I have had my share of fatties recently
We’re now lying on the bed side by side. Still a little discomfort. “Why don’t you kiss me?” and she starts kissing my chest. Her hand is now on my dick, she grabs my hard on and work it harder. She now have taken out her bra and underwear. She asks if I have some clothes for my friend Paul (condom). Yeah, I have some umbrella, in case it gets rainy, I show her the condom, she wants me to wear it right away. I try kissing her all over her body, but she’s very excited and wants me to take her. I put the condom, then penetrate her slowly. She comes four times, then it’s me. 9:10 pm, we dress up then I drive her home.
My take
First, I won her easily vs two other european guys with cool, non chasey text game. She was extremely excited about sex even before coming, but somewhat shy around her thin shapes, and wanted to keep things under her control. I didn’t have to do anything, she was the one escalating, just making sure she’s comfortable and guide her. Sex was very good.
Initial text game
She's one of the first girl I contacted in Badoo during my approach campaign two weeks ago. The vibe is good, we have some basic get to know chat, she seems very much into my pictures, I tease her with my cooking (preparing the idea of coming home for dinner). The chat goes on very slowly over the week, until Friday 15th. She compliments me over and over on my pics. I try:
Then chat off. The next day and days after there is a little exchange (sometimes prompted by her), then she spontaneously gives me her number. We switch the chat to Viber. Interestingly on Sunday 17th evening she mentions our chat in Badoo, and I ask if she sees anyone interesting. She mentions two other European guys, but from what she says my game is better. “You are really smart. Like I’m suppose to anticipateMe: Are you available today? 6:30 or 7pm? Would be nice to meet in real.
Her: What’s your plan then?
Me: We could do happy hours at Intercontinental
Her: Thanks for the offer, but I don’t drink
Me: Who said about alcohol?
Her: Sorry but I don’t drink. I don’t think I opt going to club
Me: Not club. I don’t like clubs. The purpose, you realize, is not to drink alcohol but to meet in real
Her: Coffee must be a great idea. Or jog. Or walk.
Me: Walk is good. Walk in the corniche
Her: You can bring friends [She's testing my frame]
Me: No no, not a social event. This is a date. You and me[I keep my frame and don't get into hers]
Her: Date? Lol. I prefer friendly date
Me: Seems to be a big deal. Up to you then [I let her know that I'm ready to let her go]
Her: OK
After that, our chat falls a little flat, until I resume conversation on Thursday 21st. Just reconnect, basic chat. On Friday I leave it silent again. On Saturday morning, I ask her if she had a good time off yesterday.Her: But frankly I’ve never met anyone here from Badoo
Me: Would that make you anxious?
Her: I guess so
Me: I think so too
Her: I’m not used to meeting people. Especially if I don’t know them very well
Me: If you don’t meet them, you won’t know them ;-). Stating the obvious
Her: Lol. You are so sarcastic. That turns me on
Haha the dynamics changed, she’s the one asking. We setup a meet later the same day at 7pm. She had mentioned jog or walk, so I come dressed up in gym attire… And of course she shows up dressed up for a date. Black and white clothes, heels, very fitting tight trousers revealing petite, feminine shapes, very long black hair down to her waist, petite and cute. Wow.Her: Not much. Trying to recuperate [she had been a little sick from a flu]
Me: OK. Me too I had a comatose Friday
Her: Then we should go for work out. You’re off today?
First date
In the car I can tell she’s into me immediately, I sense her looking at me while I’m driving. The vibe is immediately good, I initiate physical contact with incidental touching in conversation. When I park, I take her hand immediately as we walk. She likes it. After that she’ll be the one putting her hand in mine. After a quick dinner in a simple place, I take her for a walk in the corniche, hand in hand. We sit on a bench for 15 minutes, I have my hand over her shoulder. She is really into me and compliment me many times. As I drive her back, she takes my hand. I place my hand on her left leg, and she puts her two hands over mine. Back to her place, there are security cameras, no kiss. The next day we agree that she will come home on Tuesday for a dinner.
Second date at my place
Mia comes to my the nearby intercontinental hotel where I meet her and bring her home. I can sense a bit of nervousness. I defuse it with a positive, confident and cool vibe. She takes off her shoes immediately when we reach and she comes to help me in the kitchen. There isn’t much left to do now - she has to be back home before 10pm and she reached my place at 7:30pm. No time to waste, so I prepared all the food before.
Dinner served in my living room, we’re in my sofa. So far my only game has been to defuse her slight nervousness, I have barely touched her (incidental touch). When we’re both seated on my sofa, and before we even start eating, she literally jumps at me and kiss me. We have lipstick now all over our mouths. She’s in my arms, kissing me like crazy. OK, nice but I’m hungry. After 10 minutes of making out, we have the quick dinner - food is good. Done. She takes out the plates and fix the table, then comes back. I resume making out, and soon she’s over me, literally in charge. In fact she seems to like keeping control. Well, fine with me.
When I start caressing her skin under her shirt (forearms) she suggests taking out her clothes. Yes, ok. “But not here!” OK so I take her in my bedroom. It’s 8:10 pm, she’s been here only 40 minutes, I’m sitting on the side of the bed, she’s standing up in front of me, and I try taking off her dress. Some resistance. "OK fine, why don’t you take off my clothes then" I tell her. She removes my tee shirt, then my belt, then unbuttons my trousers and my zip. I take out my trousers, she takes out her dress. She has some small but very sexy boobs, she’s petite and thin. It’s very welcome, I have had my share of fatties recently
My take
First, I won her easily vs two other european guys with cool, non chasey text game. She was extremely excited about sex even before coming, but somewhat shy around her thin shapes, and wanted to keep things under her control. I didn’t have to do anything, she was the one escalating, just making sure she’s comfortable and guide her. Sex was very good.