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Missed escalation windows ... Not my fault

D_Smooth1900

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After a night of partying on our way back to home my boys point out a girl and signal me to approach her. I made the move and I talked her up for a bit and grabbed her number, I texted her later saying it was nice to meet her and that we should hang sometime. Now this is were it get edgy.

It wasshe texted me back later that day here's the convo

Her: hey
Me: what's up?
Her:nun wbu
Me: just drinking with my buddies, what you doing?
Her: nice where at? And just doing laundry

I got to drunk partying and I passed out :| the fact that she started texting me the day of 1st meeting her throw me off plus I was already occupied so I couldn't make much moves on trying to escalate. I noticed my mistake so I try and fix it

Me: my bad I freaking passed out. What are you doing today? Let's grab a bite to eat?
Her:depends on what time I'm back it won't be untill 900
Her:maybe tomorrow

Later on that day

Her: random question ... You have any drinks from last night lol?

I didn't answer because I knew it was an invite and I was staying out in town that entire weekend
Since that day She started growing cold . I texted her back the next day

Me: did you manage to find some drinks
Her:no (looking to the side face)
Me: are you good?
Her: yea why

A series of dry texts are exchanged back and forth and I linda picked up that she lost intrest. So I sent her one of these a week later

Me: hey (her name), hope your weekends was good, it's been really busy on my part, there's a lot of shit going on at work and stuff. Anyways if your schedule permits it, we should catch up with ice cream my treat?
Her: sure when?
Me: is Friday at 7 good?
Her: Friday should be good, I think
Me: sounds good
Her: ok

I hit her up Thursday

Me: hey are we still good for tomorrow?
Her: yeA

Tomorrow comes

Her:yo I can't do tonight as stuff came up. What about Sunday?
Me:Sunday's good, is everything all right?
Her: yea it's all right but Sunday for sure
Me:ight

So Sunday comes, she comes up in the afternoon . I'd figure well grab lunch first do some deep diving to see what she's about. As I'm deep diving I find out she doesn't have much intrest and is actually pretty boring, I kept the connection going by trying to relate to her but it's quite difficult, she likes mountain climbing anything outdoors. She's a huge gymnastics fan she would have went to the Olympics if it was t for her back and she loves chocolate a lot. I'm just a city boy who chases girls around XD. Anyways we head out and go to a nearby ice cream place , stay there DOA but then hit up a bar. Got some drinks and some karaoke. After I took her back home to her place. Nothing happened she was actually pretty quick to leave. I'd figure it wasn't gonna happen she wasn't trying to impress anyone by the way she was dressed. And she wouldn't fall for my eye contact, there were some minor points were I felt the energy. But mainly it was me doing most of the talking and the moving.

By the end of it Id figure it wasn't going to happen with this girl. I still throw her some texts here and there. Lately she's been under occupied doing extra work so I let it be. I'd figure if she wanted another go at it she'll hit me up. But im sure I've missed all my shots. She gave me 2 chances if I somehow was able to cease on those moments this would have been a lay report
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take
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