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I just got back home from an instant date that that lasted for nearly 4 hours after finishing work. I'm a bit exhausted to write all the details of the date but I thought I'll write before I forget tomorrow.
Approach:
Was still recovering from the Sunday super drunk girl's date and was not really interested in approaching but my muscle memory of approaching has become so strong that I just can't resist approaching. Anyway, walking back from work I notice a chic sitting in the square looking at her phone. There were ppl around her and I hesitated since I was not feeling the best, didn't have enough momentum to open direct. Just walked past her to see if I can pick something that will help in opening and she was wearing a T-Shirt that said "POOR OLD ENGLAND". Thought I can use that to open and opened with "Hello".. she looks at me and I say "Quote on your shirt is super funny.." and started laughing. Maybe I exaggerated my laughter a bit but it worked. Looked like all she wanted was someone to talk to and she jumped right into a conversation that lasted nearly 45 mins after I sat next to her soon after. She was from England and spoke very posh British English (Think of Sir David Attenborough). She said she was from Brighton in England and her accent was next best to place where David Attenborough comes from. I have a thing for posh British accent, although I find English girls super-bitchy but to my surprise this chic was super feminine. She was not the German 9s and 10s that I banged the last couple of times. She was super cute facially but not as shapely as the ones I normally go for but her accent and her cute face made me stay. We talked just about everything, I was not really focused tbh. So, was just free-styling except that there was a lot of flirting and physical escalation. We spoke about alcohol, TV shows, hobbies and a whole lot of other things with lot of flirting, teasing, challenging, physical escalation etc. Suddenly, it striked to me that I'm free-styling and slowly amped up my game with more qualification, role-play etc and thought of bouncing.
Bounce 1:
I suggest we grab a coffee and get up from there. She was super-enthusiastic to join me. I suggested Starbucks and she says, can we find something more decent, teasing me and I qualify her for that and say, I really like confident girls like you who ask what they want. I'm glad you asked and luckily we were very close to Hilton hotel and they have a very classy restaurant also open for outsiders. We walk there but we have a deserted walkway that leads there and she closes off suddenly. I paced her and say "You must be thinking, where is he taking me? This place looks so dodgy. Oh why didn't I just agree to go to Starbucks. I must be risking. Oh god! I know him for less than an hour and he is taking me somewhere which is new to me and how can I trust him"...laughing while saying all this and she cracks up. She said, exactly what I'm thinking. On a scale of 10, my suspicion is at an 8 right now. Then I tease her some more saying "It was your mistake to trust me and not agree to go to Starbucks. Only lucky thing is, you're cute. So, you're safe" and she blushes. Then she feels a bit more comfortable. As we approach Hilton, she relaxes and delighted at the classy ambience. She says, just cos I'm English doesn't mean that I'm a basic bitch. I have standards. I tease her saying, actually if I didn't notice your shirt first but your face, I'd have thought the same. She asks what? I say, Resting bitch face. She laughs again and says, Really? no wonder not a lot of guys approach me. In fact, sales people and charity guys also don't approach me, so sad.
We ordered tea and sat in front of a romantic fire place. I struggled to get to sex talk this time but somehow finally introduced after almost 1.5 hrs after meeting her. She was intrigued by everything I was saying but she was super nervous to react to any of that. So, I didn't go all out and from Teevster's compilation of sex talk which @POB shared with me a few weeks ago, I talked only the basic topics - secret society, mental G-Spot and a couple more while also mixing social talking in between. I perhaps again did a mistake of seeding the pull late - remembered what @Will_V had mentioned but it was too late. It had been almost 2 hrs since we met when I seeded saying we go back to my place to dance. She liked dancing, so, that was not a concern. She outright refused. She wasn't someone who didn't get the plausible deniability but was very aware what that meant. Then I thought I should add comfort and started talking about her family and my family etc but we already had a lot of comfort right from the beginning, anyway. She was just super-nervous to come back to mine. Then I suggested we get espresso martini and she liked the idea but for some reason said, she doesn't want to do that now and wants to do it the next time we meet. I thought I should change the venue and we quickly pay up and suggest we go for a walk. She agreed.
Bounce 2:
As we head out, we take a different route which was unfortunately even more deserted than the one which we took to get there. She again closes up. I again do the same routine of pacing and teased her saying, your suspicion meter must be 10/10 this time and she nods but doesn't laugh this time. She looks super nervous. So, I quickly walk her to a place where there are more people and she slowly opens up but now she says, she really wants to go back since she wants to do groceries and cook. I change the topic and pace her again. I say, I understand why you're so suspicious and I contrast with a lot of stories about how guys make it hard for women and she slowly opens up. Then we stop and talk for nearly 30 mins and she says, not all guys are like you unfortunately. Then again I suggest we go back to mine and chill for sometime. She doesn't agree and now she starts walking fast. I pull her arm and tease her that I'll put a leash on her or carry in my bag like a cute puppy. She was laughing and enjoying but she just didn't want to come to my place. She openly said, I know you're doing your best to make me feel comfortable but I'm inherently a suspicious person and I'd be suspicious of anyone and in fact I'm less suspicious of you compared to others but still it can't fall below a 3 on a scale of 10 and if I have to come to your place, probably the pointer will go beyond 10 and break the scale. I won't come at least today. I walk another 15 mins with her to the super-market which was on my way home. I stop outside the super market and we talk for nearly 10 mins and jokingly say, I'm not sure if I want to contact you cos you're being so suspicious of me but she says she wants to see me again. By now, there was no limit to physical escalation, I was manhandling her like a little kid, pushing her to the lamp post while walking, tickling her, hugging her etc and also there was a lot of sexual tension both looking deep into each other's eyes for brief intervals every now and then and just in general the sexual tension was intense but still she has her guard up to come back to mine. Finally, I give in and take her number. She double checks after she enters the number and we talk for a couple more mins and I leave.
Somehow, I have a strong intuition that it's a done deal. She was a lot more suspicious/hesitant/nervous etc than the failed bounce attempt I had with the French girl last week. So, its very very unlikely I'm going to see her again.
Anyway, yesterday I went through a lot of articles from what @Chase shared and most of those articles suggested that if the sale is not closed when you have the customer, its very likely it falls through. This one looks like a failed sale. I remembered this article in particular : With Girls, Tomorrow Isn't Promised and I tried my best but I couldn't do anything. When I read some of the FRs and articles, it doesn't seem like its too hard to bounce with some plausible deniability. However, in reality it seems to be a lot different or is bouncing from day game a lot harder than night game? or am I missing something in terms of comfort or something else? Is there a process you guys follow to bounce home? Am I missing that? I don't really know.
Approach:
Was still recovering from the Sunday super drunk girl's date and was not really interested in approaching but my muscle memory of approaching has become so strong that I just can't resist approaching. Anyway, walking back from work I notice a chic sitting in the square looking at her phone. There were ppl around her and I hesitated since I was not feeling the best, didn't have enough momentum to open direct. Just walked past her to see if I can pick something that will help in opening and she was wearing a T-Shirt that said "POOR OLD ENGLAND". Thought I can use that to open and opened with "Hello".. she looks at me and I say "Quote on your shirt is super funny.." and started laughing. Maybe I exaggerated my laughter a bit but it worked. Looked like all she wanted was someone to talk to and she jumped right into a conversation that lasted nearly 45 mins after I sat next to her soon after. She was from England and spoke very posh British English (Think of Sir David Attenborough). She said she was from Brighton in England and her accent was next best to place where David Attenborough comes from. I have a thing for posh British accent, although I find English girls super-bitchy but to my surprise this chic was super feminine. She was not the German 9s and 10s that I banged the last couple of times. She was super cute facially but not as shapely as the ones I normally go for but her accent and her cute face made me stay. We talked just about everything, I was not really focused tbh. So, was just free-styling except that there was a lot of flirting and physical escalation. We spoke about alcohol, TV shows, hobbies and a whole lot of other things with lot of flirting, teasing, challenging, physical escalation etc. Suddenly, it striked to me that I'm free-styling and slowly amped up my game with more qualification, role-play etc and thought of bouncing.
Bounce 1:
I suggest we grab a coffee and get up from there. She was super-enthusiastic to join me. I suggested Starbucks and she says, can we find something more decent, teasing me and I qualify her for that and say, I really like confident girls like you who ask what they want. I'm glad you asked and luckily we were very close to Hilton hotel and they have a very classy restaurant also open for outsiders. We walk there but we have a deserted walkway that leads there and she closes off suddenly. I paced her and say "You must be thinking, where is he taking me? This place looks so dodgy. Oh why didn't I just agree to go to Starbucks. I must be risking. Oh god! I know him for less than an hour and he is taking me somewhere which is new to me and how can I trust him"...laughing while saying all this and she cracks up. She said, exactly what I'm thinking. On a scale of 10, my suspicion is at an 8 right now. Then I tease her some more saying "It was your mistake to trust me and not agree to go to Starbucks. Only lucky thing is, you're cute. So, you're safe" and she blushes. Then she feels a bit more comfortable. As we approach Hilton, she relaxes and delighted at the classy ambience. She says, just cos I'm English doesn't mean that I'm a basic bitch. I have standards. I tease her saying, actually if I didn't notice your shirt first but your face, I'd have thought the same. She asks what? I say, Resting bitch face. She laughs again and says, Really? no wonder not a lot of guys approach me. In fact, sales people and charity guys also don't approach me, so sad.
We ordered tea and sat in front of a romantic fire place. I struggled to get to sex talk this time but somehow finally introduced after almost 1.5 hrs after meeting her. She was intrigued by everything I was saying but she was super nervous to react to any of that. So, I didn't go all out and from Teevster's compilation of sex talk which @POB shared with me a few weeks ago, I talked only the basic topics - secret society, mental G-Spot and a couple more while also mixing social talking in between. I perhaps again did a mistake of seeding the pull late - remembered what @Will_V had mentioned but it was too late. It had been almost 2 hrs since we met when I seeded saying we go back to my place to dance. She liked dancing, so, that was not a concern. She outright refused. She wasn't someone who didn't get the plausible deniability but was very aware what that meant. Then I thought I should add comfort and started talking about her family and my family etc but we already had a lot of comfort right from the beginning, anyway. She was just super-nervous to come back to mine. Then I suggested we get espresso martini and she liked the idea but for some reason said, she doesn't want to do that now and wants to do it the next time we meet. I thought I should change the venue and we quickly pay up and suggest we go for a walk. She agreed.
Bounce 2:
As we head out, we take a different route which was unfortunately even more deserted than the one which we took to get there. She again closes up. I again do the same routine of pacing and teased her saying, your suspicion meter must be 10/10 this time and she nods but doesn't laugh this time. She looks super nervous. So, I quickly walk her to a place where there are more people and she slowly opens up but now she says, she really wants to go back since she wants to do groceries and cook. I change the topic and pace her again. I say, I understand why you're so suspicious and I contrast with a lot of stories about how guys make it hard for women and she slowly opens up. Then we stop and talk for nearly 30 mins and she says, not all guys are like you unfortunately. Then again I suggest we go back to mine and chill for sometime. She doesn't agree and now she starts walking fast. I pull her arm and tease her that I'll put a leash on her or carry in my bag like a cute puppy. She was laughing and enjoying but she just didn't want to come to my place. She openly said, I know you're doing your best to make me feel comfortable but I'm inherently a suspicious person and I'd be suspicious of anyone and in fact I'm less suspicious of you compared to others but still it can't fall below a 3 on a scale of 10 and if I have to come to your place, probably the pointer will go beyond 10 and break the scale. I won't come at least today. I walk another 15 mins with her to the super-market which was on my way home. I stop outside the super market and we talk for nearly 10 mins and jokingly say, I'm not sure if I want to contact you cos you're being so suspicious of me but she says she wants to see me again. By now, there was no limit to physical escalation, I was manhandling her like a little kid, pushing her to the lamp post while walking, tickling her, hugging her etc and also there was a lot of sexual tension both looking deep into each other's eyes for brief intervals every now and then and just in general the sexual tension was intense but still she has her guard up to come back to mine. Finally, I give in and take her number. She double checks after she enters the number and we talk for a couple more mins and I leave.
Somehow, I have a strong intuition that it's a done deal. She was a lot more suspicious/hesitant/nervous etc than the failed bounce attempt I had with the French girl last week. So, its very very unlikely I'm going to see her again.
Anyway, yesterday I went through a lot of articles from what @Chase shared and most of those articles suggested that if the sale is not closed when you have the customer, its very likely it falls through. This one looks like a failed sale. I remembered this article in particular : With Girls, Tomorrow Isn't Promised and I tried my best but I couldn't do anything. When I read some of the FRs and articles, it doesn't seem like its too hard to bounce with some plausible deniability. However, in reality it seems to be a lot different or is bouncing from day game a lot harder than night game? or am I missing something in terms of comfort or something else? Is there a process you guys follow to bounce home? Am I missing that? I don't really know.
