Missing escalation windows turns girls into bitches?

[normajean106]

Hi. This may come off as a rant so bear with me.

Is it possible that when one misses an escalation window, a girl will hold a grudge against you 'till you go six feet under?

Long story short, I may have missed an escalation window to hook up with her a few months ago. Ever since then she has been a complete bitch to me.

Does anyone else get this?

 

[Franco]

normajean,

This is a solid article right here that might cover one of the scenarios you're experiencing:

• Ego Depletion (and Keeping Women Around)

- Franco

 

[normajean106]

Thanks Franco. I appreciate you taking the time to respond.

I guess I never considered how seriously most girls take rejection (in terms of auto rejection, in this case).

 

[Kaelos]

Chase just published an article that may be of interest to you normajean106:

Tactics Tuesdays: How to Turn Around a Girl in Auto-Rejection

Yes, it's happened to me as well. Girl on a date is sweet, flirty, and forward with me. I then miss an escalation window and she goes cold and aloof.

 

[Fuck This]

I had a woman who was flirting online with me. I confided some things to her and she interpreted it as if I was propositioning her for a dalliance. I made it clear I was relieved she was not interested (she had flirted pretty hard), and she began finding all sorts of reasons to criticize and bitch test me over messenger. It was pretty clear she wanted an orbiter, and I pulled back. She took it hard and I saw the cat come out. I've since gone N/C with her.

 

[HumanoidSnow]

Chase just published an article that may be of interest to you normajean106:

Tactics Tuesdays: How to Turn Around a Girl in Auto-Rejection

Yes, it's happened to me as well. Girl on a date is sweet, flirty, and forward with me. I then miss an escalation window and she goes cold and aloof.

Same brother i had a girl at work crushing on me gave me alot of IOI and one day she told me she wanted To show me where she lives which des obviously the escalation window, since i didn't make a move she got really cold and distant.. sucks but at least i learned alot

 

[Eternity]

Over doing the jealousy plotlines will make her also mad, cold, and bitchy towards you. I've learned that the hard way @ work when I over did it. Bitches be more emotional about things anyway, hence the change in behavior when they don't get what they want...