Morning coffee date?

[killerman]

Got this chick who's come back after being away back home for 6 months. First time I met her I fucked her on the first date and the next 2 dates were hot, kinky sex sessions with oil and blindfolds. She even left me a letter before she left my place the last time I saw her telling me how much of an awesome guy i am and how it's been a long time since she felt so strong about a guy. She's come back now but says it's better if we meet in the morning for coffee. What do you guys think? I'm not too much of a fan to be honest, sounds too "friendly" and I'd much prefer late night at my place. What do you guys think? She friend zoning me? Or is it a shit test? Perhaps she wants me to say i'm too busy in the morning so that I come across as scarce?

 

[Franco]

killerman,

I think it's fair of her to want to meet you for a "pseudo-date" if she's been gone that long. However, I would also make sure the logistics are there to bed her since anything else is just a waste of your time. Generally, morning invites are more of a "let's get together before I go to work" type of thing rather than "let's leave time to hook up afterward."

If it were me, I would probably tell her mornings aren't good for me, but I'm down to meet in the evening for coffee or drinks, whichever she prefers. That leaves the rest of the evening open to taking her back to your place should things go well.

I always consider these types of things to be a "re-date" just to build comfort again before you two have sex. You'll probably have plenty to talk about over drinks or coffee since she's been away for six months.

- Franco