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Hi Everyone,
I have a question and am dying to hear your input into what you guys would do. I have a shy chinese girl in my college class who I have been interested in for 2 months now. Due to the structure of the class, I have only spoken to her twice, all of them surrounding the class, ie, was there homework due. Recently, I got to know another girl who is her friend in class through another friend of mine. Therefore, there are two girls in class, the girl I am interested in and the other who is her friend, who I have no interest in. I recently kind of ran into the girl I like while walking out of class and struck up a very brief conversation with her.
At first, I asked if she would be interested in getting coffee, which she mistakenly thought I wanted to get with her then. She said she had class so I asked her for her phone number which she said yes to.
I later texted:
"Hi, this is ______, save my number!"
to which she replied:
"Alirght, my name is ___________" (I already knew her name from before)
Then, about 4 hours later, I texted her:
"Hi ________ I'd like to get coffee with you sometime, when would you be free? =)"
I sent this 3 days ago and she still hasn't responded. I saw her in class today but didn't have a chance to talk to her as I needed to talk with the professor. At this point, what mistake did I make? Did I move too fast without building enough of a connection?
My game plan now is to basically text her again, saying "Hi, ________ I just finished my midterms this week, lets grab coffee sometime!, when r u free?"
If she doesn't respond again, I would make friends with her friend in the class to build rapport and then hopefully warm her up in a week.
What do you guys think of my plan? Thanks!
I have a question and am dying to hear your input into what you guys would do. I have a shy chinese girl in my college class who I have been interested in for 2 months now. Due to the structure of the class, I have only spoken to her twice, all of them surrounding the class, ie, was there homework due. Recently, I got to know another girl who is her friend in class through another friend of mine. Therefore, there are two girls in class, the girl I am interested in and the other who is her friend, who I have no interest in. I recently kind of ran into the girl I like while walking out of class and struck up a very brief conversation with her.
At first, I asked if she would be interested in getting coffee, which she mistakenly thought I wanted to get with her then. She said she had class so I asked her for her phone number which she said yes to.
I later texted:
"Hi, this is ______, save my number!"
to which she replied:
"Alirght, my name is ___________" (I already knew her name from before)
Then, about 4 hours later, I texted her:
"Hi ________ I'd like to get coffee with you sometime, when would you be free? =)"
I sent this 3 days ago and she still hasn't responded. I saw her in class today but didn't have a chance to talk to her as I needed to talk with the professor. At this point, what mistake did I make? Did I move too fast without building enough of a connection?
My game plan now is to basically text her again, saying "Hi, ________ I just finished my midterms this week, lets grab coffee sometime!, when r u free?"
If she doesn't respond again, I would make friends with her friend in the class to build rapport and then hopefully warm her up in a week.
What do you guys think of my plan? Thanks!
