Mr gils way to abudance

[mrgil]

Hey guys.

Ive been reading girlschase since i started going out and talking to women three years ago in 2012. (after I broke up with my depressed girlfriend)
Since then i've had a lot of fun, and met tons of girls.
I've had sex without around 90 new girls since then, and had threesomes and gangbangs and a lot of fun stuff.
But lately i've had this feeling that I need to take this to the next level, I feel that the last year has been to comfortable and that I have hit a plateu.
So I thought I should start writing field reports again and set new goals to contribute to the forum
and in the meantime give myself a good old kick in the ass.

My goals for this year are:

- Reach a total state of abundance with women
- Become a man that women find sexually irresistible
- Always meet girls sober, NO ALCOHOL, PERIOD
- Daygame at least 3 times a week, nightgame at least 2 times a week.
- Meet and date girls of only the top caliber
- Dont waste time with girls I am not interested in
- Be a ceo of my own life and have stronger personal boundaries than before, (no negative people around me, only people who are positive)
- Set high goals for myself and achieve them
- Have the ultimate body for a sexy man

 

[mrgil]

LR : Milf

Start the night with opening people on the street.
I just do some simple opens, just say hello, and ask if they know any good places around.. just to warm myself up.

I never take the first approaches of the night to seriously, I just use them to get out of my head and see where things go.

The first venue I go to for the night is a club with loud music. I see an Asian girl in the corner of my eye, and I give her a strong look and say Hello.
She is eager to get back to her girlfriends but to get the most out of the set I get her to stay as long as possible.
We chat for 2-3 minutes and then I leave.

The second set is a brunette. I open her when shes on her way back up from the toilet.
I just say "hi, whats your name" With a big smile and strong eye contact.
She is a bit shy and I try to get her to invest, but she holds back a bit.
I position my self a bit closer to her to get some tension going. She smiles.
When i feel that the interaction is halting Instead of moving her (which I should have done) I go for the number.
Which she gives me and I send her a text 15 minutes later.

Next venue is a bar, much more quiet and lower energy than the first place, but with more dudes out to pick up women.

I start to open girls in the queue, just to keep the momentum up.

Inside the bar I instantly open a girl who is standing with her friends.
I Start with chatting them both up and flirting with both of them equally so one of them will not ruin it and take another of them with her.
After a while one of the friends ( the one I am not interested in walks away to leave me with her friend)
I chat my target up for a while, try to get some investment from her, but she wont. Instead she is a bit sceptic and abstinent.
She asks me if I am out alound and I get a bit reactive and show her my friends (should have just kept unreactive and smiled, ignored and moved on).

I then decide to counter attack with being pro active and move her to the bar and get something to drink, There I meet her last friend who is the leader of the 3. She likes me and gives approval.
But then I see a milf I have seen in this venue before, and I ditch the set.
I instantly move away from the 3 girls and open her instead.

(I have a thing for milfs)

Its on at once and I start speaking to her in her ear and then lean back and look her in the eyes.
She says that she too old for me, ( i am 25 , she is 43) but then I remind her that I love older women and that I could have been
talking with all the other women in this bar but I chose her. She agrees that this is a good point.
I ask her who she is out with, and she says she is alone. (boom its on)
Then i screen her, where she lives and I say lets go.
I grab her by the arm and move her outside to get a taxi.

At her place I find out that she is on her period, but she lets me fuck her anyway.
She is so drunk that when the sex starts I decide to just stop, and say that we can do this
another time when she is sober. She says okey.
The next day I wake up and think to myself maybe it is time to go back to meeting younger women again?

Notes

-Be unreactive to tests, just ignore, smile and move on to another topic.
-

 

[ray_zorse]

Hey man, good to hear about your impressive stats, looking forward to some more sexy journal entries. Subscribed. Thought you might want to check out this article, since you said you're planning on daygaming 3 times a week. Integrating it into your daily routine could save you a lot of time and trouble. For an example of how I implement the strategy, see my journal. That link is actually to a pretty unproductive day, but it illustrates how you just integrate approaching into whatever you do.
Ray

 

[mrgil]

Thanks man, great article. Daygame is definetly the one thing that I havent done enough.
Will implement these ideas!

 

[mrgil]

Major appifany today as I was thinking of all the girls I have met up till now and why I sometimes dont take Action when I should.
Instead of just doing it, I sometimes look for the "perfect" timing, the "perfect" moment,
I should be surrendering to imperfection, instead of looking for pefection.
This is especially true for daygame, where I often bail out from
approaching the hottest women. I think I need to come up with something "better" to say to the hotties than the other women I meet.

From now on I will focus more on surrendering to imperfection, surrendering to the here and now, and dont focus on perfection which
leads to anziety, fear, stress and all the other bullshit that stops you from doing what you know you should.

This is also true for my career, where I work my ass of, and seldom enjoy the results and praise I get.
I should be looking for good quality in the overall picture instead of perfection in the small details.

Perfectionism means it drives you nuts to see a little hair out of place, a little dust on your table, a little digital smudge on your picture, a little food on your child’s clothes, a little something that then takes away the entire focus on what’s right and what’s good and puts all attention on the minuscule details that nobody but you cares about.

Perfection means you simply cannot be content with what is.

Whereas high quality means you have done a good job, you have served the higher purpose, you have been useful and helpful and resourceful, you have put in your best efforts, and you have met the bar and even exceeded it without obsessing about small tiny details.

Seek High Quality. Not perfection.

When we surrender to the moment, to change, to messiness or imperfection, we allow the seeds of excellence to grow. Excellence is that drive toward raising ourselves up to our own highest good thereby allowing our unique gifts, talents, and personalities to benefit the highest good of all.

Excellence, unlike perfectionism, is about lovingly pushing ourselves to act, think, relate, and create from the highest part of ourselves.

 

[mrgil]

Mr gil,

Good to see you on here. Its funny I looked at your list of goals for this year and they look nearly identical to my own, fitness, quality, personal boundaries etc... Looks like we've had similar experiences with lots of night game, and are both interested in stepping it up to new levels this year. The boards have been a great way for me to organize and track thought patterns and progress. Can't wait to see more and hopefully share some ideas on how to define and hit that next level .

Cheers,

Radeng

Yeah, sharing is caring

 

[mrgil]

LR : Sweet blonde

I am back in my hometown.

I start the night with some old friends, we have a few beers (still difficult to not drink when I am going out with friends, guess its just a habit thats deeply ingrained need to take this seriously and not drink the next time)

We step out the door, and I start to warm up with stopping girls on the street, I cant get them to stop,
which I find unusual. Maybe I am a bit out of it today? I decide to just push through it and continue

We go to a club/bar. The music is loud, but you can still have a conversation if you use your voice properly.

I realize that my mind is trying to find more excuses for not opening when I am back in my hometown, its like some of my old habits from
before I started to go out and meet girls proactively, I guess its also because my friends knew me from back then and my subconcious wants to show them
how much better i have become

I open a large set of girls, probably about 7 girls just standing in the middle of the dance floor.
I open one of them, but after we have shaked hands she stops to talk with me and start to talk with her friend instead.
I just stand there and decide to talk with her friend on the other side of her, this girls seems disinterested and aloof, and I just stand there
for a while to feel the awkwardness. After a while I decide to talk with a third friend, she is much more committed to the conversation
and I ask her a bit about where she is from and we chat a bit. I decide to leave the set after a while, when I realize one of my other friends
has already opened her.

Then I just stand still and again I get the feeling that I should open some new girls, but I dont take action. (its like my mind is telling me I have something to loose because
I am back in my hometown)
Stupid brain

So i devide to take up more space, and I casually lean on a table where 5 girls are sitting.
I say hi and find out that I went to high school with two of the girls.
We chat a bit, and I flirt a little with the most chubby of them.
After a long chat with her, where I talk my value down, and then qualify her on her cultural interests (to be on her level of value)
I see two of the girls are looking at our conversation, I decide to jump in and introduce myself.

The fear of loosing has at this point disappeared and I feel at ease in the environment,
I see that the large group of 7 girls are still rejecting guys on the dancefloor and are throwing casual
looks over to where I am standing now the center of attention in my new group of girls.
Preselection is strong stuff

I chat a bit with one of the girls, but I am more interested in her blonde sister.
so Instead of continuing to talk with her I turn my focus on her sister, which is just sitting there all quiet.
We chat for a bit, and we start to hit it off. I lean in and tell her she smells nice and has a sexy dress, and then look her strong in the eyes.
A lot of tension. When her sister goes to the bathroom, I ask her what she is doing later. She says she is going back to her place with her
sober pregnant sister. I tell her i can sleep at her place, afterparty. She hesitates, but I just sit there with and unreactive grin on my face.
She has to talk with her sister,
she talks with her sister,
the sister approves.

We go to her place, go to her bed, goodtimes

 

[Lotus]

You make it seem so simple

 

[mrgil]

Feeling sad after ons

So ive had sex with 3 new girls since I last wrote here.

The first one was really fun and all that.


Problem was that i felt that the last two were "below my value" and I felt really bad
afterwards. I wrote a question on the general board here, would appreciate your thoughts on the questions.
https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=10683&p=52684#p52684

 

[mrgil]

Update:

I really cant remember the last time I did not have a drink when I went out, it must be 2 years ago at least.
Its also been a long time since I went one month sober.

Ive actually pulled myself together, and stopped drinking for one month now, (will continue to do so)

In some ways it feel like a level up, but of course I cant rely anymore on the booze to get me in a social mood,
so I have to warm up much more than Ive been used to for the last 2 years.

Reasons for not drinking alcohol anymore

- Felt I was starting to stagnate and actually getting worse, because I was becoming more and more reliant on alcohol to have good nights.
- Wamt to reach a higher level of self-esteem, not relying on external factors to feel good.
- Dont want to loose one or two days of the week due to heavy drinking. More time to accomplish my goals.
- Health, my body looks better, my skin looks better, more testosterone, more willpower, less emotional highs and lows.
- Its expensive.
- Its a crutch, and it only gets bigger and bigger the older you get.

I realize that It will be hard work, because I have so many good experiences from drinking, which will probably for some time make my brain tell
me that I "need" it in order to feel good. But in the end I know that it will pay off big time.