I always find that classic Eazy-E songs help me get in the mood. My favorites for seduction are "Automobile" and "Gimme that nut".
The song "Automobile" by Eazy E will definitely get the point across to your girl, she will understand what you expect from her, I never used it but I highly recommend you use it.
If you wanna play it safe you can always go with that boy band, I think its called one erection or somthin, maybe throw in some of that beaver kid in there too, girls seem to love those kids, I think those are more the artists you're probably looking for.... oh and you can't go wrong with Gwen Stefani
But in all half seriousness, I would use Frank Sinatra (masculine, calm, nothing too distracting), have "Automobile" just in case you want to have some fun, and remember to have "Cold as Ice" by Foreigner on standby in case she rejects you.
I hope that helped