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Rakehell

Cro-Magnon Man
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Hello Girls Chase, hope your weekends are going well. My last few weeks of school are coming up so i’m tying up a few loose ends before finals.

I was eating lunch today when something reminded me of a lesson i’d learn some time ago that has helped me with most problems i’ve faced.

Its a bit difficult to put this into words so forgive me if anything may be a little unclear despite my best efforts to articulate.

If any of you have been in any psychology related courses you’ve probably heard of this phenomena before, “insight”.

Its defined as: the clear and often sudden discernment of a solution to a problem by means that are not obvious and may never become so, even after one has tried hard to work out how one has arrived at the solution.”

In other words as if god put the solution in your head, you have a moment of enlightenment in which you’re able to solve a problem that you had been unable to. The means in which you found the solution are almost never clear but nevertheless it hits you.

A cheat sheet for these insights is to step away from whatever problem you face. This can be done by meditation, completing some other task, or literally stepping away.

Clearing your mind of the problem at hand and then coming back to it will almost always provide you with an insight. I believe this is because when a problem proves too difficult it is easy to become frustrated. This causes creative lanes of thinking to be blocked by your own frustration.

Furthermore leaving the problem and returning once the frustration has subsided allows you to access all of your subconscious knowledge so that you may see the problem from every angle.

This can be utilized in seduction in many ways. I’ll give you guys one. If you have a major sticking point and cant seem to implement any fore written advice to your specific problem.

Clear your mind so that you may re analyze your interactions later. This allows you to answer your own problem without needing any outside advice. This is because paths are often obvious and if you read alot about seduction you almost always know the right answer. But life isn’t a video game so you can’t pause and think about it in the moment.

Re analyze and find the answer, that way when you have a similar interaction the answer to your situation will be 10 times more apparent. It’ll be like a deja vu moment in which you are able to react effortlessly.

There are many other creative ways to use insight in seduction but i’m spent so i’ll let you guys figure that out for yourself. Perhaps you’ll get too frustrated looking for new ways and have to do an insight ritual for more insight rituals.

Hope this resonates with anyone facing difficulty it can be applied to many aspects in life.

Peace
 

Souverain

Space Monkey
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Thanks for sharing Sunking. Applies to me bc far too often, frustration leads to hyperfocus which then fucks up my approach to the problem. Should keep this in mind
 

Chase

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Nice post, @sunking.

To anyone who's new to meditation, I have an article from a little while back that's about exactly this (taking a step back to reflect on things with meditation):


Chase
 
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