Must You Be in the Top 1% of Men to Do Well with Women?

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So 25% of men miss out? Not saying that's untrue, but it's not 'nothing'.

I didn't say it was nothing... Less people are reportedly having sex now than ever before (in record)...



If the OP improves his fundamentals and/or game, he now in the top 75% and gets laid. Good for him. But to get there, someone had to drop out of that top 75% and replace OP in the lower 25%. So now someone else misses out.

That is some supremely scarcity minded shit right there... the percentage of people not having sex decreases, it doesn't mean because you get laid, someone else is unable to. It means, if you get laid, you increase the percentage of people getting laid and decrease the percentage of people not getting laid.

That's how math actually works.

To demonstrate this.... super simple example. Lets say a person from bottom 25% was really overweight, they then lose weight, even gain small amount of muslce. Okay. Now they're above alot of others *even if* those others did not gain weight at all, they stayed the same. They did not get fat, they did not get objectively worse. But in comparison ie subjectively, to this previously super overweight person, now they look worse. So now one of the mr average, looks worse ,not better, in comparison to the new mr toned. And the one that perhaps looks the most average or the worse game compared to the other mr average is the one who drops into the bottom 25%. Weight is only one thing, but you get my point?

This only makes sense if the percentages don't change and there's a lower and upper percentage that you're trying to get into.

Since percentages change and you're not trying to get into the 75%, you're increasing the 75% to 76%, all of this is invalid and not relevant.

The point is, someone always misses out based on this only 75% of men get laid statistic and/or theory. The solution to that problem is not "get more fundamentals and game" because then other men drop out of 75%. Those that drop out don't get laid.
The pool of people in the 75% who get laid does not get larger, just when someone moves up, someone else moves down.
More fundamentals or game helps one individual, at the cost of another individual. So its a vicious cycle, 25% of men don't get laid. That specific problem of all men not getting I wonder what a solution might be?

Get out of scarcity and get into abundance... you can have something AND the guys in the 75% can have something... you don't take away from someone because you get some pussy.

Demonstrate to me how everyone can be a winner, I'm listening. First you'll have to disprove what I wrote a few posts up, and so far you either don't comprehend what I wrote or are trolling.

By changing what winning means... if you think that being a winner means that you have to beat someone, take from someone, or put someone down, then someone wins and someone loses.

If you think being a winner means that you get what you want in life, you design and create your life by choice, you accomplish your goals and work towards the life you want to live, everyone can be a winner.

It's the difference between scarcity and abundance.
 

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I've been with women before. The point I'm making isn't "how can an individual get laid". The point I'm making is "can all men get laid at the same time or do some men miss out always"? That's my question.
By changing what winning means... if you think that being a winner means that you have to beat someone, take from someone, or put someone down, then someone wins and someone loses.
the percentage of people not having sex decreases, it doesn't mean because you get laid, someone else is unable to. It means, if you get laid, you increase the percentage of people getting laid and decrease the percentage of people not getting laid.

That's how math actually works.
Get out of scarcity and get into abundance... you can have something AND the guys in the 75% can have something... you don't take away from someone because you get some pussy.
The 75% figure isn't locked, according to you. If one man gets more game or fundamentals, gets laid, now the figure changes to 76%.
That's good.
So are you saying 100% of men can get laid at the same time if they all put in the effort, or will some miss out? Don't reframe my question to "how can xyz person get laid". This question is a broader question.
 
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@Rain

I actually answered your question. Are you looking for an answer or are you looking for a specific issue in your life?

I can smell who you are.
You need that super red, darker than red pill, because everyone has been lying to you. Not Girlschase members.

I mean your family, friends, school.

Here's that red pill, darker than red pill. You insist on it. There you go.

Do some men missed out? Hell yeah


z@c+
 

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I've been with women before.

I didn't say you hadn't. I was just giving an example.

The point I'm making isn't "how can an individual get laid". The point I'm making is "can all men get laid at the same time or do some men miss out always"? That's my question.

That's not what you were proposing... what you were proposing is that if someone entered the 75% then someone must leave the 75%... which is true... but we're not talking about 75% of men always get laid... we're talking about 75% of men having sex with a woman in the last year... in other years, it's been a lot more than 75% who have gotten laid or it could be less in future years... it might be 67% one year. It might be 80% another year.

That's what we're actually talking about, not whether all men can get laid or not... which they all could since a woman isn't something that goes away if you fuck her... she can fuck multiple men in a year, just like you can fuck multiple women.

AND, there are more women on the planet than men.

The 75% figure isn't locked, according to you.

It's not according to me, dude... it's according to math. If there are 100 men and 75 of them get laid, that's 75%. If 80 of them get laid, that's 80%.

It's simple math.

What you're turning it into is that 75% of men get laid... are you going to be in the 75%? If so, you replace someone who was in the 75% and it stays 75%... but that's not how math works in this case.

If one man gets more game or fundamentals, gets laid, now the figure changes to 76%.
That's good.

It is good.

So are you saying 100% of men can get laid at the same time if they all put in the effort, or will some miss out? Don't reframe my question to "how can xyz person get laid". This question is a broader question.

Why would I reframe your question?

Of course... Theoretically, 100% of men could get laid. I don't think there's ever been a point in modern history where that's ever been even remotely the case... not even close... and I'd say that's probably the same for women... there have always been old ladies and old dudes and retards and guys who can't get laid and women who fuck everything up with guys they want and end up lonely, single, and without sex for years on end.

A lot of people aren't trying to have sex because they have too much pain around sex, intimacy, and the opposite sex... or their own issues around their own sexuality.

Some aren't looking because they want to focus on other areas of their lives and find this too time consuming and not worth it (men and women).

Could 100% of men have sex? Sure... will that ever happen? Not likely... and for a variety of different reasons.

And you don't need to build your fundamentals to do it... just get a prostitute... and you'll be in the 75% immediately.
 

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That's not what you were proposing... what you were proposing is that if someone entered the 75% then someone must leave the 75%... which is true
So it is true then. Well hangon, in this context, you have said yes thats true but its not what you're talking about. It's true for something. So when you said yes its true, what did you mean?
 

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So it is true then. Well hangon, in this context, you have said yes thats true but its not what you're talking about. It's true for something. So when you said yes its true, what did you mean?

What I'm saying is true is in your interpretation of it... if 75% of men get laid every year and it's always 75% and never more or less... then what you're saying would be true.

That's not how it works though. That's not true every year... it's a different percentage every single year. It's not like, "Oh, the top 75% of men get laid"... it was just 75% of men (roughly) in the time when they did the studies on it, which was around 2018/2019.

When you talk about the 1%, that is how it works because it's always going to be 1%... no more, no less. But 75% is the percentage of dudes who got laid last year... this year it might be 80% or 70% or any other percentage... we won't know until the end of the year, assuming they do a research study on it.

So you can get laid (not you specifically but generally) and the number will increase... or it might decrease if lots of guys don't get laid. You're not in the top 75% of men, you're just a dude who got laid and 75% of other men got laid as well, at least once.

Does that make sense to you?

How did this turn into a basic math class?

Top 1% of guys = never changes percentage

75% of guys got laid = changes because the number of men who have sex changes every year
 

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What I'm saying is true is in your interpretation of it... if 75% of men get laid every year and it's always 75% and never more or less... then what you're saying would be true.

That's not how it works though. That's not true every year... it's a different percentage every single year. It's not like, "Oh, the top 75% of men get laid"... it was just 75% of men (roughly) in the time when they did the studies on it, which was around 2018/2019.
It's confusing to me.

75% changes year on year, beause the number of men who got laid, that year, changes. That I fully understand, yep.
1% doesn't change. This I'm not sure all variables are covered. Why are the same rules not applicable to 1% in this statistics? is it just assumed that 1% of men will always get laid? What if one year only 0.1% got laid?
I think your answer would be that would be very very unlikely, technically possible but so unlikely.

But, talking about the 1%, that's locked?
Lets say Man J is at 90pts on the male game/fundamentals hierarchy. That's good fundamentals/game. So maybe he's in the top 1%?

Then suddenly every man, goes and reads gc or whatever, now every other man besides man J, somehow, gets 95, 96 and some even 99 points worth of game and fundamentals hierarchy.

So now, man J loses out, and its not because man J lost his job or his drive or anything, man J himself still sitting at 90points on the hierarchy.... so even though man J didn't "get worse", other men "got better" so now man J misses out, and he hadn't even done anything wrong.

That's the objective vs subjective thing I was demonstarting before.

But lets clarify something. In the example above where everyone is on 95+pts, but man J is on 90. Even though hes on a solid 90pts, because all those other men improved and are now more pts than him, does that mean, man J doesn't get laid or does that mean man J gets laid but only with the lowest end of the looks/nurturing woman hierarchy?

Because remember ,even though objectively he's on 90pts, subjectively[in comparison to the other men] hes below all of them now every single one.

That's what we're actually talking about, not whether all men can get laid or not... which they all could since a woman isn't something that goes away if you fuck her... she can fuck multiple men in a year, just like you can fuck multiple women.
If a bunch of men and a women have a traditional monogamous LTR and the bulk of them stick to it, so forgetting 'outliers' who might not stick to traditional monogamous, she most definitely disappears off the dating market and won't be fucking other men. That man would disappear off the market as well.
 

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But lets clarify something. In the example above where everyone is on 95+pts, but man J is on 90. Even though hes on a solid 90pts, because all those other men improved and are now more pts than him, does that mean, man J doesn't get laid or does that mean man J gets laid but only with the lowest end of the looks/nurturing woman hierarchy?

Let's say

That Zac is now a billionaire (YEAY) and that he eats at a coffee shop. Does this mean that someone replaces him at the high end luxury restaurant?


lowest end of the looks/nurturing woman hierarchy?

Looks and nurturing are two different subjectives. Then after that, Now, Objective is sex. Okay got you. But then sub objective is hierarchy. Okay got you.

1)You believe that game and hierarchy only is getting laid.

2)And then you start arguing using pointers as example to note that J get laid because he has more points.

3)Man reads GC is now worth 99 points worth of game hierarchy.

Errrr......

You gotta be careful that you don't get stuck in your own wiring and are disingenuous about the whole question.

Becsuse I see the 'pillars' of the argument is not definite and clear, and it keeps moving and you keep adding subjectives without recognizing it.

z@c+
 

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Ok guys.

I need tips. I actually have meet the final boss for Girlschase.com

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It's confusing to me.

Well, then we'll skip algebra and write calculus off completely.

75% changes year on year, beause the number of men who got laid, that year, changes. That I fully understand, yep.
1% doesn't change. This I'm not sure all variables are covered. Why are the same rules not applicable to 1% in this statistics? is it just assumed that 1% of men will always get laid? What if one year only 0.1% got laid?

Because 1% isn't the percentage of dudes getting laid... it's some percentage of something... we'd have to define what 1% is...

If we're saying top 1% of income earners... you'd have to make a certain amount of money to be in that category and if you get into that category, you'll bump out other people.

If we're saying 1% of guys having sex with multiple women, we're talking about the dudes (one guy) who fuck(s) hundreds+ women a year. If you take one of their spots, you remove someone else from that spot.

1% stays the same because we're counting the 1%, not how much money they have or how many girls they slept with.

If only .1% of people got laid, we're taking the guys who had the most sex in the .1% of people... so it's 1% of .1%.

Or the case of guys who had sex last year, 1% of 75% (assuming the top 1% is dudes who had the most sex).

But, talking about the 1%, that's locked?
Lets say Man J is at 90pts on the male game/fundamentals hierarchy. That's good fundamentals/game. So maybe he's in the top 1%?

We'd have to define what 1% is... is it guys with the best game? That's fairly meaningless because wtf does that even mean? There are guys who get laid a lot and have no game (celebrities, really good looking guys, etc) and guys who get laid a lot because of their positions (porn stars, pimps, djs, certain performers, many that mix with the other group) and guys who get laid a lot because they are decent looking and have really low standards (bottom feeding, dumpster diving dudes, guys in certain third world countries) and guys who get laid a lot and have really high levels of game (first world guys who just have great game).

So we'd need to figure out what dudes we're talking about and what that even means... which is why number of sex partners or wealth income earners or something would be a better figure than guys who have good game, since wtf does that even mean?

Then suddenly every man, goes and reads gc or whatever, now every other man besides man J, somehow, gets 95, 96 and some even 99 points worth of game and fundamentals hierarchy.

So now, man J loses out, and its not because man J lost his job or his drive or anything, man J himself still sitting at 90points on the hierarchy.... so even though man J didn't "get worse", other men "got better" so now man J misses out, and he hadn't even done anything wrong.

That's the objective vs subjective thing I was demonstarting before.

The problem is... wtf does 95 points on the hierarchy mean? What is he missing out on? Wtf are we talking about?

But lets clarify something. In the example above where everyone is on 95+pts, but man J is on 90. Even though hes on a solid 90pts, because all those other men improved and are now more pts than him, does that mean, man J doesn't get laid or does that mean man J gets laid but only with the lowest end of the looks/nurturing woman hierarchy?

Because remember ,even though objectively he's on 90pts, subjectively[in comparison to the other men] hes below all of them now every single one.

Dude, stop overthinking this shit and just go out, learn stuff, and keep trying different things until you're sticking your dick in girls all the time.

If a bunch of men and a women have a traditional monogamous LTR and the bulk of them stick to it, so forgetting 'outliers' who might not stick to traditional monogamous, she most definitely disappears off the dating market and won't be fucking other men. That man would disappear off the market as well.

We're obviously not talking about America or Western Europe, not sure what mythical land exists where these people are all fucking one person and staying in relationships all the time. I've been to a lot of places around the world and never found this place... sure EE is more like this than other places, some places in Asia too but there are plenty of men and women who are just fucking each other and leaving each other in all of those places.

Are you in the middle east or something? I think it's mostly dudes banging other dudes there for sport and women as the ones they impregnate.
 

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That Zac is now a billionaire (YEAY) and that he eats at a coffee shop. Does this mean that someone replaces him at the high end luxury restaurant?
If you were previously eating at a luxury restaurant, and then changed to a coffee shop at the same time as getting more money, ... I don't understand the connection? Wouldn't the question be "who did Zac overtake to be in a position to eat at the luxury?"

1)You believe that game and hierarchy only is getting laid.

2)And then you start arguing using pointers as example to note that J get laid because he has more points.

3)Man reads GC is now worth 99 points worth of game hierarchy.

Errrr......
Besides game or fundamentals, what else does one need? Prostitutes don't count in this context.
Points can be a way to show who is better at something. Like how guys use it to rate women.

3) Errrrr [LOL] :D
But seriously, what I meant by 99pts should have added 99pts out of 100max.
Someone works on their game and fundamentals and is now at 99pts, when they were previously at 50 or 70 or 20.
The point was, if someone like J had worked hard on game and fundamentals and gotten experience, and he was sitting at 90pts... then someone comes along and does even better.

Its not that J got slack.... the others put in a bit extra, and now they're ahead of J.

Think of it like the number system men use to rate women. Except we apply it to men, and its not based on looks. It's based on your level of fundamentals and game.

So, that youtube you mentioned earlier, the 'left over' unmarried women ,yes that I feel bad for the ones that are left over.

We'd have to define what 1% is... is it guys with the best game? That's fairly meaningless because wtf does that even mean? There are guys who get laid a lot and have no game (celebrities, really good looking guys, etc) and guys who get laid a lot because of their positions (porn stars, pimps, djs, certain performers, many that mix with the other group) and guys who get laid a lot because they are decent looking and have really low standards (bottom feeding, dumpster diving dudes, guys in certain third world countries) and guys who get laid a lot and have really high levels of game (first world guys who just have great game).

So we'd need to figure out what dudes we're talking about and what that even means... which is why number of sex partners or wealth income earners or something would be a better figure than guys who have good game, since wtf does that even mean?
You tell me, you're the experienced one. Maybe you could put some of looks under fundamentals like bodyfat %. But some aspects of things like face shape would be out of your control.

This 1% thing seems to be based on a theory that 1% of men get.... You know what? This isn't to do with my argument.

My argument is you have a looks rating system for women. 10 is the max. Take that system, change it from 'looks the best 10' to 'best game and best fundametals makes the male 10'

The thing is, anyone[besides outliers maybe some retarded people you mentioned] can learn game, right? Anyone[besides outliers] can improve their fundamentals? That's what the gc site says, most men can improve their game and/or fundamentals. Game is not looks. Game is not money. Those would come under fundamentals, or they would have their own category.
Maybe status could come under game.

Game is technical things, eg verbal game, maybe indirect game, maybe leading her here or there asking her home, kino/touch eg touching her arm.
Fundamentals mighte be posture/standing up straight, fashion, things

From this thread about game or fundamentals

I understand about LMS, but simply using game + fundamentals as a barometer, was a way to keep the argument simple. I'm also not sure how significant much LMS makes a difference considered its not one of the main things pushed for on the main website. Either way, back to the argument, the idea was to keep it simple.
What I'm saying with the points on the hierarchy, was keeping it simple and not looking at outliers[retarded people you mentioned for example] and if most men can learn top notch game, they can overtake another man.

Man J reads gc and learns about game, goes out gets experience 2days a week for a year. Now he does well with women. 90pts out of 100pts on the hierarchy. He gets with 9s and 10s.

But then, every other man reads gc and learns about game, but they do this 7days a week.So eventually they actually overtake man J, because even though man J is up there at 90pts of game out of 100max, these other guys put in even more effort and got more game. so they bang more women. The women these 95pts men now have the opportunity to sleep with, aren't interested in J anymore. J is now lower than these other men due to having less game[his 90pts vs 95pts]. But 90pts[verbal game good, good at leading etc, fundamentals good good fashion, stands up straight etc] out of 100pts in and of itself is quite good. These other guys have even better fashion or stand up a tiny bit more straighter or okay thats fundamentals but you get my drift. They get 'even better' in comparison, better game or better fundamentals and boom.

To demonstrate this male ranking system eg the male equivalent of a 9 or 10.
Check method B) example II, below.

There's different ways of grading a high school class of people, right?
Method A) Anyone over 90 correct answers out of 100 questions, gets an A.

Method B) The top 10% of people get an A regardleess of what their answers were in and of themselves.
example I) That means if you only get 50 correct answers out of 100 questions, but the rest of the class got 49questions right, you get an A.
example II) It also means, if you got 92 answers right out of 100 questions, but all your classmates got 95 answers right out of 100 questions, you get an F.

That example II) is what I've been trying to communicate.
J might get 92 answers correct out of 100, which is really really good , ya know? But then if every other man improves their game/fundamentals or in your case LMS, and all these other men except J now get 95 questions right out of 100... Boom. J now at the bottom , despite 90 questions right out of 100 questions being quite good, in and of itself.

TO put it another way. You have a limited number of "10s" and if more men compete for a limited number of 10s, not every man can have a 10.
You have to overtake a man , or have a man fall below you, to get with a 10, if she's already dating a 'male 90pt hierarchy'.

Like I mentioned to Zac, my question, was if every man came here and got better with women, they can't all get a 10 or even a desireable woman, someone will miss out. And the more recent clarification was , does missing out mean they get no woman at all, or does it mean they do get a woman[if equal population of men and women if you really want to add nuance] but the woman they get is a 1?

Here's another example. Even though a persons height is 'locked', you can wear height shoes.
Say man J is 6'4, quite tall. Not just on comparison to others, but tall in and of itself.
Then next day, all other men wear super height increasing shows they're all appear to be, 6'7. Boom
Even though J is 6'4 and thats tall in and of itself, the competition increased SO much, NOT because you did anything wrong, just because they put in much more work make their shoes bigger.
But replace 'height increasing shoes' with "game" and that's what I'm trying to demonstrate. Even if you dont "lose your job" if every unemployed person and currently employed person, goes and gets a better cooler or higher paying or whatever job than you, its not that you 'lost your job' its that others overtook you.

Is this making sense?
And whats the answer to the question? The guy that has now been overtaken ,does he now get what, not laid at all , or he can get laid but only with 1/10 because he now the lowest game in comparison to everyone else now in this secenario?
To be clear, I'm not counting prostitutes. I don't think that's even recommended anywhere on this site.
I know you were just answering the earlier question about 75% getting laid, so you were trying to cover all the bases, but to remove any doubt, this discussion, prostitutes do not count as getting laid.




We're obviously not talking about America or Western Europe, not sure what mythical land exists where these people are all fucking one person and staying in relationships all the time. I've been to a lot of places around the world and never found this place... sure EE is more like this than other places, some places in Asia too but there are plenty of men and women who are just fucking each other and leaving each other in all of those places.

Are you in the middle east or something? I think it's mostly dudes banging other dudes there for sport and women as the ones they impregnate.
First off, what's with the insulting comments? Perhaps a bit surprising to see Tony Robbins in your sig, yet you go around insulting randoms. Knock it off.

Change "all the time" to a LTR that lasts a few months, a few years? Sometimes they even last decades...
Don't forget, how many marriages actually do last till death. 50%? Add in others that do LTR that last months/years and they're off the market for a very very long time.

I found this
60 percent of couples married between the age of 20 -25 will end in divorce.
Those who wait to marry until they are over 25 years old are 24 percent less likely to get divorced.
The average length of a marriage that ends in divorce is 8 years.
So 40% of marriages in ages 20-25 do not end in divorce. And the ones that do divorce, their LTR lasted 8 years.
So they'd be 28-33 when they separate. Are you trying to suggest that the bulk of those married in their younger years are going around sleeping with others and not doing monogamy?
There is one question though, what % of people in those ages are getting married?
Well there's this
  • Number of marriages: 2,015,603
  • Marriage rate: 6.1 per 1,000 total population

So is that marriage that got married this year, or total people 'currently married'?
Found this
Nationwide, nearly half (48.2 percent) of all Americans age 15 and over are married. Less than a third of Americans 15 and up have never married, and nearly 13 percent are either divorced and have not remarried or separated.

Okay but thats over 15. We're talking about 18-24 or 18-34 the younger end of the scale.

There was an gc article recently, on the gc site here, that did a survey.
On average, that means 72% of the 18-24 y/o women you approach and 83% of the 25-34 y/o women you do are not going to be single.
So that contradicts what you're saying. Okay but I did find something that might, keyword might, backup what you're saying
From here it's a graph, so I've taken the 2018 and individual pulldown menu and put the 18-34 results
ages 18-34 in 2018
-51% no steady partner
-28% married or living together
-15% partner living together
-6% married or partner, living apart

That survey, I'm guessing, was asking both men and women, where as the gc one was asking women only. I don't know if that makes one more the truth, than the other.
So 51% no steady partner. I'm very wanting to know why that contradicts with the gc study for the same age group.
Because the gc study says 17% no steady partner. Big difference.
The gss data still indicates, 43% of people are married or living together or partnered and living together[15% + 28%].
So thats nearly half. Add in the partnered but living apart, another 6%, and we have 49%.
Thats significant. Likewise 51% no steady partner is significant too.
 

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If you were previously eating at a luxury restaurant, and then changed to a coffee shop at the same time as getting more money, ... I don't understand the connection? Wouldn't the question be "who did Zac overtake to be in a position to eat at the luxury?"


Besides game or fundamentals, what else does one need? Prostitutes don't count in this context.
Points can be a way to show who is better at something. Like how guys use it to rate women.

3) Errrrr [LOL] :D
But seriously, what I meant by 99pts should have added 99pts out of 100max.
Someone works on their game and fundamentals and is now at 99pts, when they were previously at 50 or 70 or 20.
The point was, if someone like J had worked hard on game and fundamentals and gotten experience, and he was sitting at 90pts... then someone comes along and does even better.

Its not that J got slack.... the others put in a bit extra, and now they're ahead of J.

Think of it like the number system men use to rate women. Except we apply it to men, and its not based on looks. It's based on your level of fundamentals and game.

So, that youtube you mentioned earlier, the 'left over' unmarried women ,yes that I feel bad for the ones that are left over.


You tell me, you're the experienced one. Maybe you could put some of looks under fundamentals like bodyfat %. But some aspects of things like face shape would be out of your control.

This 1% thing seems to be based on a theory that 1% of men get.... You know what? This isn't to do with my argument.

My argument is you have a looks rating system for women. 10 is the max. Take that system, change it from 'looks the best 10' to 'best game and best fundametals makes the male 10'

The thing is, anyone[besides outliers maybe some retarded people you mentioned] can learn game, right? Anyone[besides outliers] can improve their fundamentals? That's what the gc site says, most men can improve their game and/or fundamentals. Game is not looks. Game is not money. Those would come under fundamentals, or they would have their own category.
Maybe status could come under game.

Game is technical things, eg verbal game, maybe indirect game, maybe leading her here or there asking her home, kino/touch eg touching her arm.
Fundamentals mighte be posture/standing up straight, fashion, things

From this thread about game or fundamentals

I understand about LMS, but simply using game + fundamentals as a barometer, was a way to keep the argument simple. I'm also not sure how significant much LMS makes a difference considered its not one of the main things pushed for on the main website. Either way, back to the argument, the idea was to keep it simple.
What I'm saying with the points on the hierarchy, was keeping it simple and not looking at outliers[retarded people you mentioned for example] and if most men can learn top notch game, they can overtake another man.

Man J reads gc and learns about game, goes out gets experience 2days a week for a year. Now he does well with women. 90pts out of 100pts on the hierarchy. He gets with 9s and 10s.

But then, every other man reads gc and learns about game, but they do this 7days a week.So eventually they actually overtake man J, because even though man J is up there at 90pts of game out of 100max, these other guys put in even more effort and got more game. so they bang more women. The women these 95pts men now have the opportunity to sleep with, aren't interested in J anymore. J is now lower than these other men due to having less game[his 90pts vs 95pts]. But 90pts[verbal game good, good at leading etc, fundamentals good good fashion, stands up straight etc] out of 100pts in and of itself is quite good. These other guys have even better fashion or stand up a tiny bit more straighter or okay thats fundamentals but you get my drift. They get 'even better' in comparison, better game or better fundamentals and boom.

To demonstrate this male ranking system eg the male equivalent of a 9 or 10.
Check method B) example II, below.

There's different ways of grading a high school class of people, right?
Method A) Anyone over 90 correct answers out of 100 questions, gets an A.

Method B) The top 10% of people get an A regardleess of what their answers were in and of themselves.
example I) That means if you only get 50 correct answers out of 100 questions, but the rest of the class got 49questions right, you get an A.
example II) It also means, if you got 92 answers right out of 100 questions, but all your classmates got 95 answers right out of 100 questions, you get an F.

That example II) is what I've been trying to communicate.
J might get 92 answers correct out of 100, which is really really good , ya know? But then if every other man improves their game/fundamentals or in your case LMS, and all these other men except J now get 95 questions right out of 100... Boom. J now at the bottom , despite 90 questions right out of 100 questions being quite good, in and of itself.

TO put it another way. You have a limited number of "10s" and if more men compete for a limited number of 10s, not every man can have a 10.
You have to overtake a man , or have a man fall below you, to get with a 10, if she's already dating a 'male 90pt hierarchy'.

Like I mentioned to Zac, my question, was if every man came here and got better with women, they can't all get a 10 or even a desireable woman, someone will miss out. And the more recent clarification was , does missing out mean they get no woman at all, or does it mean they do get a woman[if equal population of men and women if you really want to add nuance] but the woman they get is a 1?

Here's another example. Even though a persons height is 'locked', you can wear height shoes.
Say man J is 6'4, quite tall. Not just on comparison to others, but tall in and of itself.
Then next day, all other men wear super height increasing shows they're all appear to be, 6'7. Boom
Even though J is 6'4 and thats tall in and of itself, the competition increased SO much, NOT because you did anything wrong, just because they put in much more work make their shoes bigger.
But replace 'height increasing shoes' with "game" and that's what I'm trying to demonstrate. Even if you dont "lose your job" if every unemployed person and currently employed person, goes and gets a better cooler or higher paying or whatever job than you, its not that you 'lost your job' its that others overtook you.

Is this making sense?
And whats the answer to the question? The guy that has now been overtaken ,does he now get what, not laid at all , or he can get laid but only with 1/10 because he now the lowest game in comparison to everyone else now in this secenario?
To be clear, I'm not counting prostitutes. I don't think that's even recommended anywhere on this site.
I know you were just answering the earlier question about 75% getting laid, so you were trying to cover all the bases, but to remove any doubt, this discussion, prostitutes do not count as getting laid.





First off, what's with the insulting comments? Perhaps a bit surprising to see Tony Robbins in your sig, yet you go around insulting randoms. Knock it off.

Change "all the time" to a LTR that lasts a few months, a few years? Sometimes they even last decades...
Don't forget, how many marriages actually do last till death. 50%? Add in others that do LTR that last months/years and they're off the market for a very very long time.

I found this



So 40% of marriages in ages 20-25 do not end in divorce. And the ones that do divorce, their LTR lasted 8 years.
So they'd be 28-33 when they separate. Are you trying to suggest that the bulk of those married in their younger years are going around sleeping with others and not doing monogamy?
There is one question though, what % of people in those ages are getting married?
Well there's this


So is that marriage that got married this year, or total people 'currently married'?
Found this


Okay but thats over 15. We're talking about 18-24 or 18-34 the younger end of the scale.

There was an gc article recently, on the gc site here, that did a survey.

So that contradicts what you're saying. Okay but I did find something that might, keyword might, backup what you're saying
From here it's a graph, so I've taken the 2018 and individual pulldown menu and put the 18-34 results


That survey, I'm guessing, was asking both men and women, where as the gc one was asking women only. I don't know if that makes one more the truth, than the other.
So 51% no steady partner. I'm very wanting to know why that contradicts with the gc study for the same age group.
Because the gc study says 17% no steady partner. Big difference.
The gss data still indicates, 43% of people are married or living together or partnered and living together[15% + 28%].
So thats nearly half. Add in the partnered but living apart, another 6%, and we have 49%.
Thats significant. Likewise 51% no steady partner is

 

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Is this making sense?

Dude, you need to stop this shit. It's just mental masturbation.

And whats the answer to the question? The guy that has now been overtaken ,does he now get what, not laid at all , or he can get laid but only with 1/10 because he now the lowest game in comparison to everyone else now in this secenario?

I've answered this question multiple times...

To be clear, I'm not counting prostitutes. I don't think that's even recommended anywhere on this site.

Yeah, but it's included in the numbers of someone getting laid or not. If you have sex with a prostitute, you've had sex.

I know you were just answering the earlier question about 75% getting laid, so you were trying to cover all the bases, but to remove any doubt, this discussion, prostitutes do not count as getting laid.

I don't even know what this discussion is about now... you're talking in circles... are you still talking about someone getting better and knocking someone out because they got better.

Jesus dude, go outside and practice talking to women or practice some scripts or something.

First off, what's with the insulting comments? Perhaps a bit surprising to see Tony Robbins in your sig, yet you go around insulting randoms. Knock it off.

Are you trolling right now?

So 40% of marriages in ages 20-25 do not end in divorce. And the ones that do divorce, their LTR lasted 8 years.
So they'd be 28-33 when they separate. Are you trying to suggest that the bulk of those married in their younger years are going around sleeping with others and not doing monogamy?
There is one question though, what % of people in those ages are getting married?
Well there's this


So is that marriage that got married this year, or total people 'currently married'?
Found this


Okay but thats over 15. We're talking about 18-24 or 18-34 the younger end of the scale.

There was an gc article recently, on the gc site here, that did a survey.

So that contradicts what you're saying. Okay but I did find something that might, keyword might, backup what you're saying
From here it's a graph, so I've taken the 2018 and individual pulldown menu and put the 18-34 results

I'm about 90% sure you're trolling at this point.

That survey, I'm guessing, was asking both men and women, where as the gc one was asking women only. I don't know if that makes one more the truth, than the other.
So 51% no steady partner. I'm very wanting to know why that contradicts with the gc study for the same age group.
Because the gc study says 17% no steady partner. Big difference.
The gss data still indicates, 43% of people are married or living together or partnered and living together[15% + 28%].
So thats nearly half. Add in the partnered but living apart, another 6%, and we have 49%.
Thats significant. Likewise 51% no steady partner is significant too.

Get out of your basement and go meet some women dude.
 

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I'm about 90% sure you're trolling at this point.
Get out of your basement and go meet some women dude.
Are the stats I posted factually incorrect or what? I'm open minded if I'm wrong. You're still being insulting. I know it, everyone else reading it knows it, I'm the only one telling you off for it. Is something I'm saying annoying you?

You made a claim that
We're obviously not talking about America or Western Europe, not sure what mythical land exists where these people are all fucking one person and staying in relationships all the time. I've been to a lot of places around the world and never found this place...

I've made a counter claim, through the girslchase website own survey they ran that 83% of women aged 25-34 and 72% of age 18-24 are not going to be single, and even showed another website with data that 49% are in some sort of LTR. Instead of refuting the data, you just say "go outside bro". That doesn't disprove the data. Your claim is factually incorrect and unless you actually say something to the contrary about that claim, instead of "go outside bro" you haven't disproved anything. You make a claim, back it up.

I've answered this question multiple times...
You have not.
 

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Are the stats I posted factually incorrect or what? I'm open minded if I'm wrong. You're still being insulting. I know it, everyone else reading it knows it, I'm the only one telling you off for it. Something I'm saying must be getting to you.

You made a claim that


I've made a counter claim, through the girslchase website own survey they ran that 83% of women aged 25-34 and 72% of age 18-24 are not going to be single, and even showed another website with data that 49% are in some sort of LTR. Instead of refuting the data, you just say "go outside bro". That doesn't disprove the data. Your claim is factually incorrect and unless you actually say something to the contrary about that claim, instead of "go outside bro" you haven't disproved anything. You make a claim, back it up.


You have not.

This conversation isn't going to help anyone, including you, do anything.

It's all mental masturbation dude.

Stop overthinking shit that doesn't matter... what you're talking about, doesn't matter.

What does matter... going out meeting women, learning from it, learning from people who are better than you at things you're not as good at, changing your approach, getting repetition in.

Do those things and stop trying to argue dumb bullshit on the internet.

If you don't believe what I said, I really don't care. I'm not engaging in your circle jerk of arguing statistics about how many people are fucking each other and what happens if you fuck someone and whether it means someone else didn't fuck someone or not.
 

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Do those things and stop trying to argue dumb bullshit on the internet.

If you don't believe what I said, I really don't care. I'm not engaging in your circle jerk of arguing statistics about how many people are fucking each other and what happens if you fuck someone and whether it means someone else didn't fuck someone or not.
If you've posted something that's significantly inaccurate, that's a problem. By doing that, you're warping reality and spreading it around when its NOT TRUE.
Why did Indian Race Troll get banned? For posting bullshit. Leading people up the wrong path, having multiple accounts. Falsely representing who he was and key point here: misrepresenting the truth.

I find it very surprising you would even think thats okay.
So wait wait wait. Man comes on forum. Says "most women these days fuck without LTR and most women dont have LTR these days bro, nah they're all gone, well in America and Western Europe....the bulk of them nah those babes dont usually do LTR, they'll mostly be single. What land are you living in?????? nah most women dont have LTR no , most are single most most most. all these people in mythical land"

Someone else refutes this. WITH DATA instead of just running their mouth

Original person who made original claim , gets all bent out of shape, "well dont argue with me I'm Vision and I'm right about everything, the truth doesn't matter, go talk to women. rant rant rant."

Like seriously....
 

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If you've posted something that's significantly inaccurate, that's a problem. By doing that, you're warping reality and spreading it around when its NOT TRUE.
Why did Indian Race Troll get banned? For posting bullshit. Leading people up the wrong path, having multiple accounts. Falsely representing who he was and key point here: misrepresenting the truth.

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Rain

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I don't know what you're trying to communicate with that, Vision.
 

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Are the stats I posted factually incorrect or what? I'm open minded if I'm wrong. You're still being insulting. I know it, everyone else reading it knows it, I'm the only one telling you off for it. Is something I'm saying annoying you?
@Rain
Nobody is in agreeance with you bro. @Vision is not even insulting you he's just calling out how this discussion is useless and a waste of time.

What is the purpose and the point you're even trying to make? That it's horrible that the bottom 25% of men won't get any women and if they do improve themselves then that means some other man could potentially lose a partner? Why does that even cross your mind what happens to other men?

Competition is a fact of life and reality is not every man gets to reproduce that's just the way things are it's been like that since humanity started. Feeling sorry for the losers is pointless you can't change the game so that every man gets to win. Just be part of the winning group.
 

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@Rain

What you are doing is evil. Pure CNN BLM kinda BS.

1)You are trying to lure members into an argument
2)and then when they answer, you change the structure below the question by using a part of the question and change it to a completely different setting

3)You have a weakness though. You see the world as who gets more cakes. And if if i don't get cakes, someone else will.

That is a normal question but If you are sincere, you would have find something in that answer of mine.

1)You are not interested in the answer 2)and that you definitely only see A to B but you cannot see the line from A to B.

That number 2 though.

Often times, this is done in unconsciousness, because the brain plaster things together all the time. This post is an example of the brain cannot sees the vehicle to the end.

Think of Females, Generation Z and young boys, today. They really do believe that Cornflakes magically appear on the shelves.

TLDR:

Anyway, You did expose a flaw on the 'PUA community theory' that i believe needs 'fixing'. :) I won't reveal what that flaw is. You could have been a catalyst for starting a new groundbreaking theory But you needed that glory. And that is fine. We all want to win and get our names plastered everywhere.

It doesn't always happen. We can only keep moving.

Bless
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