Hello guys , the everlasting problem that I talked about in the title , is a problem that haunted me for my whole life , it is like , people never gave me value , let me describe that , it's like the first impression I give is that I am a submissive , not respectable , too nice , and underestimated kind of person ( without even saying a word ) , for example I am with a group of people , let's say , for a school project , the first thing they would do is , like shut me up all the time ( although I am the one of the best in the class ) and never care about my oppinion , or say " okay , we'll look at that later " and yeah they never care about it , and this is the case in all aspects of life , also , people always feel free to disrespect me for whatever reason , like they feel dominant in my presence , and the thing that frustrates me is , I try to display confidence , use dominant body language , work out 5 times a week ( 3 times strength training and 2 times with my soccer team ) , and try all things I read in GC but without any outcome , and those things just ruin me with girls and my social life , It's like people don't take me seriously at all and I tried everything , being the mature guy , the funny guy etc...
sidenote , I am not complaining ( and will never complain ) that people are bad , but just wanting to fix something that haunted me for so long , in all places , and I mean all , in my soccer team , the 4 schools I attended etc ... , it just the same impression and same reactions that always repeat , and thank you in advance for your answers
sidenote , I am not complaining ( and will never complain ) that people are bad , but just wanting to fix something that haunted me for so long , in all places , and I mean all , in my soccer team , the 4 schools I attended etc ... , it just the same impression and same reactions that always repeat , and thank you in advance for your answers