My ex is getting married

[ulrich]

Last couple of years have been weird... as I am entering my mid-30s, I have been finding out that several of my old flings (former gfs, fwbs and other girls who I cared for) are getting married.

When I was single, it really made me depressed.

Right now I am dating an amazing sexy, intelligent super cute girl so I am not sad or anything but it stills upsets and confuses me.

Anyway, you got any advice or frame that I could use?
I guess it’s normal, right?

 

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[DarkKnight]

You are experiencing feelings of loss.. It is something you simply have to come to terms with. The reframing will happen unconsciously, just accept it for what it is and focus on the now. I do kind of understand what you are going through, but I didnt experience the feelings of loss as strong. I saw it more as a reminder of the passing of time..