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- Jul 17, 2023
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Meeting:
Writer’s meetup group.
I used “come hither” eye contact sequence. I looked up and caught her eye again, she smiled, I looked away quickly to the right.
At session end, I opened following a linger walk.
Light conversation.
She suggested we meet for coffee instead of instant walk I proposed.
I used Chase’s texting article to set up the date.
I chose a date location with 5 Cs.
09/15/2023
Date:
A) Greeting: I did not like.
B) Small talk: I made some.
C) Deep Conversation+ Relating:
Progression:
Sitting: I told her I’m nervous.
Personal talk: She was business like and challenging-1st attempt to touch, pulled hand away.
Psychology: Personalizing psychology led to intellectual vibe. I touched thigh.
D)Sex topics: She’s a virgin. We discussed Consent in Good Faith and I explained using fun scenarios of having sex. Less/no touch. Humor and vibe.
She talked of wanting relationship-she likes doing things sexually , but she knows herself, etc.
Thread cutting repetitively: Building scenarios of us together in creative situations, trying to move off topic.
Eye contact.
Progression gets fuzzy here-I will not list what happened here.
I reached step E.
E) Decrease in meaningful conversation and increase in touch:
Side body touching-shoulder to hip.
She enthusiastically spoke of meaningless things.
Tried for the kiss. 2 attempts.
2nd attempt I said something that changed mood 180 degrees. She started backward rationalization- I stopped it.
She came back.
She was warm-I decided not to kiss.
We parted ways when I told her to go soon after.
Date duration : 2 hours-2 hours 15 min.
My game:
Deep dive: Yes(start of deep dive:No)
Situational humor: Mostly question form.
Creating stories: Yes
Turning words around: Yes
Touch: Lightly
Cold reads: A couple
NLP: A bit.
My personal learnings I’ve write in a book.
I attempted to set up a date the next day.
Received the following message:
“hey, thanks for taking the time to meet up. I really value honesty, so I wanted to let you know that while I enjoyed our conversation, I didn’t feel a romantic connection. I hope we can both appreciate the clarity, best of luck in everything!”
I’m happy. I went on the first complete date of my life that happened because of me.
I welcome all comments.
SunnyVibes
Writer’s meetup group.
I used “come hither” eye contact sequence. I looked up and caught her eye again, she smiled, I looked away quickly to the right.
At session end, I opened following a linger walk.
Light conversation.
She suggested we meet for coffee instead of instant walk I proposed.
I used Chase’s texting article to set up the date.
I chose a date location with 5 Cs.
09/15/2023
Date:
A) Greeting: I did not like.
B) Small talk: I made some.
C) Deep Conversation+ Relating:
Progression:
Sitting: I told her I’m nervous.
Personal talk: She was business like and challenging-1st attempt to touch, pulled hand away.
Psychology: Personalizing psychology led to intellectual vibe. I touched thigh.
D)Sex topics: She’s a virgin. We discussed Consent in Good Faith and I explained using fun scenarios of having sex. Less/no touch. Humor and vibe.
She talked of wanting relationship-she likes doing things sexually , but she knows herself, etc.
Thread cutting repetitively: Building scenarios of us together in creative situations, trying to move off topic.
Eye contact.
Progression gets fuzzy here-I will not list what happened here.
I reached step E.
E) Decrease in meaningful conversation and increase in touch:
Side body touching-shoulder to hip.
She enthusiastically spoke of meaningless things.
Tried for the kiss. 2 attempts.
2nd attempt I said something that changed mood 180 degrees. She started backward rationalization- I stopped it.
She came back.
She was warm-I decided not to kiss.
We parted ways when I told her to go soon after.
Date duration : 2 hours-2 hours 15 min.
My game:
Deep dive: Yes(start of deep dive:No)
Situational humor: Mostly question form.
Creating stories: Yes
Turning words around: Yes
Touch: Lightly
Cold reads: A couple
NLP: A bit.
My personal learnings I’ve write in a book.
I attempted to set up a date the next day.
Received the following message:
“hey, thanks for taking the time to meet up. I really value honesty, so I wanted to let you know that while I enjoyed our conversation, I didn’t feel a romantic connection. I hope we can both appreciate the clarity, best of luck in everything!”
I’m happy. I went on the first complete date of my life that happened because of me.
I welcome all comments.
SunnyVibes
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