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My first outing with A girl

Hoysala VeerabALLA

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Around the end of the month of September,I meet this 26 year old Girl doing MBA in My Student Hostel.She is around 5 Feet tall,Light Skinned,And Chubby Indian Girl.She is somewhat Cute with really nice eyes.We met around 1 month ago,When SHE appraoched me and Asked Me What I was Cooking in the Kitchen.I Dislike Chubby girls,But she was very high energy and was giving good vibes. I went along with some Flirting and Teasing.I also Needed some momentum and a easy win.

Over the course of the month,We Had light conversations around once or twice a week.
However,On 10th October,I set this small goal for myself,That I need to Ask A girl out to eat or Drink at the high point of conversation.So,I thought She would be the best oppurtunity to acheive this goal.

On Friday, 17th October.I was cooking in the kitchen and Suddenly She came up behind me And Said "Hi" in her excited and energetic voice.I didnt really recognize her voice,So I said "Hi Man" in a deep and rough voice thinking she was a Stranger..She asked me"HI MANN?" With Eyebrows raised.I to told her " Hey I did'nt see you there,I Thought it was someone else."And She probably got offended,So to increase her value,She told me-"I Never asked your name,What Is Your Name?".Just to Make light of the situation,I told her a fake name.And afterwards I told her "Just kidding,My real Name is Veeraballala."She kinda laughed and told me,"See you cant remember your own name."

Afterwards,That Night,I sent her a message.She had previously wanted to borrow a book of mine and gave me her number,So I kinda used Humor,And Typed Hi man with a funny emoji,and introduced myself with my fake name .I kinda used Chase Amantes Texting game from what I read in his book.This might have increased her interest in me.

On 18 October,2025,At around 7:00 Pm,She basically Calls me and says that I need a favor from you.Basically her phone was broken and she needed to make payments for groceries,But wasnt able to do so.She basically wanted her friend to transfer Money to me and For me to Pay for groceries using my Phone.It kind of seemed like She wanted to spend time with me.So,I said Yes.I made a quick plan in 5 minutes.There is a grocery shop near our hostel,But I wanted us to walk a bit and talk a bit more. So,I made a plan of taking her to the grocery store 10 minutes by walk from our hostel,and then go to a different store to buy icecream and walk back eating Ice Cream together.


I wore my red t-shirt with blue jeans and black casual shoes.She was dressed in Normal T shirt and Pajamas.On the way to the store,We kept talking continuously.I was teasing her,getting to know more about her values and trying to relate it to her,And Just keeping the conversation light and energetic.On the way,I was also leading her,telling her to move this way of that way.We go in the Grocery Store.And I get her to pick fruits and vegetables for me and also for her,To get her further investment.And I rewarded her complaince with compliments and interest.I wish I had rewarded her with Touch,But I am not Used to Touching New women.We go to a supermarket which is on the way to the hostel.Again,The conversation is light,There is no deep diving.She tells me about her experiences living in the city,Her family,Her childhood,And stuff like that.We get to the supermarket.Again I Get her to help me in shopping,I tell her to follow me,pick out pasta for me,and hold my items while I shop.She obeys like a Obiedient,Eager Child.Then I buy two icecreams and go out to hostel.I open my icecream to eat on the way,But she objects to do so,Because She was going to workout after reaching home,.In Hindsight,I should have persisted her to eat the icecream,It would have been more romantic.Anyway,Her objection seemed reasonable to me at that point,We began walking back-We talked more,And she told me even more about herself,How she wanted to explore herself in the big city,Live alone,Have A great social and romantic life.It seems like she wants me for casual sex.Anyway, We reach back to our hostel and I told her-There are a lot of good eateries in the area,We should Get something to eat sometime.She kind of objected at first,Asking which restuarant,And I said Ill tell you later.She later said Yes.And then we shook hands(We shook hands because it was a festival that day and we forget to wish each other,actually She initiated the touch) and said goodbye and went back to our rooms.

I am happy that I acheived my goal of asking a girl out on high point and getting her to say YES.I need that momentum and she is somewhat cute even if Bit chubby .My next tiny goal is to touch a girl while on a date(use incidental and friendly touches) as a way to reward her complaince.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

average_daygamer

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Nice outing, it feels good that your efforts have paid off.

It is rare in hundreds of approaches, I have only achieved 1 prearranged meeting and insta meetup.

It is a good feeling to achieve that and can certainly help with future confidence.

It sounds like you are working up gradually. On the 2 outings I did, I was not able to use physical touch yet, it felt too forced.

I just wish I could get more girls to meet up with me in order to build my skills.
 

Hoysala VeerabALLA

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Nice outing, it feels good that your efforts have paid off.

It is rare in hundreds of approaches, I have only achieved 1 prearranged meeting and insta meetup.

It is a good feeling to achieve that and can certainly help with future confidence.

It sounds like you are working up gradually. On the 2 outings I did, I was not able to use physical touch yet, it felt too forced.

I just wish I could get more girls to meet up with me in order to build my skills.
Thanks Man!
I Am a fairly good looking dude,Plenty of pretty girls compliment me and tell me I am Good looking.However,I have too many Self limiting beliefs and doubts,Which I am Gradually Working on.

It certainly Feels Amazing to Acheive my goal-In my case I went beyond my original Goal.

About meeting more girls, I moved to A Large City From a Small Town..And I specifically moved to an area with lots of the type of Girls I want to Date.It has certainly helped me.
 
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