My friend's girlfriend cheated on him. Should I tell him?

[WeddingCrasher]

A year ago, my friend's gf and his brother got left alone together and he fingered her. The brother told me shortly after it happened and said that she was drunk and coming on to him. He said that she tried to fuck him and give him oral but he resisted. She then grabbed his hand and put it down her panties and he fingered her.

One of our friends told the boyfriend what happened but he didn't believe him. They're no longer friends. The gf also dismissed the claim, saying it was "fucking stupid." The brother got into an argument with my friend's gf months later and told him what happened while they were arguing but I don't think he believed him. I don't know if she's strayed since but knowing what I know, should I tell my friend?

 

[Chase]

@Tree,

Sounds like he dropped one friend for telling him, and ignored his brother's confession to the same thing the friend he dropped told him about.

Also sounds like this girl has a firm, firm hold on him.

In my experience, trying to tell a buddy something he does not want to know about his woman does not work.

I know you want to get through to him. He doesn't want you to. Even if you had a video of his girlfriend doing this... he might dump her after he saw it, but he'd hate and resent you for showing him it.

Sometimes, people just do not want to know.

Chase

 

[WeddingCrasher]

Thanks for the insight, Chase. Much appreciated.