Newbie assigment- saying "hi"
So i worked yesterday and that girl i liked worked aswell. I managed to get her snapchat after some conversation about how we should study together, (we are in same school). And then i am now wondering what to do with it... should i message her?? Will it be awkward?? We work together, but not so often like max 1 per week. Should i wait untill she writes that we should study together or should i propose it again?!?!? Many questions too few answers haha.
Basically i am not so sure about my next step.
She is cute and kind, but i guess i need to be more of a jerk/ flirty/ and more fun.
Its hard though when i deal with customers whom i need to be nice to. Its a hard balance.
I want to make her laugh more and be more invested.
Also about saying hi to several strangers - i did it, i said hi all the time to people coming in to the place, and their response back was also a hi. I feel much more social nowadays and also breaking that hi barrier gave me some encouragement. It was not hard at all, i just had to do it.
Sure it was at work and its somewhat my job to help customers at the bar. But still i dont usually do say hi to everyone coming in and so does not my collegues.
Anyways - it was an nerve wrecking day and i made some pressure on myself to get her snapchat, i managed to get it and as i said, now what?
Tl:dr
Got snapchat from the girl i liked at work, it seems like she likes me somewhat aswell. She is not super invested and i need to figure out some way to get her more invested.
Also said hi to bunch of strangers, went sucessfull, i will repeat the hi saying part a couple of more times then i will talk some more to the girls i said hi to.
/murv
So i worked yesterday and that girl i liked worked aswell. I managed to get her snapchat after some conversation about how we should study together, (we are in same school). And then i am now wondering what to do with it... should i message her?? Will it be awkward?? We work together, but not so often like max 1 per week. Should i wait untill she writes that we should study together or should i propose it again?!?!? Many questions too few answers haha.
Basically i am not so sure about my next step.
She is cute and kind, but i guess i need to be more of a jerk/ flirty/ and more fun.
Its hard though when i deal with customers whom i need to be nice to. Its a hard balance.
I want to make her laugh more and be more invested.
Also about saying hi to several strangers - i did it, i said hi all the time to people coming in to the place, and their response back was also a hi. I feel much more social nowadays and also breaking that hi barrier gave me some encouragement. It was not hard at all, i just had to do it.
Sure it was at work and its somewhat my job to help customers at the bar. But still i dont usually do say hi to everyone coming in and so does not my collegues.
Anyways - it was an nerve wrecking day and i made some pressure on myself to get her snapchat, i managed to get it and as i said, now what?
Tl:dr
Got snapchat from the girl i liked at work, it seems like she likes me somewhat aswell. She is not super invested and i need to figure out some way to get her more invested.
Also said hi to bunch of strangers, went sucessfull, i will repeat the hi saying part a couple of more times then i will talk some more to the girls i said hi to.
/murv
