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if this is true! why only he had that reaction with zac out of 10 posters, sorry bro! In this one you are totally off....
My pride can really get in my way... I want to hear your thoughts
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if this is true! why only he had that reaction with zac out of 10 posters, sorry bro! In this one you are totally off....
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@hotsauce you are still bitter about the convo in the chat were you were proven wrong. Everyone is looking at this post contextually, also @ZacAdam with who I usually just get along well.
But you are clearly just on the offensive for no reason at all. Hence I cannot and still will not take you seriously. For me your motives are extremely transparent. Also I feel sorry for you taking Skills time. These boards are for learning, not for status jockeying as you have been doing in multiple instances. Stop flaming.
@ZacAdam respect for your last comment. Let's not make things personal because usually we get along just well. I really do not like flamewars.
@Skills Brother you obviously get me.. the thing is I am comitted to Bacchus suggestions. It will be tough for me because it goes against my very nature and gut reactions but I was the one who wanted help. And who knows maybe I'll get enlightened and get new reference experiences... I will really have to grit my teeth through this one.
"But there been times i been in open relationships, girl start acting up out of the blue, giving me ultimatums (typical sign of them shopping you around), then i find out it was a "fake outrage due to another dude", and i don't want them.."
Also this is a very ugly truth....
But you are clearly just on the offensive for no reason at all. Hence I cannot and still will not take you seriously. For me your motives are extremely transparent. Also I feel sorry for you taking Skills time. These boards are for learning, not for status jockeying as you have been doing in multiple instances. Stop flaming.
@ZacAdam respect for your last comment. Let's not make things personal because usually we get along just well. I really do not like flamewars.
@Skills Brother you obviously get me.. the thing is I am comitted to Bacchus suggestions. It will be tough for me because it goes against my very nature and gut reactions but I was the one who wanted help. And who knows maybe I'll get enlightened and get new reference experiences... I will really have to grit my teeth through this one.
"But there been times i been in open relationships, girl start acting up out of the blue, giving me ultimatums (typical sign of them shopping you around), then i find out it was a "fake outrage due to another dude", and i don't want them.."
Also this is a very ugly truth....
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for sure man. let's hear another story about how u got rejected for reasons that were out of ur control
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Im just gonna report you at this point hotsauce. Good luck
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@DarkKnight
"Bitter" is a strong word that we should try not to label other members quickly.
Because if i start operating from that, I won't answer a lot of questions because everyone looks "bitter" on paper/forum. As you would do the same to me.
I definitely looked like an annoyed cat on the forums.
Although @hotsauce did insult you by noting that you do not have game, he noted that he was annoyed at where your pride comes from.
I was annoyed. -.-"
Wouldn't this mindset help you get the girl because it's not personal, and that you get the end goal?
Which is to be contextual, to then get the girl
"Bitter" is a strong word that we should try not to label other members quickly.
Because if i start operating from that, I won't answer a lot of questions because everyone looks "bitter" on paper/forum. As you would do the same to me.
I definitely looked like an annoyed cat on the forums.
Although @hotsauce did insult you by noting that you do not have game, he noted that he was annoyed at where your pride comes from.
I was annoyed. -.-"
Wouldn't this mindset help you get the girl because it's not personal, and that you get the end goal?
Which is to be contextual, to then get the girl
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Dude cut it out. You are still trying to win and prove points, hence your self admitted flaming. My case was already resolved. Not thanks to you. I am done with your and the other guy's status jockeying.
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Flame War: this post has been rated a "Flame War post" by forum members
You are an idiot if you think
that I was flaming you at the last post.
A fucking idiot.
i guess when the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
That above sentence is philosophical and to also flame you.
Because you deserve it. You deserve it now.
that I was flaming you at the last post.
A fucking idiot.
i guess when the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
That above sentence is philosophical and to also flame you.
Because you deserve it. You deserve it now.
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I was referring to this. Again cut it out.
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Yo,
we are back at this topic again... and knowing me it won't be the very last time.
Basically.. there is this chick... A cute 20 year old , 7,5 in my book, but I would definitely bang. A year ago she went in autorejection after giving me a miniature escalation window. I would jump on it, but I realized too late it is an escalation window. She went into autorejection and since then despite my efforts of being friendly and warm, always keeps avoiding me or blocking me (by staying by others and turning her back). So I kept nonchalant and gamed other girls.. I am not a pussy. One day i saw her in a different city and there she DID for once waved from afar. I wondered if she would be warmer the next time I see her. Nope still autorejection 4 life. I see her usually from a week to week basis but she is always in these heavy group enclaves. Today I caught her staring from the periphery from her eyes, but when she noticed me catching her she stared away and I was again blocked.
Today after class I was standing with two guys... and this chick comes along. I turn to her like the other two guys. She is extremely (over the top.. in my opinion) friendly to the other guys and point blank ignores me. Yeah.. My thought was just "wow, you fucking bitch". This because I have been genuinely trying to show her warmth (without chasing) for maybe a year and there she is showing how easy she can make people to actually talk with her. So I exit the building and I know I will see her at the parking lot. I have tried in the past to talk to her here as well but she always has a phone call or storms off. She was talking with one of those guys but I know that shit was probably platonic since she was asking about his family or something like that. When I walked next to her, she did turn towards me to look at what I am doing (that's a first.. normally she point blank ignores me, she was probably trying to gauge me since she knew she purposely ignored me, that was some straight up game playing). Anyway I gave her a white berth because I was incensed. I tried not to let it show, but knowing she is a chick: she probably noticed. Also how the fuck was I to know she would be turned towards me after a year of turning away from me.
Anyway this is not a sob story, but it is a pattern. Usually what happens now is this:
1. Dark Knight starts REALLY ignoring and avoiding the chick since he starts to get prideful.
2. Chick finally understands she went way overboard with a guy who was already trying, basically "o shit I had a chance and I fucked up" -> Starts chasing hard.
3. Dark Knight refuses any kind of contact.
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But I promised you guys (Bacchus' basically) I would try and change this pattern. I have to say I have no idea how to calibrate from here. Normally the way I shake up these extreme autorejecting chicks is by showing autorejection myself and being super resolute about it. This has worked a lot of times.
However when I am warm immediately there is a big chance we go into limbo again where she is bitterlike starting to ignore again and doing funky weird stuff. We get that weird never ending wishy washy shit: I am really done with that at this point.
How would you guys calibrate in this situation? I am already gritting my teeth... not to let my pride take over. It really feels fucking cringe to me. The normal me would immediately ditch the chick, never talk to her again (despite how hard she started chasing) and game other chicks. Hell the same location has other girls who are already showing interest. That's quite tempting. But I want to break this fucking pattern.
Addition: I want to add.. Talking with other girls is such an easy solution. Because there is always another interested one around the corner... I'm just kinda tired with leaving unnecessary broken things behind.
we are back at this topic again... and knowing me it won't be the very last time.
Basically.. there is this chick... A cute 20 year old , 7,5 in my book, but I would definitely bang. A year ago she went in autorejection after giving me a miniature escalation window. I would jump on it, but I realized too late it is an escalation window. She went into autorejection and since then despite my efforts of being friendly and warm, always keeps avoiding me or blocking me (by staying by others and turning her back). So I kept nonchalant and gamed other girls.. I am not a pussy. One day i saw her in a different city and there she DID for once waved from afar. I wondered if she would be warmer the next time I see her. Nope still autorejection 4 life. I see her usually from a week to week basis but she is always in these heavy group enclaves. Today I caught her staring from the periphery from her eyes, but when she noticed me catching her she stared away and I was again blocked.
Today after class I was standing with two guys... and this chick comes along. I turn to her like the other two guys. She is extremely (over the top.. in my opinion) friendly to the other guys and point blank ignores me. Yeah.. My thought was just "wow, you fucking bitch". This because I have been genuinely trying to show her warmth (without chasing) for maybe a year and there she is showing how easy she can make people to actually talk with her. So I exit the building and I know I will see her at the parking lot. I have tried in the past to talk to her here as well but she always has a phone call or storms off. She was talking with one of those guys but I know that shit was probably platonic since she was asking about his family or something like that. When I walked next to her, she did turn towards me to look at what I am doing (that's a first.. normally she point blank ignores me, she was probably trying to gauge me since she knew she purposely ignored me, that was some straight up game playing). Anyway I gave her a white berth because I was incensed. I tried not to let it show, but knowing she is a chick: she probably noticed. Also how the fuck was I to know she would be turned towards me after a year of turning away from me.
Anyway this is not a sob story, but it is a pattern. Usually what happens now is this:
1. Dark Knight starts REALLY ignoring and avoiding the chick since he starts to get prideful.
2. Chick finally understands she went way overboard with a guy who was already trying, basically "o shit I had a chance and I fucked up" -> Starts chasing hard.
3. Dark Knight refuses any kind of contact.
-----
But I promised you guys (Bacchus' basically) I would try and change this pattern. I have to say I have no idea how to calibrate from here. Normally the way I shake up these extreme autorejecting chicks is by showing autorejection myself and being super resolute about it. This has worked a lot of times.
However when I am warm immediately there is a big chance we go into limbo again where she is bitterlike starting to ignore again and doing funky weird stuff. We get that weird never ending wishy washy shit: I am really done with that at this point.
How would you guys calibrate in this situation? I am already gritting my teeth... not to let my pride take over. It really feels fucking cringe to me. The normal me would immediately ditch the chick, never talk to her again (despite how hard she started chasing) and game other chicks. Hell the same location has other girls who are already showing interest. That's quite tempting. But I want to break this fucking pattern.
Addition: I want to add.. Talking with other girls is such an easy solution. Because there is always another interested one around the corner... I'm just kinda tired with leaving unnecessary broken things behind.
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