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(Warning-A pretty long and boring rant just to get things off my chest)
There is this girl Vicki in my class who is giving me pretty strong signs of interest-She finds reasons to message me,She flirts a lot with me,laughs at my jokes..I just KNOW that she wants my cock..However,I want her only for the role of casual sex partners..I dont see her as Wife material..I dont know how to approach this..I find that talking to girls outside of college circle is much easier for me-Girls are much less guarded and often higher mate value.(And I have a nerdy reputation in college).I am just not skilled enough at women to take the courtship forward..Its one of my lagging areas..I can do teasing,qualifying,connection in a good enough capacity..I do feel like my fundamentals(How I present myself to the world) can be improved..I am working hard on loosing excess bodyweight..However,I am in a sort of a Spinning wheel...I keep running but stay in the same place..I need to be comfortable taking the courtship forward..It doesnt matter how many girls I hook-I would still not get a single girl in bed if I dont get comfortable taking things forward.
There is one more Girl I like in class-Lets call her Michelle..I just Adore her very much.She isnt very hot,But she is very soft,feminine and Beautiful..Her mannerisms are very endearing and I just fell in Love looking at how she talks in such an eager and animated manner to her friends.I admire her a lot.And We are in the same Toastmasters class.However I am thinking of not approaching her because she is not that hot(And kinda Dumb) and because she belongs from a different country from me-It would be hard to communicate(She doesnt know my country's language and neither does she speak English very well)..She Doesnt seem very interested in me-I have tested her compliance many times-She is kinda unenthusiastic about me..While I know Vicki wants my cock,I cant be sure if Michelle wants my cock.But,I fancy her a lot-Despite her plain looks-Her innocence and childlike behaviour makes my heart warm(sounds silly but true).I dont know if I will regret not sincerely trying to take things forward with her in the future..She isnt my soulmate or The one..Just a girl I dig a lot.
Another Problem with my skill is Lack of Abundance..I dont have the capablity to pull a lot of high mate value girls..
It seems like to me I have to Focus on Vicki-She will probably increase my skill level with women..But,I desire Michelle more..I want her for a short term relationship(1-2 years).(Maybe I am A satisficer not maximiser)
There is this girl Vicki in my class who is giving me pretty strong signs of interest-She finds reasons to message me,She flirts a lot with me,laughs at my jokes..I just KNOW that she wants my cock..However,I want her only for the role of casual sex partners..I dont see her as Wife material..I dont know how to approach this..I find that talking to girls outside of college circle is much easier for me-Girls are much less guarded and often higher mate value.(And I have a nerdy reputation in college).I am just not skilled enough at women to take the courtship forward..Its one of my lagging areas..I can do teasing,qualifying,connection in a good enough capacity..I do feel like my fundamentals(How I present myself to the world) can be improved..I am working hard on loosing excess bodyweight..However,I am in a sort of a Spinning wheel...I keep running but stay in the same place..I need to be comfortable taking the courtship forward..It doesnt matter how many girls I hook-I would still not get a single girl in bed if I dont get comfortable taking things forward.
There is one more Girl I like in class-Lets call her Michelle..I just Adore her very much.She isnt very hot,But she is very soft,feminine and Beautiful..Her mannerisms are very endearing and I just fell in Love looking at how she talks in such an eager and animated manner to her friends.I admire her a lot.And We are in the same Toastmasters class.However I am thinking of not approaching her because she is not that hot(And kinda Dumb) and because she belongs from a different country from me-It would be hard to communicate(She doesnt know my country's language and neither does she speak English very well)..She Doesnt seem very interested in me-I have tested her compliance many times-She is kinda unenthusiastic about me..While I know Vicki wants my cock,I cant be sure if Michelle wants my cock.But,I fancy her a lot-Despite her plain looks-Her innocence and childlike behaviour makes my heart warm(sounds silly but true).I dont know if I will regret not sincerely trying to take things forward with her in the future..She isnt my soulmate or The one..Just a girl I dig a lot.
Another Problem with my skill is Lack of Abundance..I dont have the capablity to pull a lot of high mate value girls..
It seems like to me I have to Focus on Vicki-She will probably increase my skill level with women..But,I desire Michelle more..I want her for a short term relationship(1-2 years).(Maybe I am A satisficer not maximiser)
