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D_Smooth1900

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I've been on girl chase for the past couple of months if anything I'll be hiting my year mark in a few months. First I want say is that this stuff actually works. Before girls chase I was pretty mediocre and I got laid once in awhile. After GC I'm in control of when and how I get laid. I just wanna say that I'm thankful to the Guys of Girl Chase for opening me up to this new found knowledge and I promise it won't go to waste or be used for manipulation.

Now My Situation...
I'm a service member currently stationed overseas. I'm 24 and I look much younger than 18. It has its ups and downs, for example I look highly attractive to older and younger women but When it comes to my age group, I have to work twice as hard. Im stationed at a base located on an island so when it comes to the ratio of men to women for every 1 girl there's at least 3 to 5 guys that are in pursuit of that one girl. The ratio is so bad that this place can be considered a haven for girls that aren't that attractive.

Since Ive been here I've manage to bed 5 women. Because the base is so small and everyone knows everyone. I'm known as a player on base. Which I'm not to fond of, especially because it disrupts my game with other women. I've been here for a year now and I feel that I've acomplished a great deal. Now that the year is coming to an end I can only look back on what I've accomplished.

So my question to you all. Where do I go from here? What's next in the upcoming months? Should I continue my pursuit of women or should I just enjoy the rest of my time on island?
 

ILoveElla

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Where's the island? or at least tell me how big it is? It sounds like some sort of military thing you're involved in!

I guess it doesn't really matter whether you choose to just enjoy the time left, or try to sleep with more girls. Perhaps there's not that much left to learn on that island!
 

ray_zorse

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I would have thought that the preselection would improve your game with other women. Although my experience with preselection is limited to getting grinds and slow dances with different women in the course of a night out, so I wouldn't really know from personal experience and I'm interested.

What kind of scenario do you encounter that hurts your game? Are you not managing expectations properly? Are you not handling "you're just a player" shit tests smoothly enough?

cheers, Ray
 

D_Smooth1900

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Hey everyone,

I apologize for taking so long to reply. But this week has been busy.

ILoveElla said:
Where's the island? or at least tell me how big it is? It sounds like some sort of military thing you're involved in!

I guess it doesn't really matter whether you choose to just enjoy the time left, or try to sleep with more girls. Perhaps there's not that much left to learn on that island!

Hey ILoveElla, to answer your question the island is Okinawa, it's located south of Japan. About an 1 and a half plane ride from Tokyo. The island itself is 877 square miles and the population is close to 1.5 million. Honestly I've done everything there is to do. Except all outdoormen stuff, but I wouldn't mind checking out some springs or caves of they involved girls that is.

ray_zorse said:
I would have thought that the preselection would improve your game with other women. Although my experience with preselection is limited to getting grinds and slow dances with different women in the course of a night out, so I wouldn't really know from personal experience and I'm interested.

What kind of scenario do you encounter that hurts your game? Are you not managing expectations properly? Are you not handling "you're just a player" shit tests smoothly enough?

cheers, Ray

Hey Ray, So the situation is a little hard to explain, but I'll try my best to explain it. If you ever heard of that saying where if you "fuck a girl, you fuck all her friends." Well its quite similar to that, so I've banged a couple of girls in each other social circle and I'm starting to feel the consequences of my decisions. Yea I know it's good but from the outside it looks as if I banged them all. The problem with this is that now I look like a player and I'm not to familiar on how to use that to my advantage. Either way it's hindering my progress.

So the major scenario that I'm struggling with is this one...
I'll just call them by the 3 girls.

Girl 1: about 5 foot short and works out occasionally. Nice tight body, cute face, and has a tough personality. Because of this she comes off as intimidating. Her best friend is roommates with a girl I had a fling with for a couple of months. Although she is no longer on base. Girl 1 has a reputation of being a flirt, so she has a lot of choices when it comes to guys. In short everyone is chasing this one.

Girl 2: Girl 2 is good friends with Girl 1. Girl 2 only lives two doors down from me(we live in barracks kinda like hotel rooms). Girl 2 has a pretty face, a really nice ass and all around a great body. She's a little thick but nothing to crazy. She has a way better body than Girl 1. Her personality is all right, shes nerdy, well dressed, and she keeps to herself. Her reputation isn't as big as Girl 1 because she not overly outgoing.

Girl 3: so Girl 2 and 3 work together at the same place( she also lives 2 doors down from me, i know right). Also I banged one of Girls 3 best buddies who is no longer on the island. The girl I banged also worked with them so it's possible Girl 2 and Gir 3 heard all about it during thier work hours. Either way Girl 3 by far has the biggest ass on base her face is ok and her body is all right. Her personality is somewhat of a turn off, she comes off as a tomboy but still feminine. She does this thing where she makes wild noises. She's a little weird in the head. Honestly it doesn't bother me since everyone's a little special in their own way. But I'm sure she does it for attention.

Where I stand...
Girl 1: im highly attractive to the intimidating role, Honestly I just want to dominate this girl. Basically show her what real power feels like. When I sort of got here i came as a black sheep so a lot of people look downed on me like I was nothing, and sadly to say she was one of them. I know she's intrested because she gives me this look everytime from across the room. I'll be with my boys and if she's in the room I'll look her way and see all of the dudes flocking towards her. Usually if she catches me looking she'll hold eye contact with me and well just smile at each other.

Girl 2: The signs with this one are a little off but I'm assuming she likes me and yet it hasn't failed. I'm very hands on with this girl. I know she's a shy girl so all of her I intrest signs won't be there. But I still feel the attraction. Apparently there's a rumor about her having a boyfriend back in the states but I wouldn't be sure it's only a rumor and if it's true it explains why she's so hesitant.

Girl 3: I actually took this girl out to some ramen so I got to find out a whole lot about her. From that night I know she's a conservative girl. At first she didn't like me. But now she says hi to me everytime she gets the chance. I got her number but texting her is a pain. She hates texting which is kinda odd to me so I don't send her any texts. Now honestly the girls cool but I'm not motivated enough to put this one to bed. I once took a shot at the dark and knocked on her door, I asked her if I could come in and she said yea. My first time ever in this girls room so I'm getting a feel for it. She was watching sons of anarchy and was really into it. So I didn't make any moves because I didn't get any signs from her so we just watched the show and I left 30mins later.

Honestly I don't know how to approach this and I know I can't have all 3 so I'll have to pick 1. Like I said they all know each other or have some type of connection, anyways I'll like to hear your thoughts.

P.S. I apologize for my timing and any punctuation errors.
 
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