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Growing up, I was very shy, did not talk to girls or even know how to. I was antisocial, anxious, and socially inept.
In my last year of high school, I had a friend who was very good with girls, who introduced me to a book called "The Game". I didn't care much about girls, and had essentially written them off as a possibility in my life, but read the book out of curiosity.
I was intrigued, but still on the fence and didn't believe I could become that guy. I started studying social dynamics as a hobby and put them into work slowly over time.
By a sheer stroke of luck, I managed to find a girl who was super into me. She made every move that I was too nervous to make, and though we messed around and did things like oral, I was too self conscious to have sex with her, and she left me.
Following this, I had a dry 2 years, and many missed opportunities, until I once again found a girl who was super into me. It took me 6 months to work up the nerve, but I looked back at all the pain from past missed opportunities and told myself it was time to man up. I asked her out.
I lost my virginity to her and ended up dating for several years. It was the confidence boost I needed. I stopped caring about game, believing I didn't need it as I had found my unicorn.
The relationship had fallen apart, and instead of walking away peacefully, she decided to nuke it from orbit. She started sleeping with another guy days after the breakup, and talk bad about me to our mutual aquaintances. She tried to squeeze money out of me. This changed my view on women.
For the first time, I started seeking women. It was hard. Going from saying hello to sleeping with a new girl seemed like an impossible task with so many hurdles and challenges to face. I ended up moving and meeting a girl in my city who I was able to get intimate with in a few months, but I didn't like her much, and I wasn't satisfied.
For the next 2 years, I had many instances where I met girls and had a mutual attraction. At first, I was too nervous to talk to them, and would crack and fall apart at some point in the interaction. Later, I would fail to get the kiss. For every hurdle I passed, there was another one to jump through, but I was slowly inching closer and closer to the goal.
I had a breakthrough when I realized what was causing me to lose these interactions. Every time I lost these girls, it was for the same reason, and that reason was that I had lost my composure.
As I got more experienced, less and less things were able to surprise me. She rejects the kiss? No worries, play it cool and go for it again. Having the "right" answer for a shit-test didn't matter, what mattered was that I kept my cool.
Following this breakthrough, I slept with 2 attractive girls in a week through simply playing it cool, while pushing toward my end goal in a confident, controlled way. I had ascended.
Now, I had my first ONS, and I'm amazed at how far I've come. I went from meet, 2 hours of conversation, to fucking her at the apartment. She was screaming like a pornstar and shaking, something I couldn't imagine just a few years ago, when my endgame was to court a woman for several months to a year. The whole thing was so simple, and so natural from start to finish.
I wanted to post this not to brag, but to reflect on my progress and tell the rest of you that huge improvements ARE possible.
In my last year of high school, I had a friend who was very good with girls, who introduced me to a book called "The Game". I didn't care much about girls, and had essentially written them off as a possibility in my life, but read the book out of curiosity.
I was intrigued, but still on the fence and didn't believe I could become that guy. I started studying social dynamics as a hobby and put them into work slowly over time.
By a sheer stroke of luck, I managed to find a girl who was super into me. She made every move that I was too nervous to make, and though we messed around and did things like oral, I was too self conscious to have sex with her, and she left me.
Following this, I had a dry 2 years, and many missed opportunities, until I once again found a girl who was super into me. It took me 6 months to work up the nerve, but I looked back at all the pain from past missed opportunities and told myself it was time to man up. I asked her out.
I lost my virginity to her and ended up dating for several years. It was the confidence boost I needed. I stopped caring about game, believing I didn't need it as I had found my unicorn.
The relationship had fallen apart, and instead of walking away peacefully, she decided to nuke it from orbit. She started sleeping with another guy days after the breakup, and talk bad about me to our mutual aquaintances. She tried to squeeze money out of me. This changed my view on women.
For the first time, I started seeking women. It was hard. Going from saying hello to sleeping with a new girl seemed like an impossible task with so many hurdles and challenges to face. I ended up moving and meeting a girl in my city who I was able to get intimate with in a few months, but I didn't like her much, and I wasn't satisfied.
For the next 2 years, I had many instances where I met girls and had a mutual attraction. At first, I was too nervous to talk to them, and would crack and fall apart at some point in the interaction. Later, I would fail to get the kiss. For every hurdle I passed, there was another one to jump through, but I was slowly inching closer and closer to the goal.
I had a breakthrough when I realized what was causing me to lose these interactions. Every time I lost these girls, it was for the same reason, and that reason was that I had lost my composure.
As I got more experienced, less and less things were able to surprise me. She rejects the kiss? No worries, play it cool and go for it again. Having the "right" answer for a shit-test didn't matter, what mattered was that I kept my cool.
Following this breakthrough, I slept with 2 attractive girls in a week through simply playing it cool, while pushing toward my end goal in a confident, controlled way. I had ascended.
Now, I had my first ONS, and I'm amazed at how far I've come. I went from meet, 2 hours of conversation, to fucking her at the apartment. She was screaming like a pornstar and shaking, something I couldn't imagine just a few years ago, when my endgame was to court a woman for several months to a year. The whole thing was so simple, and so natural from start to finish.
I wanted to post this not to brag, but to reflect on my progress and tell the rest of you that huge improvements ARE possible.
