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mababu

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Hey, everyone — maybe someone has ideas how I should act.

I’m into a girl who’s 18 years old and has a 20-year-old boyfriend. She’s a good person and her logic says she shouldn’t date someone else while she’s in a relationship. Her boyfriend doesn’t treat her well — he took out loans in her name, and pushed her to work two low-paid jobs.

I’m 34. I wouldn’t have noticed her at first, but when I visited where she works I saw she remembered every word I said. I checked on how she was doing and we started talking more often. Her hands shake when she talks to me. I give her gifts; she doesn’t want to accept them at first but I insist and leave them for her. She’s happy to get them — I get the feeling nobody’s given her things like that before. She gets emotional easily. We talk and see each other once or twice a week.

Right now I’m trying to make her feel more strongly for me. My plan is to create strong emotions so her logic will be off and she’ll move forward with me so I can take care of her. Any ideas or thoughts? She gets very jealous when I talk with her coworker — I thought she wouldn’t find out. I even thought about sleeping with someone at her job so she’d hear about it, but that would probably break everything and it’s too much. Thanks.
 
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mababu

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* i tried to talk with her coworker to get more info and tipped her. But she told her everything. And she had mixed emotions something between angry/jealous and told me -You thought I will not get it? For me its + as it was emotions. Her coworker likes me too and asked me why I didn't picked her instead. Maybe I should show off with more girls and continue this way with more girls? Thanks
 

mababu

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Should I use gun and tell her that she’s mine now and no one else’s? Maybe if her bf would accidentally gone my situation would be better? Maybe I should start giving sweets with drugs inside? 🤣 Any pickup ideas and ideas of working methods please 😂
 

Atlas IV

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Should I use gun and tell her that she’s mine now and no one else’s? Maybe if her bf would accidentally gone my situation would be better? Maybe I should start giving sweets with drugs inside? 🤣
WTF
Any pickup ideas and ideas of working methods please 😂
Get help. I mean real help. This is not the place for you if thoughts like that cross your mind. I don't care if you were just "joking". What you just wrote is fucking scary.
 

Chase

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Seconded 😑

Actually I think that last post of @mababu's was intended to be a joke.

@mababu, I would recommend settling into the forum before starting in on the off-color jokes.

Especially off-color jokes where there's a language barrier.

As for the OP:

I wouldn’t have noticed her at first, but when I visited where she works I saw she remembered every word I said.
Her coworker likes me too and asked me why I didn't picked her instead. Maybe I should show off with more girls and continue this way with more girls? Thanks

Yeah, I mean, if the girl was already one you "wouldn't have noticed" but only started paying attention to because she likes you...

Except she is in a relationship...

But the other one also likes you, and apparently(?) is not in a relationship...

Just bang the other one.

Just bang more girls in general.

It will either cure you of your oneitis for the first girl, or else the first girl will ditch her shitty boyfriend and come racing to you.

Either way you win, right?


Chase
 

mababu

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WTF

Get help. I mean real help. This is not the place for you if thoughts like that cross your mind. I don't care if you were just "joking". What you just wrote is fucking scary.
I was waiting some advices and ideas instead of showing your different sence of humor due to cultural difference. If thats so scarry for you just don't read it :))) this community is full of guys who chasing whores and thats also very scary for me :)))
 

mababu

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Seconded 😑

Actually I think that last post of @mababu's was intended to be a joke.

@mababu, I would recommend settling into the forum before starting in on the off-color jokes.

Especially off-color jokes where there's a language barrier.

As for the OP:




Yeah, I mean, if the girl was already one you "wouldn't have noticed" but only started paying attention to because she likes you...

Except she is in a relationship...

But the other one also likes you, and apparently(?) is not in a relationship...

Just bang the other one.

Just bang more girls in general.

It will either cure you of your oneitis for the first girl, or else the first girl will ditch her shitty boyfriend and come racing to you.

Either way you win, right?


Chase
Thanks for advice. Yes I was thinking about that too. Her coworker have husband and have lover and I saw them... And she talking like that with me so I bet that would be easy to bang her. Im absolutely not in to her. Not my type girl but probably you right worth to do it in case it will make main girl more emotions. Maybe she will change her mind later. I thought to come with another girl to place where she works to bang her at wc and to make sure she noticed that.

With to bang more girls yes you right... I have this problem. I bang every girl who is available for that I would bang girl I don't like and don't want to see again.. And if I try to get someone I like I make if look like Im chasing... Some needy energy. Working on it yet. Will check that link. Thanks for help.
 

mababu

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Better to bang her coworker or to bring other girl to bang her in front of her? Coworker better yes?
 

Skills

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@mababu find out were she falls in the spectrum of "i have a boyfriend" and strategize accordingly:

 

mababu

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@mababu find out were she falls in the spectrum of "i have a boyfriend" and strategize accordingly:

She is 1 type which never would cheat. She dont know yet what is that because its her first boyfriend she dating now. Her relationships are not perfect its 100%, many things I was even surprised and I told her that she by yourself will leave that guy sooner or later. She is kinda very proper girl otherwise I would not waste time on her. She is in to me I know and see and feel that. Also her lies are all about to look her better in my eyes. That girl just cant take on herself responsibility for actions which she wouldn't do as a good girl. If not boyfriend I would already be living with her... Her coworker also told me that if not her boyfriend then ofcourse no doubts... Very tricky situations. For me its very rare finding because before I as many guys from this community was chasing whores and now I found that all real thing is at good girls. There is no experienced girl on the planet which can bring same emotions as good pure girl. I came to it through multiple bad relationships and experiences. Now only good pure girls. If with this girl nothing gonna happen Im sure next girl I will try to deal will he also good girl with clear soul. Natural wish to protect and take care of that type of girls. No more whores in my life only good girls. Maybe I should pay some sexy girl to seduce her boyfriend and fuck and record that and accidentally send her?
 

mababu

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To pay some ugly girl but with proper make up to seduce him and then she clear her make up and do pictures or video to send? If to good girl will seduce him I worrie maybe she will get in to her boyfriend even more 😂 who knows those females are unpredictable 🤣
 

mababu

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To seduce him by ugly girl, record that and then later she will come with her bags to their home and will say she is pregnant from him and she will live now together 🤣 I would stop respect that girl if she will still stay with him with her believs 😂
 

SamZee

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Hey, everyone — maybe someone has ideas how I should act.

I’m into a girl who’s 18 years old and has a 20-year-old boyfriend. She’s a good person and her logic says she shouldn’t date someone else while she’s in a relationship. Her boyfriend doesn’t treat her well — he took out loans in her name, and pushed her to work two low-paid jobs.

I’m 34. I wouldn’t have noticed her at first, but when I visited where she works I saw she remembered every word I said. I checked on how she was doing and we started talking more often. Her hands shake when she talks to me. I give her gifts; she doesn’t want to accept them at first but I insist and leave them for her. She’s happy to get them — I get the feeling nobody’s given her things like that before. She gets emotional easily. We talk and see each other once or twice a week.

Right now I’m trying to make her feel more strongly for me. My plan is to create strong emotions so her logic will be off and she’ll move forward with me so I can take care of her. Any ideas or thoughts? She gets very jealous when I talk with her coworker — I thought she wouldn’t find out. I even thought about sleeping with someone at her job so she’d hear about it, but that would probably break everything and it’s too much. Thanks
Make her do things for you, the demand should be like ladder small things first then go up if she do each. don't forget to reward if she do what you ask. What you can ask ? here is where you have to be creative based on the vibe, how much you know about her and situation etc.
 

mababu

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Make her do things for you, the demand should be like ladder small things first then go up if she do each. don't forget to reward if she do what you ask. What you can ask ? here is where you have to be creative based on the vibe, how much you know about her and situation etc.
Her coworker been doing and I was rewarding her and then she asked why I didnt chased her. With her coworked this worked super well. With her I not successfuly did that and rewarded her many times for wrong things.... :/ And then when she been doing those wrong things she was so happy as best day in her life but then she got nothing for that 🤣 So crazy situation. I only during this year found this trick. Still training my power of will to avoid rewarding wrong things. She say no i reward then she say no again I reward again. Means no = reward. Now figuring out what to do... What you doing when rewarding wrong thing? How to rewrite that in her brains? :D She now in mood when she not watching to eyes and avoiding any eyes contact at all. Still acting angry for her coworker 🤣 I stay calm and getting funny. She just showing that she have emotions otherwise she would be normal 😂
 
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