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mababu

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Hey, everyone — maybe someone has ideas how I should act.

I’m into a girl who’s 18 years old and has a 20-year-old boyfriend. She’s a good person and her logic says she shouldn’t date someone else while she’s in a relationship. Her boyfriend doesn’t treat her well — he took out loans in her name, and pushed her to work two low-paid jobs.

I’m 34. I wouldn’t have noticed her at first, but when I visited where she works I saw she remembered every word I said. I checked on how she was doing and we started talking more often. Her hands shake when she talks to me. I give her gifts; she doesn’t want to accept them at first but I insist and leave them for her. She’s happy to get them — I get the feeling nobody’s given her things like that before. She gets emotional easily. We talk and see each other once or twice a week.

Right now I’m trying to make her feel more strongly for me. My plan is to create strong emotions so her logic will be off and she’ll move forward with me so I can take care of her. Any ideas or thoughts? She gets very jealous when I talk with her coworker — I thought she wouldn’t find out. I even thought about sleeping with someone at her job so she’d hear about it, but that would probably break everything and it’s too much. Thanks.
 

mababu

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* i tried to talk with her coworker to get more info and tipped her. But she told her everything. And she had mixed emotions something between angry/jealous and told me -You thought I will not get it? For me its + as it was emotions. Her coworker likes me too and asked me why I didn't picked her instead. Maybe I should show off with more girls and continue this way with more girls? Thanks
 

mababu

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Should I use gun and tell her that she’s mine now and no one else’s? Maybe if her bf would accidentally gone my situation would be better? Maybe I should start giving sweets with drugs inside? 🤣 Any pickup ideas and ideas of working methods please 😂
 
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Atlas IV

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Should I use gun and tell her that she’s mine now and no one else’s? Maybe if her bf would accidentally gone my situation would be better? Maybe I should start giving sweets with drugs inside? 🤣
WTF
Any pickup ideas and ideas of working methods please 😂
Get help. I mean real help. This is not the place for you if thoughts like that cross your mind. I don't care if you were just "joking". What you just wrote is fucking scary.
 

Chase

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Seconded 😑

Actually I think that last post of @mababu's was intended to be a joke.

@mababu, I would recommend settling into the forum before starting in on the off-color jokes.

Especially off-color jokes where there's a language barrier.

As for the OP:

I wouldn’t have noticed her at first, but when I visited where she works I saw she remembered every word I said.
Her coworker likes me too and asked me why I didn't picked her instead. Maybe I should show off with more girls and continue this way with more girls? Thanks

Yeah, I mean, if the girl was already one you "wouldn't have noticed" but only started paying attention to because she likes you...

Except she is in a relationship...

But the other one also likes you, and apparently(?) is not in a relationship...

Just bang the other one.

Just bang more girls in general.

It will either cure you of your oneitis for the first girl, or else the first girl will ditch her shitty boyfriend and come racing to you.

Either way you win, right?


Chase
 

mababu

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WTF

Get help. I mean real help. This is not the place for you if thoughts like that cross your mind. I don't care if you were just "joking". What you just wrote is fucking scary.
I was waiting some advices and ideas instead of showing your different sence of humor due to cultural difference. If thats so scarry for you just don't read it :))) this community is full of guys who chasing whores and thats also very scary for me :)))
 

mababu

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Seconded 😑

Actually I think that last post of @mababu's was intended to be a joke.

@mababu, I would recommend settling into the forum before starting in on the off-color jokes.

Especially off-color jokes where there's a language barrier.

As for the OP:




Yeah, I mean, if the girl was already one you "wouldn't have noticed" but only started paying attention to because she likes you...

Except she is in a relationship...

But the other one also likes you, and apparently(?) is not in a relationship...

Just bang the other one.

Just bang more girls in general.

It will either cure you of your oneitis for the first girl, or else the first girl will ditch her shitty boyfriend and come racing to you.

Either way you win, right?


Chase
Thanks for advice. Yes I was thinking about that too. Her coworker have husband and have lover and I saw them... And she talking like that with me so I bet that would be easy to bang her. Im absolutely not in to her. Not my type girl but probably you right worth to do it in case it will make main girl more emotions. Maybe she will change her mind later. I thought to come with another girl to place where she works to bang her at wc and to make sure she noticed that.

With to bang more girls yes you right... I have this problem. I bang every girl who is available for that I would bang girl I don't like and don't want to see again.. And if I try to get someone I like I make if look like Im chasing... Some needy energy. Working on it yet. Will check that link. Thanks for help.
 
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