Need some advice on how to proceed

[silkyturtle]

Would really appreciate some advice on how to handle this situation

Met girl on Bumble. Asked for her number, she said she is more comfortable talking on Bumble. No number. Weird?

Invite her to eat. She wants to pay so I let her. Weird?

End up going to a bar after. Ask her to come over. We have sex. She also said I don't have to wear a condom since she is on birth control. Red flag? Obviously wore a condom

Cuddled for a little bit after. Probably a bad idea?

She leaves at 4am and says she will text me when she gets home. No text. Next day no text.

What do I do? Should I text her? Or do I just wait?

For what it is worth. I like the girl and wouldn't mind seeing her again

 

[jakesykes949]

I'd give her a call in a week and just set up plans to meet up. Tell her you'd like to see her again, and want to go do something fun.

If she doesn't respond, no big deal. It's fine. It's all part of the game, man. You don't necessarily know what she's looking for.

 

[silkyturtle]

You are right I don't know what she is looking for

Thing is.. I don't have her number. She was more comfortable talking on Bumble, so she didn't give me her number

Funny thing is we are still matched on Bumble, she could of easily deleted me and moved on

 

[silkyturtle]

Texted her: What's up. Have you listened to that album yet?

I gave her an album recommendation and she saved it on Youtube

I texted her two days ago, no response. Time to move on. My question is why doesn't she unmatch me on Bumble?

 

[Michal]

Texted her: What's up. Have you listened to that album yet?

I gave her an album recommendation and she saved it on Youtube

I texted her two days ago, no response. Time to move on. My question is why doesn't she unmatch me on Bumble?

Because she might be busy and did not find the time to get back to you yet. Just because a girl is not responding does not mean it is a lost case. What it means is you should be busy yourself with your life. If she gets back to you.. cool, if not.. does not matter either. I texted a girl on tinder about 4 months ago, she never responded. 2 weeks ago, she did and we will have a date next Monday.
You texted her, so now it is her turn. Forget her for now and go do stuff, she will either get back or not.

 

[silkyturtle]

You are absolutely right. I spoke too soon. She responded at 1:30am Thursday morning

Texted her: What's up. Have you listened to that album yet?

She responded: Its good i enjoyed it

I haven't responded yet. I'm thinking of waiting a few days, then asking her out and seeing what she says

Thoughts?

 

[Fuck This]

Ask her Tonight to come over for dinner on Sunday or Monday night. Spend Friday and Saturday night out meeting other women.

 

[silkyturtle]

I asked her: How do you feel about dark, mysterious bars with dangerous amounts of rum?

She answered: Sounds like a good time

Then I told her the bar and asked her what her schedule looked like. Texted her on Saturday. no response yet

Nothing else for me to do but wait, I guess, If she wants to see me she will make an effort

 

[silkyturtle]

Had a date set up for the night. She cancelled and said she found someone to go steady with. This is highly unlikely. Guess she just needed sex that one night. I responded with: No worries, it was a pleasure, have fun.