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shinshteru

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Hi all. I would like some advice.
You see I am currently a university student who likes this chick at university. Met her in one of my subjects and she gave me her number 1st and asked me where I live. LOL I am a fulltime student that wants to finish my studies first and she is currently working fulltime and studying parttime. I had to decline a job offer fullttime because I want to finish off my course faster and then work. We are texting each other every now and then. Talk about university stuff and how to complete assignments, exams, study session for an exam, plans after university, etc.
Now my question for you is that should I ask her out now (in my final semester and she finishes after 2 more semesters), after I finish my final semester (pass all of my hardest subjects :( ) and look for work ASAP, wait until she also finishes next year next semester so University life is finished, or did I fuck things up (been over a year now still texting but this semester I will help her with one subject and she’ll help me out in another) and so I am in her "friend zone"? Oh also I am a local and it sounds like she is an international student although looks like a perfect 10 to me :) .
 

shinshteru

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bump

so should I.......................
1. should I ask her out now (in my final semester and she finishes after 2 more semesters),
2. after I finish my final semester (pass all of my hardest subjects :( ) and look for work ASAP, then ask her out
3. wait until she also finishes next year next semester so University life is finished, then ask her out
or 4. did I fuck things up (been over a year now still texting but this semester I will help her with one subject and she’ll help me out in another) and so I am in her "friend zone"?
 

Metalus

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If i had to choose between 1 and 4.
Id say 4 !

Why would u want to wait a year or even more ?
U should have asked her out by now. You can still try but it might not work out for you.
(Still try - there is nothing worse then the feeling "fuck i should have at least tried" )
 

Smith

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Holy shit man. One month later...you're still thinking about her?
Ask her out now. Don't chase the future.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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