So I met a girl at a wedding shes say a 8-9 and a virgin at 26 yrs. We hit it off I game her and it all goes great, we go out to the club (just the 2 of us) afterwards and make out. She studies in a different city but her hometown is close to mine and she will be done with the studies and back in her hometown in 2 months. We start texting semi regularly, shes pretty invested and calls me to visit her. Unfortunately in the 1st month I didnt have time because of work. Then I got some time and tried to set up a date and thats where the problems started.
We agreed on a weekedn and then she stopped contacting me, before the weekend i chatted her up on text and she said sorry I wont be in the city this weekend can you please come some other weekend as well so we can spend some time? I was like sure no problem, still giving me IOIs and invested but not contacting me via messenger anymore.
2nd time I set up a date a week before and then come to the city where she is for hoping we'll meet (and hangout with friends cousin etc). I tell her im on the bus she tells me apologetically that she thought im not going to come and that i should have told her a day before, shes already on the bus home, she says shes really sorry and shell make it up to me, she is going to be home alone for 2 weeks and that I should come. Im like sure no problem ill see you in 10 days.
Now were supposed to meet in 2 days, I contacted her, she cut the conversation short and i asked her if were gonna see each other in 2 days, playfully, no response, I said are you trying to run away again with a smiley face and she did a "seen" and no response
Not sure if she is flakey and plays alot of games (kind of too old for that I thought, high school stuff).
So my question is, should I contact her at all anymore? If i do should i act cool and say "are we gonna meet up, its not a big deal if you cant make it or dont want to, no big deal, dont stress, just let me know so I can set up my schedule
", or should I be a bit more harsh and call her out on flakiness and stuff?
Thanks
We agreed on a weekedn and then she stopped contacting me, before the weekend i chatted her up on text and she said sorry I wont be in the city this weekend can you please come some other weekend as well so we can spend some time? I was like sure no problem, still giving me IOIs and invested but not contacting me via messenger anymore.
2nd time I set up a date a week before and then come to the city where she is for hoping we'll meet (and hangout with friends cousin etc). I tell her im on the bus she tells me apologetically that she thought im not going to come and that i should have told her a day before, shes already on the bus home, she says shes really sorry and shell make it up to me, she is going to be home alone for 2 weeks and that I should come. Im like sure no problem ill see you in 10 days.
Now were supposed to meet in 2 days, I contacted her, she cut the conversation short and i asked her if were gonna see each other in 2 days, playfully, no response, I said are you trying to run away again with a smiley face and she did a "seen" and no response
Not sure if she is flakey and plays alot of games (kind of too old for that I thought, high school stuff).
So my question is, should I contact her at all anymore? If i do should i act cool and say "are we gonna meet up, its not a big deal if you cant make it or dont want to, no big deal, dont stress, just let me know so I can set up my schedule
", or should I be a bit more harsh and call her out on flakiness and stuff?Thanks
