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It's me, Altair, whiny Arab dude from the bible belt who was a virgin back when he started his time on Girlschase.
So for a while, I was thinking that maybe I had some major issues or perhaps I needed to go see a psychiatrist. I thought that due to parenting and other issues I faced growing up, having success with women would be out of the question for me. Then I started doing some serious soul searching and decided why I was actually so sad and depressed in life. I wondered why things like relationships and sex which so many guys in my age group were supposed to be having, I was not having. Could it be something else? Could my location be playing a major role here?
Well, after talking to some guys on GC who have lived in the same state I spent my adolescence and teenage years in as well as looking around in other places, I slowly realized that the state I am in is pretty much a tough place to game in unless you're into black girls. As a guy who likes white girls, what I often heard was that it would be very difficult (my ethnic background working strongly against me). One GC member who spent a significant amount of time in the area actually told me that unless I am in a fraternity in college, playing a college sport, or in some very tight knit social group such as a church; I was going to have a very rough time in my area. I found that even making friends and being a part of social circles was very hard for me because people in the area were not welcoming of newcomers.
I saw it, girls being very snobby, dismissive, and practically ignoring me in social situations as much as they could. It takes its toll on a guy.
So then the change started, I decided to spend some time with a few friends in Florida, man was it life changing.
First week there I went out with a couple of friends, we were standing around outside of a bar, I look around, these two blondes pass us (both cute!), and they try to take a selfie with me. The girls hardly knew me but it was an ego boost, from there I chatted with them and one of the blondes gave me a kiss on the cheek before walking away. Should have asked for the # but man, what a great way to start my time there.
So over the weeks, I had so many good experiences with girls. I managed to get a couple of makeouts at bars, it was easy as hell and came so naturally to me.
The girls, they were so nice to me.
When I was in a neighboring state, the girls were all cunts but now in Florida, they are mostly nice to me. Not only the girls but also the many guys I know also seemed to be happy, it was a completely different world!
Then I went out to a few events with my friends, their girlfriends, and had a date by my arm. I've literally gone from zero sexual experience to getting a makeout, a few dates, and almost having sex with a really good looking girl had I not prematurely ejaculated while making out with her. The girl looked so much like a Megan Fox and I almost lost my virginity to a really hot girl, fucking dammit!
After that I made out on the beach with this tall cute blonde with a volleyball player body but was too much of a pussy to have sex on a beach. Reason being that I did not want to get into legal trouble and the other one being, I was on top of her motor boating her nice titts, kissing her on the neck, making out with her, and I prematurely ejaculated.
Time ended, my vacation there did as well, and I had to come home to my horrible state but I am happier now because I know that there is something for me out there.
To all of you in here struggling, your location could potentially be having a very big say in it!
So for a while, I was thinking that maybe I had some major issues or perhaps I needed to go see a psychiatrist. I thought that due to parenting and other issues I faced growing up, having success with women would be out of the question for me. Then I started doing some serious soul searching and decided why I was actually so sad and depressed in life. I wondered why things like relationships and sex which so many guys in my age group were supposed to be having, I was not having. Could it be something else? Could my location be playing a major role here?
Well, after talking to some guys on GC who have lived in the same state I spent my adolescence and teenage years in as well as looking around in other places, I slowly realized that the state I am in is pretty much a tough place to game in unless you're into black girls. As a guy who likes white girls, what I often heard was that it would be very difficult (my ethnic background working strongly against me). One GC member who spent a significant amount of time in the area actually told me that unless I am in a fraternity in college, playing a college sport, or in some very tight knit social group such as a church; I was going to have a very rough time in my area. I found that even making friends and being a part of social circles was very hard for me because people in the area were not welcoming of newcomers.
I saw it, girls being very snobby, dismissive, and practically ignoring me in social situations as much as they could. It takes its toll on a guy.
So then the change started, I decided to spend some time with a few friends in Florida, man was it life changing.
First week there I went out with a couple of friends, we were standing around outside of a bar, I look around, these two blondes pass us (both cute!), and they try to take a selfie with me. The girls hardly knew me but it was an ego boost, from there I chatted with them and one of the blondes gave me a kiss on the cheek before walking away. Should have asked for the # but man, what a great way to start my time there.
So over the weeks, I had so many good experiences with girls. I managed to get a couple of makeouts at bars, it was easy as hell and came so naturally to me.
The girls, they were so nice to me.
When I was in a neighboring state, the girls were all cunts but now in Florida, they are mostly nice to me. Not only the girls but also the many guys I know also seemed to be happy, it was a completely different world!
Then I went out to a few events with my friends, their girlfriends, and had a date by my arm. I've literally gone from zero sexual experience to getting a makeout, a few dates, and almost having sex with a really good looking girl had I not prematurely ejaculated while making out with her. The girl looked so much like a Megan Fox and I almost lost my virginity to a really hot girl, fucking dammit!
After that I made out on the beach with this tall cute blonde with a volleyball player body but was too much of a pussy to have sex on a beach. Reason being that I did not want to get into legal trouble and the other one being, I was on top of her motor boating her nice titts, kissing her on the neck, making out with her, and I prematurely ejaculated.
Time ended, my vacation there did as well, and I had to come home to my horrible state but I am happier now because I know that there is something for me out there.
To all of you in here struggling, your location could potentially be having a very big say in it!
