New Girl in A Guy's Forum!

[PrettyDecent]

I might check this site out if I were you: http://www.reddit.com/r/fPUA. But they don't seem as successful as us

In order to get on the level of the most attractive men, you need to increase your game too. That means increasing fundamentals, becoming socially on-top, and knowing how to screen for attractive men who are also attracted to you.

This part by Ross is also worth re-reading. The most attractive men approach the most attractive women (at least for relationships). Becoming more physically attractive (dressing stylishly, sexy voice, etc.) and socially attuned (especially, especially flirting) would be my guess on places to start. I might even watch Hollywood movies with actresses who are considered "hot" or "sexy" and find the attributes that make them so, and then employ them yourself.

 

[Estate]

Not to be a jerk here but...

For a forum full of guys good with women I'm kinda surprised that the most replied to thread with the most advice and probably most words per post in well... months... is a thread started by a "girl".
Come on guys...!

 

[trashKENNUT]

For a forum full of guys good with women I'm kinda surprised that the most replied to thread with the most advice and probably most words per post in well... months... is a thread started by a "girl".
Come on guys...!

Oh, no. Estate, You should not stop them.

We should talk to her privately.

Zac

 

[Estate]

It's just a little bit sad. The OP has already gotten plenty off good advice.

I'd expect this on another forum... I.e. a girl posts in a male dominated forum and every guy there begins to cyber-flirt mercilously...
... but for a forum full of guys with the skills, the talents, the abundance mentalities (which we do all have.... right???) I'm pretty surprised.

This forum needs a bit of life recently... there's lots of GUYS here posting good advice threads and asking good questions which go largely ignored, I assumed guys just were not vtheisiting the forum.

Yet a "girl" posts a message and it gets 20+ replies, has several hundred views, every guy on here chasing to help her out, every one trying their best witty banter lines on her!?!?!

The OP is entitled to ask questions but I think she got some good advice and we're all set on this one now... I'm surprised by a lot of you guys is all.

 

[trashKENNUT]

It's just a little bit sad. The OP has already gotten plenty off good advice.

I'd expect this on another forum... I.e. a girl posts in a male dominated forum and every guy there begins to cyber-flirt mercilously...
... but for a forum full of guys with the skills, the talents, the abundance mentalities (which we do all have.... right???) I'm pretty surprised.

This forum needs a bit of life recently... there's lots of GUYS here posting good advice threads and asking good questions which go largely ignored, I assumed guys just were not vtheisiting the forum.

Yet a "girl" posts a message and it gets 20+ replies, has several hundred views, every guy on here chasing to help her out, every one trying their best witty banter lines on her!?!?!

The OP is entitled to ask questions but I think she got some good advice and we're all set on this one now... I'm surprised by a lot of you guys is all.

I am sure the guys out here are skillful, talented, and we all learning.

The surge of advice is one of the few things guys do with girls every time. IT is always nice to have females around and feel welcomed.

Zac

 

[Good Vibes]

Yet a "girl" posts a message and it gets 20+ replies, has several hundred views, every guy on here chasing to help her out, every one trying their best witty banter lines on her!?!?!

Are you sure about every guy?

 

[The Tool]

@Estate. its not because we are not visiting the forums (I visit every day) its because well at least in my case that I am tired of answering the same questions over and over. And I have reached a lot of of goals concerning GC as have many others. This post by Melanie is a breath of fresh air, something new and interesting. And I myself definitely want to help her out but alas most of the good advice has been given especially by Franco.

The advice I would like to give Melanie though is with flirting, I myself like a woman that gives me a bit of a challenge. Who gives me a hard time. I say something witty, she gives me something witty right back. To which I would think to myself "touche" and continue with the conversation. The key is though to do a bit of this, and not too much. have to have a balance or you will come across as not so nice.

Example.

Me "You look like you like to cause a lot of trouble" said with a wink and a smile
Her " I love trouble but your the one whose going to be in it" said with a wink and a smile right back.

^this kind of stuff gets me excited and interested in other witty things this woman would come back with.

Hope this helps a bit Melanie. Best of luck to you

 

[DesiBro]

To answer about my ultimate decision, well to be honest, it is probably a very silly reason. Please don’t laugh at me… but I just always wanted my husband to know that he was the only one for me. *nervous laugh* That’s really it. *ducks away in a little hole*

You are lacking an abundance mentality. Extremely unhealthy in relationships. If you keep this up, you will value your own (substandard) sex so much that your partner will never be able to keep you happy.