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Hi everyone, I hope I am pinging this post to right spot.
Long Story Short-
I started talking to a girl (call her Girl A cuz there is another involved later) I see around my group of friends from time to time. I felt a signal from Girl A that she was interested and I even got her number. I asked her out, she said she was busy and I chucked it up as, well maybe there WASN'T anything there.
I bumped into Girl A eventually around the circle AGAIN. I had no hard feelings and was having a great time at a birthday celebration at a bar/club. We even danced a bit, she pulled me over to an area to see a band that was playing in the section of the club (physically grabbed me). So here I am trying to dismiss these things but all of our friends had told me they noticed a heavy chemistry.
I decided to make a push again; laid some feelings out but again she declined my advances. This cycle has gone on about 2 more times MINUS me making an advance and I once again suggested we hang out and see a movie to which she escaped my request with witty banter and actually blushed and left the area. This made me feel like I had her! I confronted Girl A about it again and she said she was going to see it with a friend......
Needless to say I am HIGHLY confused, her friends say she may just not be ready for a relationship, but I never said those things I just wanted a date to see where the chemistry is going.
The Jealousy-
So I had gotten a date with Girl B, the girl practically set it up for me lol, to that same movie thats I KNOW Girl A has seen! My question is how can I go about this to see if jealousy will spark a reaction FROM her onto me. I can contact her about the movie and talk about how great it was blah blah drop that i had seen it on a date or I can drop this to her in a few days on a social event I KNOW she will be at. Should I drop that info prior to seeing her in person?
Also, what could Girl A's behavior mean? Her friends say that we have this chemistry that I and they notice and that they are sure she likes me. Are they and I wrong?
Thanks, any info would help! I am probably going to drop the info on her prior if no one replies lol!
Deadeye
Long Story Short-
I started talking to a girl (call her Girl A cuz there is another involved later) I see around my group of friends from time to time. I felt a signal from Girl A that she was interested and I even got her number. I asked her out, she said she was busy and I chucked it up as, well maybe there WASN'T anything there.
I bumped into Girl A eventually around the circle AGAIN. I had no hard feelings and was having a great time at a birthday celebration at a bar/club. We even danced a bit, she pulled me over to an area to see a band that was playing in the section of the club (physically grabbed me). So here I am trying to dismiss these things but all of our friends had told me they noticed a heavy chemistry.
I decided to make a push again; laid some feelings out but again she declined my advances. This cycle has gone on about 2 more times MINUS me making an advance and I once again suggested we hang out and see a movie to which she escaped my request with witty banter and actually blushed and left the area. This made me feel like I had her! I confronted Girl A about it again and she said she was going to see it with a friend......
Needless to say I am HIGHLY confused, her friends say she may just not be ready for a relationship, but I never said those things I just wanted a date to see where the chemistry is going.
The Jealousy-
So I had gotten a date with Girl B, the girl practically set it up for me lol, to that same movie thats I KNOW Girl A has seen! My question is how can I go about this to see if jealousy will spark a reaction FROM her onto me. I can contact her about the movie and talk about how great it was blah blah drop that i had seen it on a date or I can drop this to her in a few days on a social event I KNOW she will be at. Should I drop that info prior to seeing her in person?
Also, what could Girl A's behavior mean? Her friends say that we have this chemistry that I and they notice and that they are sure she likes me. Are they and I wrong?
Thanks, any info would help! I am probably going to drop the info on her prior if no one replies lol!
Deadeye
