Hey guys, So a little back story. Met a girl who was great for me, both comic nerds. I did decent in person. She def dug my vibe and Fingered her first nite. But I was unsure about many things and my friend helped me construct texts and gave me advice.
Well this guy was a total afc. He had me texting her every morning. He said every time she texts send three back. Had me buy her flowers and a bunch of chump shit. Well as you can imagine, it chased her away. I was very bummed but angered at the same time. That night I vowed it would never happen to again.
I searched for help. Reading stuff here, only now do I realize how much of a bitch I was being. Ugh. There's still something there I think, she returns text still. But shows little interest.
So I read and leaned. Chases book an half of the game so far
My text game is much better and already scored a date with a new girl tomorrow. I met her online, asked her about a couple things and she gave me digits. Now when I text I wait a half hour to respond and she wanted to see me Friday and I turned her down and said I'm hanging out with my friends.
I think that worked cause the next morning she texted bright and early. So, I don't know how to handle a date though. We're going out to eat. Then I'm going to have her go to best buy with me while I shop.
I'm also following the newbie guide here. I went out and complimented 3 women today. The first two were brief, nice coat, nice scarf. Lame. I knew I had to man up.
I went into hot topic. I saw a really hot girl. I never talk to hot girls. Ever. I got super nervous, I was just going to leave. But then she turned around and I saw her ass. I want one of those one day, I thought. And I'll never get it if I leave. I approached.
Me: I really like your boots.
Her: (blushed) Really?
I didn't give a shit about her boots, but she blushed and acted coy. My head almost blew up. I'm talking to her!?
Me: Yeah, where'd you get them from?
Her: (stuff was said about the boots but my hormones were going crazy)...and so yeah. Like only 20 bucks. (Smile)
Pause.
This is where I blew it. I was just so lost. The newbie thing just said a compliment. I bailed. I ran away....
I did feel good though because I made it that far. And I could tell, it was working!
I didn't know if I should neg or introduce myself?, I was just so lost. I will continue to fight though. I've come out of it only more encouraged. I'm loving it so far and even have a date tomorrow!
Well this guy was a total afc. He had me texting her every morning. He said every time she texts send three back. Had me buy her flowers and a bunch of chump shit. Well as you can imagine, it chased her away. I was very bummed but angered at the same time. That night I vowed it would never happen to again.
I searched for help. Reading stuff here, only now do I realize how much of a bitch I was being. Ugh. There's still something there I think, she returns text still. But shows little interest.
So I read and leaned. Chases book an half of the game so far
My text game is much better and already scored a date with a new girl tomorrow. I met her online, asked her about a couple things and she gave me digits. Now when I text I wait a half hour to respond and she wanted to see me Friday and I turned her down and said I'm hanging out with my friends.
I think that worked cause the next morning she texted bright and early. So, I don't know how to handle a date though. We're going out to eat. Then I'm going to have her go to best buy with me while I shop.
I'm also following the newbie guide here. I went out and complimented 3 women today. The first two were brief, nice coat, nice scarf. Lame. I knew I had to man up.
I went into hot topic. I saw a really hot girl. I never talk to hot girls. Ever. I got super nervous, I was just going to leave. But then she turned around and I saw her ass. I want one of those one day, I thought. And I'll never get it if I leave. I approached.
Me: I really like your boots.
Her: (blushed) Really?
I didn't give a shit about her boots, but she blushed and acted coy. My head almost blew up. I'm talking to her!?
Me: Yeah, where'd you get them from?
Her: (stuff was said about the boots but my hormones were going crazy)...and so yeah. Like only 20 bucks. (Smile)
Pause.
This is where I blew it. I was just so lost. The newbie thing just said a compliment. I bailed. I ran away....
I did feel good though because I made it that far. And I could tell, it was working!
I didn't know if I should neg or introduce myself?, I was just so lost. I will continue to fight though. I've come out of it only more encouraged. I'm loving it so far and even have a date tomorrow!
