Hello everyone I just found out about girls chase when googling some topics about dating and picking up women. I've read a few of chases popular posts and found them very interesting to say the least. I'm pretty clueless when it comes to the opposite sex and I also have anxiety issues that a struggle with especially when it comes to women.
Ok so here is what I need help with. I met this beautiful at the gym at the gym the other day. I wasn't even trying to pick up any girls at the gym nor have I tried. Ok well long story short, I was playing basketball by myself just shooting around (gym was pretty empty because it was almost closing time). I had noticed her walk in and there was a basketball on the ground by me so I handed it to her. She said thank you and we started have small talk just about basketball, the gym, and a little about ourselves. We just goofed around for about 30 mins before the gym closed. Right before they were about to leave she asked me for my fb, don't have one, so I gave her my number. She texted me her name so I saved her # and texted her ask saying it was nice meeti.... Blah blah blah. We texted a cpl messages back and forth and I was basically trying to build a rapport before I knew about building one. Only thing is she took forever to respond. About one text every 3 hours so I also waited to reply. We had a little more small talk about 10-15 text each and I didn't respond because the convo wasn't going anywhere.
So from here I'm pretty much lost she seemed really interested in me at first i.e. She asked me for my contact info but what threw me off was the response time. It's only been about 4 days since we've met and I know that I will see her at the gym again most likely this upcoming week.
Should I keep texting her, try to flirt or build a rapport
Or should I just see her at the gym next time and try to talk in person and ask her out in a date
I don't want to ask her out over text because of the response time and it just doesn't feel right in this situation.
Any advice guys?
Should I seek her out at the gym and try and get a date or should I keep building a rapport over text which I've heard hurts your chance at getting a date the more time you waste?
Ok so here is what I need help with. I met this beautiful at the gym at the gym the other day. I wasn't even trying to pick up any girls at the gym nor have I tried. Ok well long story short, I was playing basketball by myself just shooting around (gym was pretty empty because it was almost closing time). I had noticed her walk in and there was a basketball on the ground by me so I handed it to her. She said thank you and we started have small talk just about basketball, the gym, and a little about ourselves. We just goofed around for about 30 mins before the gym closed. Right before they were about to leave she asked me for my fb, don't have one, so I gave her my number. She texted me her name so I saved her # and texted her ask saying it was nice meeti.... Blah blah blah. We texted a cpl messages back and forth and I was basically trying to build a rapport before I knew about building one. Only thing is she took forever to respond. About one text every 3 hours so I also waited to reply. We had a little more small talk about 10-15 text each and I didn't respond because the convo wasn't going anywhere.
So from here I'm pretty much lost she seemed really interested in me at first i.e. She asked me for my contact info but what threw me off was the response time. It's only been about 4 days since we've met and I know that I will see her at the gym again most likely this upcoming week.
Should I keep texting her, try to flirt or build a rapport
Or should I just see her at the gym next time and try to talk in person and ask her out in a date
I don't want to ask her out over text because of the response time and it just doesn't feel right in this situation.
Any advice guys?
Should I seek her out at the gym and try and get a date or should I keep building a rapport over text which I've heard hurts your chance at getting a date the more time you waste?
