No "chemistry" on dates. How to fix this?

[Elnino25]

I've been going on a lot of dates lately and get this, time after time. EVEN when I take girls to bed on the first date.

Multiple girls have literally texted me the phrase "no chemistry" as a justification as to why they don't want to see me again after a first date. Are there any articles that Chase / others have written about that discuss this topic?

Maybe it is because I live in nyc and am going after higher-status girls? Nyc girls can be obnoxious and I definitey do better with girls in every other part of the US (/world). Or maybe it is because I am slightly awkward and act a bit rigid and not natural enough during a date? For example, I catch myself forcing smiles every now and then just to do it, but it probably looks a but unnatural if I can catch myself doing it.

Has Chase written about what makes a date feel natural? Any other advice?

 

[trashKENNUT]

Elnino25,

Do you mind sharing what you do, so as to share more information with everyone on disqualifying yourself as boyfriend material. This seems to be what you good at.

Zac

 

[Elnino25]

Do you think it is because i always try and either take the girl home or end up at her place on date 1?

So I always suggest that we go either to mine or to hers toward the end of the date. The problem is that I would like a girlfriend, not just a one night stand, but from reading this website a little bit, it seemed like taking a girl home as fast as possible is absolutely critical.

I do usually pay for girls on a date, and in general act gentlemanly, but i do try and move (maybe too) quickly.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Elnino25,

Do you think it is because i always try and either take the girl home or end up at her place on date 1?

I am not sure. That's why i ask.

So I always suggest that we go either to mine or to hers toward the end of the date. The problem is that I would like a girlfriend, not just a one night stand, but from reading this website a little bit, it seemed like taking a girl home as fast as possible is absolutely critical.

I do usually pay for girls on a date, and in general act gentlemanly, but i do try and move (maybe too) quickly.

Hmm... you pay for dates and you move quickly. Girls you dated say you have "no chemistry". It seems like you have a problem i have before and occasionally do. Girls call me 'selfish' all the time because i have something which they wanted, which is being a great friend or a great boyfriend. It seems you are facing a similar thing.

Don't act too gentlemanly. IT shows women something you have, being a great boyfriend, which obviously you do not want to be.

You can however slowly ram up your gentleman ways once after sex, and she's start chasing, that is if you want a girlfriend.

Zac

 

[Elnino25]

Any other advice on this? Can i give more details that would make it easier to answer?