No girls anywhere.

[Zoro]

I am having a frustrating dilemma. I have been going out everyday to the mall, whole foods, the bookstore, even going further to the next town over, but I rarely see a cute girl.

And when I do, I'm usually in a piss poor mood and caught off guard.

I think I'm just in a self-fulfilling prophecy. There are cute girls everywhere so I'm just being quite a bitch about it.

It doesn't matter if the area I live in truly does have a low population of cute girls. I want to be able to man up and do what I can.

I just moved here so there's no way I looked in every corner for good day game spots. And when I first arrived I saw lots of cute girls. WHERE DID THEY GO?! Seriously though, this attitude I have is hard to shake! Ugh. Doesn't help that I am dealing with a couple other little issues and trying to cut out some negative things, both further feeding my base level frustration.

Its a strange feeling because underneath it all, I feel like a warrior shaking off his demons... Despite being weakened by years of their influence, the relentless will to prevail over them is slowly taking those demons down. And even though I break down sometimes, I am relentless. It feels good. Like how you feel good after puking or something.

Any tips on dealing with this mindfuck?

 

[Bboy100]

Tbh, there are some places which really have very few cute girls. If you just moved from a big city to a more suburb or rural type area, this is definitely to be expected. Most young professionals are in big cities. And college girls are in well...college towns. Outside of that, I wouldn't expect to find too much.

If you are in a big city, I suggest looking at touristy areas or downtown. If you're in a college town, you're basically gonna have to be on campus early in the day if you want to find lots of cute girls. Or maybe at the grocery stores next to campus.

Also, take a look at Tinder. Even if you don't use it, just check to see if there are cute girls on it. If there aren't, it's probably no mindfuck. It might be the truth.

 

[Zoro]

Haha, No doubt that is what is going on, Bboy.

The issue is more my attitude with the lack of cute girls. There are still cute girls and more of them compared to the city I just moved from.

I have since realized that its part of the moving process. I don't know the good spots yet. Haven't developed a social life here yet. Don't even have a job yet. Just growing pains from the move.