Not sure if she's interested or not

[ChrisCassi]

A week ago, one of my long time friend's older sisters posted a facebook status about how they went out to movies for a girls night. I commented saying, "Hey, let me know when y'all are going again. If I'm working I can get y'all free tickets!" I work at a movie theater and they are basically family so I figured why not. So a couple days ago, I receive a text from the eldest sister asking if I could get them tickets to spider man that night since I was working. I figured what the hell, and told her sure. At the time I had no agenda for anything other then helping out some old friends(ticket prices are a bitch), and though me (19) and the eldest sis(22) have sort of always had some mutual attraction to each other.

Anyway, they come and see the movie and I'm sure thats the end of it. But as I'm finishing my closing duties to get off work their movie ends, and they come and find me. They say they'll wait outside for me since they wanna catch up and I was gonna get off in 5 minutes. I get off, and head out and talk to them. It was the old sis, the second oldest(20) and a friend of theirs who I hadn't previously met. We find a place to sit, and the second oldest and the friend basically while the oldest and I mainly focusing on each other. She also kept making comments like "you are so handsome" and "I don't know why I'm telling you this" when she talked about how she wants to be a stay at home mom and other things. Basically she was acting nervous all night.

We talk for awhile and eventually I walk her to her car and give her a hug and I head home. I sent her a text that night saying it was good to see her and everything and she said the same. She also said she wants to hang out soon and I agreed. After that exchange I decided maybe to see if we can finally bring this long time mutual attraction to light.

Yesterday I texted her asking how her weekend went and everything, but got busy with other things and didn't realize I was going through the motions of my hold habits and just texted her in conversation for a few hours, until eventually she didn't reply. So today I sent her another text basically asking to hang out this week that went like this

Me @ 10:15am : "Hey we should totally hang out this week "

Her @ 12:14pm: "Yeah that would be cool"

Me @ 12:39pm: "Cool what days are you free this week?"

Her @ 12:54pm: "As far as I know just Wednesday and the weekend"

Me @ 1:17pm: "Wednesday works good for me"

And then nothing from her. So I'm not sure if she lost interest quickly or I'm just overthinking it.

Any advice would be nice.

 

[Mr. oblivious]

Did read the big bit just the conversation.

I dont think you should go straight into setting something up make a comment first to break the Ice (try make the comment connected to her somehow or the activity you met doing e.g.
hey usain bolt (dont use this just for example sake and i cant think of anything atm) hope your legs aren't to sore. Mr. Oblivious (insert name there)

She will probably reply going yeh fine etc.

Then you can say something about how it was nice meeting her and ask her if she would like to go out for coffee probably ask her how her schedule is looking

She reply either with interest or no interest and tells you her free days

Then depending on the date your planning on setting up either say a time and place and date or in some cases you can leave the time and place out and say you will message her details closer to the date

(this is kinda sloppy i should probably start doing normal examples which are clear but when i respond at 4.30am after finishing assignments etc. the motivation is low)

Anyways from what i can see unless i missed something in the blurb i think it cause you kinda jumped straight into setting up the date

 

[ChrisCassi]

Kinda... Jumped right in since I've known her for 10+ Years... Lol it's in the big blurb so that's why I jumped the gun

 

[Mr. oblivious]

Kinda... Jumped right in since I've known her for 10+ Years... Lol it's in the big blurb so that's why I jumped the gun

fair enough

 

[ChrisCassi]

*Update*

So yesterday i ended up running into while picking some prescriptions for me dad as she works at the local pharmacy. She need pretty neutral to see me, probably since she was at work I'd suppose. She asked if we were still on for tomorrow, and to which I replied definitely.

This morning I awake to text from her flaking due to her waking up sick.
I kept it cool and told her it's not biggie and to get some rest and feel better and to hit me up when she is so we can reschedule. She said she would and that's she's really sorry.

So hopefully i handled that right and hopefully it works out. Fingers crossed