Nub back in the game

[Anonymous]

Been out of a very ltr for a few months and getting back in the game. I scored a short first date, lunch beer, with this chick that went well. She told me she had fun and wanted to meet again. I followed up later with a msg and she seemed interested. But the next day I felt like I was getting friend zoned as she was trying to converse through text while she was at work. I made some ECG and CBQG mistakes and our conversation died off. She texted me the next day and told me her plans for the weekend I shot a boring response and received no reply. I then realized I was fucking up and got on this site to find some answers. So i sent her this "Hey just got back from the beach all that talk about Mexican food the other day has got me hankerin, are you free for dinner sometime soon?" She asked which beach I went to, lol! I told her and she replied she like that beach. I'm not sure how to approach further. Any thoughts.

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

She told you her plans so she is interested in getting together. She is letting you know when she is available. Pick a time when she is not doing anything and tell her you will take her to the beach. Don't ask, tell politely. Set up the pick up place and time. Try to make it so you have time to do the beach, take her to get something to eat and then suggest going back to your place. This means you must be prepared to take her back to your place. Clean the place, get rid of the room mates and have condoms on hand. When you are at the beach be sure to take towels and sun screen. Also take some fun toys like a beach ball or Frisbee. A little work out in a bikini is an amazing to get your blood pumping. Also be sure to help her put on sun screen. Get right up to the bikini when doing so. This will let her know you are not afraid of touching her intimately. But save the covered areas for your place later on. Oh yeah the more important thing to do is have fun and relax. Don't over think it.