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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Another good daygame outing today.

Went out on the bike, did not have a specific target # of approaches this time. Got to my favorite park, locked up the bike and stayed there for the duration. The day was absolutely gorgeous and there was a good number of people out.

1.) Cute Colombiana.
First one of the day. Girl was sitting on a bench reading a book. However her attention was wandering and she was looking around and saw me. Hesitated slightly due to AA before the first approach, but repeated eye contact told me she was a winner.

I approached, opened direct - she smiled and instantly hooked. Turns out she is colombian so we switch to spanish. The conversation is going very well for several minutes, but as I am grabbing the number she is distracted by texts on her phone. She explains that she is meeting a friend, apologizes and takes my info. I tell her no worries and seed the date by asking what she likes to drink. Some more smiling and sustained eye contact as we say goodbye. She responded to my icebreaker text within minutes. Seems positive so far.

2.) Gorgeous virgin islander
The second approach happened perhaps 5-10 minutes after wrapping up with the Cute Colombiana. I am walking along and I see this incredible looking dark haired woman with perfect curves on her lower half, walking in the same direction and slightly ahead. I walk up to her and open direct like always. She is friendly, receptive, and also hooks fairly fast - turns out she is from the US virgin islands, which is quite interesting.

We are chatting about family history and where we are from (I am also from the Caribbean), and remarkably she number closes me by asking "Do you want to exchange contact info?" Nice.

This one also responded to the icebreaker text.

After these two good approaches I feel quite succesfull. I get out two more, #3 to a sexy italian and #4 to an asian cutie with big sunglasses. Unfortunately both of those dont go as well - the italian pulls out the boyfriend excuse and doesnt budge when I try to persist, while the asian is frosty and not hooking.

I chickened out of a final approach before I decide to go home. Thus, 4 approaches today, 2 numbers. Not too bad if you ask me.

Now I have to refine my dating and texting model in this pandemic time. I suppose I simply have to go for the home-meet and hope for the best, though it's possible I could get creative with outdoor dates too?
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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This gorgeous virgin islander (approach #2 above) has been very responsive to texts all day. Then, when I pull the trigger, the response is "let's wait until after the curfew is over"

I am in one of the US cities that is currently experiencing protests, of course. We can add "civil unrest" in addition to "global pandemic" as another obstacle to getting laid right now.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Another gorgeous Sunday today, thus perfect for another daygame outing. Unlike the previous two, today's was not as successful unfortunately.

I got on my bike and headed off to my favorite park again. Saw a few potential sets on the way - one older, slavic-looking MILF who was interacting in a loose way with another older gentleman walking a dog. Could have approached but it would have meant likely engaging the gentleman too. Another girl with a gorgeous ass on the trail definitely caught my eye - almost approached, but then saw she was on the phone.

Once arrived at my favorite park and locking up my bike, I saw the first set to approach immediately - a cute, short woman with big headphones on and sunglasses sitting on the grass.

#1 - Cute girl with headphones was immediately receptive and friendly. Turns out she came to the park from the same place I started. It was going well until someone started calling her...."oh, this is my fiance, he's problably looking for me - hey babe, I'm by the bike racks".

Oh well. I ejected soon after that (to which she said "aw ok, see you later" - almost like she was disappointed). I thought after the fact that I could have quickly gotten her number and still tried my chances at a seduction later. I saw her and the fiance walking together shortly afterwards in the park - dude was about twice my size.

#2 - Fit girl was wearing some kind of black sport top and tight leggings. She looked hot. Was walking in my direction and I opened as we passed. Unfortunately my approach failed to stop her momentum and she kept walking - she probably needed a more forceful 12 o clock front stop instead of the 10 or 11 o clock that I did. First blowout since I started approaching again during this pandemic.

#3 - Short blonde was idling around in another nearby park I reached on my bike. I was stopped, I observed her walking past - unsure of if I wanted to approach or not since she was perhaps only slightly over the attractiveness threshold of a girl I would be interested in. Then she took a seat on a park bench nearby which I interpreted as an IOI. I approached and she was happy I did - receptive and cute. It was a good pleasant conversation and problably the best of the day. Unfortunately when I tried to close she refused - said she had a boyfriend stationed in Qatar that would be coming back soon. My usual persistence did not work, so I moved on.

#4 - hot latina MILF was walking along the trail close to my starting point. I passed her on the bike then pulled over maybe 100 meters in front of her path - my intention was to approach as she passed me. Unfortunately she went off in another direction maybe 20 meters before reaching my position. I went after her and approached. Total blowout, she did not have even the slightest interest in engaging with me. Next time I wont wait to approach a woman walking on the trail - I will stop immediately on my bike and open.

#5 - French cutie another case of a failure to stop momemtum, similar to #2. The only difference is she did engage me in some minimal conversation before saying "I have to go meet my friends". I should have pulled out the usual "That's okay, I like busy people, but before you go, you should give me your number and we'll meet for wine" but I did not this time.

Finally, #6 - sexy italian was a taller woman I saw walking on a sidewalk close to my apartment building as I was on my way home. Pulled over on my bike, waited for her to walk to my position before opening. She was friendly and there was a soft social hook. A few minutes of conversation before she ejected saying she had to go home, to which this time I pulled out the "That's okay, I like busy people, but before you go, you should give me your number and we'll meet for wine". She refused the close and said she had a boyfriend. Usual persistence did not work, with her saying "I wouldn't want him doing that to me".

Thus, 6 approaches, no numbers. Hopefully next time will be more fruitful.

In other news, I've started to re-engage old leads on my phone (from daygame, dancing, or other sources), starting on the oldest from 2019 and working my way to the most recent ones. There is about a 25% response rate so far, which is not too bad. Still working on getting these responders out on dates.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I had an instant date with absolutely gorgeous haitian girl today who was out with her bicycle. Close to 10/10. Every part of her body was perfect - gorgeous face, nice tits, perfect ass. Cold approach in my local neighborhood that turned into an hours long chat with margaritas.

The good: She hooked and I was able to challenge her and engage her. We spent about an hour chatting on a park bench, I transitioned over to a bar with take out margaritas and built some good compliance. We sat down at another location (seperate chairs, unfortunately) with our drinks and continued the chat. She was asking a lot of questions and really engaged in the conversation. I saw an opportunity to continue escalating.

The bad: I knew that I had to distinguish myself from all the other guys out there with some good sex talk routines, unfortunately I have not brushed up on my notes on this and was unable to segway the conversation in this direction effectively. Right now, transitioning to sex talk is clearly my biggest sticking point. I really need to be more prepared and lead. I attempted a bounce-back with a dance lesson and plausible deniability (since she had said before that she was really interested in learning) and she refused with COVID-related objections. There was no opportunity to touch or build any kind of sexual tension.

The ugly: It turns out we are neighbors, and as we walked by my place she continued the COVID-related objections when I persisted with the "come back to my place for a dance lesson" idea. She wouldn't even hug or touch. I stupidly attempted to force the issue by stopping her movement by stopping her bike and she said "you're freaking me out". I didn't handle this well and just said "ok, see you later".

This might be a fuck up, but against my expectations she responded to the ice breaker text with "thanks for the drink, it was nice chatting with you". I'll give it at least several days before re-engaging.
 
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I was supposed to hang out with that "Gorgeous virgin islander" today. But then I get this doozy of a text when I attempt to set up the plans:
"Hey! I think you are great but i reconnected with my ex boyfriend this week so i wont be able to date you."

lol, not sure how I'm going to recover from that one.

Luckily, I doubled-booked myself intentionally. Texting old leads has uncovered the fact that a turkish girl I used to date last year is very keen on meeting up. That will happen this afternoon.
 

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A lot of flakes lately. Two leads I've reengaged from months/years ago have agreed to dates but then flaked the day off. A lot of others are being flaky in their responses.

Met with the turkish girl on Sunday, she is very sweet but very sexually inexperienced as I know from my previous interactions. She will require a long courtship process to get anywhere, and she is going back to Turkey soon due to the COVID situation. My interest in her isnt so strong to be honest.

Bottom line is I need more leads, and during this crazy time there are only two ways to get them: Cold Approach during the day or Online. The weather isnt looking so great this weekend. I hate online but I'm considering getting back on some of these apps. Thankfully still have more old leads to re-engage on my phone.
 

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Some days this pandemic situation can get quite frustrating. I went out today a few times and did 5 approaches total - two in the early afternoon, three later in the evening. None of them turned into number closes - either soft social hooks with the boyfriend excuse after the close, or just total blowouts. The fifth approach was a bit painful since the girl (a short slavic looking girl walking her dog, cute but not a stunner) straight up told me she was single after I tried to close, just not interested.

Whatever positive momentum I had back in May when I started cold approaching again seems to have gone away.

It's bullshit since we all know how this game works - a man must be immune to rejection and be willing to face it over and over and over and over again. After that 5th approach I let a few others pass me by (note to self: walking around in my neighorhood during sunset hours seems to be a decent time to approach girls out exercising). I really need to be consistent about seizing every good opportunity, especially if I want to use daygame to it's full potential. I'm at almost 500 lifetime approaches and I still have not learned this lesson fully. This is ESPECIALLY important now that daygame is literally the only way to approach women in the field - nightgame and dancing game no longer exists.

The other thing I did yesterday was finally download a bunch of dating apps. Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Coffee meets Bagel, Inner Circle, J-swipe. I'm trying them all. I guess it is time to finally adapt to these new crazy times. No joke, I'm even experimenting taking photos of myself in different settings. I have a few matches on all the apps (one that seems promising on Hinge?) but I need to find ways to increase the number.

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One interesting thing did happen today. As I was out on my bike, I was thinking about that Haitian girl I met several weeks ago and instant-dated --- the only phone number from daygame I got in the month of June (from a total of 13 approaches this month - not great numbers). She had not responded to my texts after the icebreaker. She had told me one of the parks I regularly visit was her favorite spot to read. I even had her mind as I looked around in that park. After seeing no women to approach I got back on my bike to go to another favorite daygame spot. As I got back on the trail - who do I see going by on her bike? THE HAITIAN GIRL.

At first I did not recognize her since her hair was different (black girls often change their hair). In fact I passed her. But after I arrived at my destination I looked back and saw her again - it was definitely her. I quickly caught up to her and approached and said "wanna race?" She said "excuse me?" before recognizing me, then suggested we go sit down. She picked a bench but as I sat next to her she started to complain about social distancing. This started a funny little mini discussion about how I would sit, since there was no place for me to be comfortable if I didn't sit next to her on the bench. I suggested the grass but she said she didn't want it on her skin (wtf?).

I stood up and just leaned against a post nearby for a few minutes, after this she actually got up and sat on the grass because "the sun was too intense" and said "there you happy?"

After this we both sat on the grass for 45 minutes. Unlike last time, this time I managed to transition into sex talk after starting with coronavirus and vaccines, social life during the pandemic, dating in general and during the pandemic, and finally into sex where I used the "11 orgasms" and "you dont know where your G-spot is" routine. We also revealed some details about our past dating lives.

After this time she gets up and says she will start heading back, and asks if I'm going too. I tell her I'll stay for a while longer and said "I'm happy fate brought us back together, talk to you later".

We'll see if this episode helps my chances in actually getting a response from her. I wont text her right away and what will probably happen is I'll need to court her for a while before it goes anywhere since she is so resistant to any close contact due to the stupid virus. But I'm happy I got to see her again.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I'm already getting tired of Tinder and these other dating apps. I get some matches, but very few of the quality that I want. Every time I go down this rabbit hole it is a road to frustration. I crave real, legitimate interactions with women, you know, the way we were programmed for millions of years - not trying to open through a stupid phone screen. The matches I do get are women I would never approach in the field.

Normally when I get to this point I just delete the apps and focus on meeting women in the field. Unfortunately, this time around its not that simple since my ability to generate leads in the field has been reduced. It's going to be a rough pandemic, especially when I run out of old leads to text. I'll continue to experiment with different photos to see if I can get some occasional good leads on these apps. It's happened before.

Three more approaches today, no numbers. Two blowouts and one soft social hook who refused the number close.
 

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Revising my policy of not approaching girls wearing masks or face coverings. When I do it its completely normal - there doesnt seem to be any increased tendency for negative reactions. Just another excuse from the anti-approach weasel.
 
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