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So got this month’s lay (October) and it was a good one. I've been on a work trip to New York and it’s been sweet. Went to an NHL game (I'm from Europe so it’s all completely new to me) and it was quality! Got a photo with a famous NFL player who happened to be there too. Basically all this meant i was in a great mood and kinda just knew it was my night. My colleagues went back to the hotel and i new i had to go out. I have some friends from Europe who were coincidentally in NY at the same time so i decided to meet up with them.
Started chatting to some girls in the queue to the club, I could tell they digged the accident. A guy took a group photo of everyone in the lift up to the top of this club we were going to, i turned to a random girl nearest to me (and hot) and said:
My friends had another female friend with them (Girl B), when i invited the other three girls over i was essentially dripping with pre-selection. It's probably worth pointing out that the ratio in the club was probably in my favour that night and it’s a not always this great. I continue to be sociable.
At some point we all disburse and i go to the toilet. Another girl starts talking to me and making conversation, also keen, but not that attractive. Is the ratio in NY always this great? As I'm coming out the toilet Girl A comes in we're washing our hands together and physically flirting we keep pushing and shoving each other, on the steps back up to the main dance-floor i realise i need to number close her but i don't get round to it before she meets back up with her friends. I'm not great at "making the opportunity" happen for number closing atm as i usually think about it too much and that moment is gone, it’s definitely something i need to improve upon. Anyway she leaves with her friends shortly afterwards.
This leaves me chilling with my two female friends and Girl B. At one point she knocks over some of my drink. Now Dominance is something I've been working on recently and so i push my response from what i might have done previously. Basically without saying anything, i look at her, push her head down to the ground so her ass sticks up in the air and give it a slap. I don't this forcibly but not too hard.
She then throws a shit test my way:
A bit later we're all dancing inside. I'm dancing like I don't give a fuck, very sexual, large hip movements, pushing all the girls around. Then my two friends go for a smoke and leave me and girl B alone. Now I've just shown two of the biggest attraction triggers in a woman in large abundance: Pre-selection and Dominance. Girl B is horny as fuck and starts getting with me. I don't have to initiate it.
I move her into a corner and start physically escalating my hands over her body and getting some vaginal stimulation with my knee like suggested on this site. I always move away before she can move my hand. I try and pull her out the club but systematically face a lot of resistance. Every time I stop and act as if to move away she pulls me back and starts getting with me because she wants it so bad so even though she puts up a lot of resistance ( I have to physically drag and push her at points) I know she is so keen. Outside were waiting for the taxi and it’s more of the same. I start using hilarious logical counter arguments like:
We both know they’re bollox but it distracts her from ‘having’ to go back and speak to her friends. I had to be pretty persistent but I kept my eye on the prize and the Uber arrived relatively quickly. In my room she’s all over me. It’s nice having a girl who desperately wants to satisfy you as much as you satisfy her. I’ve had sex with too many girls who like to give up once they’ve orgasmed. We have sex in the shower, on the floor in the bed etc. However one confusing thing is she is still putting up some kind of logical resistance even once I’ve penetrated her. She mentioned she was on the blob or something but there was no blood. She also mentioned some baggage of some description. Recently broke up with a bf or something. Anyway she kept on trying to resist the sex even when I was shagging her which I thought was strange because in my mind once I’m inside you, you may as well stop resisting it and enjoy. Anyone know the chick logic behind that?
Anyway I had been completely dominant up to this point and I notice the more dominant you act the more the women will try and tame you to at least some level.
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She then licked my balls whilst I jizzed all over her back. Whilst she was washing herself off she said:
I the morning we parted ways early because I had work.
Quick update
So because shes friends with my friends. We we’re all ended up going to go to dinner two nights later (with my colleagues as well). It was all good she was laughing at my jokes at the dinner table (even the ones that aren’t that funny). This is always a good sign in my opinion.
We went to loads of bars and ended up in this quite crappy club, which wasn’t really any of our scenes. By this time I was too drunk, because my manager had ordered a big bottle of vodka that no one was drinking so I decided to step up.
Here are the things that I remember:
-She thought there was something going on with my and one of my colleagues, there’s not, but we’re close friends.
-She was apologetic about last time; I think she felt like a bit of a slut. I did my best to dispel this and told her I loved last time
-I started extracting her from the club again, got her outside but was facing equal amount of resistance as last time, I thought this was strange the second time around.
-I dropped the ball when we were walking back to my hotel because one of her excuses was she needed to check on her/our drunk friend (she was on her own and pretty drunk). I thought this was a “Let’s check on her then we can go shag” but instead it was just false resistance, so the second we got back to the club that was it.
-My friend who we went to check on started licking my face/getting with me a little bit (I wasn’t keen but didn’t stop her) Girl B say this not sure it helped too much.
-I got a tiny bit needy in persisting for her to come home but noticed I was doing it and stopped myself and bid them goodnight after that.
Think I'll leave this one for the time being, just see if i ever run into her again rather than push for a follow up.
So I was left a little annoyed I didn’t get the repeat lay I clearly should have, but I only have myself to blame. I note that i am still quite dependent on having large amounts of social momentum, but once i have it i usually get results. I think the best approach here may have been to do some deep diving and found out what her situation was. I basically didn’t get to know her on a deep level at all, although most of our interaction was in noisy clubs it goes to show it always help to connect with a girl on an emotional level as well. Fuck them physically, mentally, emotionally… every way you can. That’s when you really seduce them.
Cheers,
HipHop.
Started chatting to some girls in the queue to the club, I could tell they digged the accident. A guy took a group photo of everyone in the lift up to the top of this club we were going to, i turned to a random girl nearest to me (and hot) and said:
She giggled. Building up the moment from the very beginning was key because I became magnetic. Whilst looking for my friends i got opened by a girl (Girl A). Not even an approach invitation a full on attempt to talk to me. She was with her other two female friends (they weren't that hot be she was). I chatted in a social manner with an easy confidence I've been building on. I find if you can just be comfortable and joking around groups of women they really like it (you don't have to be that sexual at this point). Anyway i mentioned i had to find my friends (two more girls!) and that when i found them they should come over too.
My friends had another female friend with them (Girl B), when i invited the other three girls over i was essentially dripping with pre-selection. It's probably worth pointing out that the ratio in the club was probably in my favour that night and it’s a not always this great. I continue to be sociable.
At some point we all disburse and i go to the toilet. Another girl starts talking to me and making conversation, also keen, but not that attractive. Is the ratio in NY always this great? As I'm coming out the toilet Girl A comes in we're washing our hands together and physically flirting we keep pushing and shoving each other, on the steps back up to the main dance-floor i realise i need to number close her but i don't get round to it before she meets back up with her friends. I'm not great at "making the opportunity" happen for number closing atm as i usually think about it too much and that moment is gone, it’s definitely something i need to improve upon. Anyway she leaves with her friends shortly afterwards.
This leaves me chilling with my two female friends and Girl B. At one point she knocks over some of my drink. Now Dominance is something I've been working on recently and so i push my response from what i might have done previously. Basically without saying anything, i look at her, push her head down to the ground so her ass sticks up in the air and give it a slap. I don't this forcibly but not too hard.
She then throws a shit test my way:
Now usually you’re supposed to respond because lack of response can be a failed test. However i also remember chase saying that to appear more powerful you need to maximize your results by doing as little as possible. So my response to this test was not to verbally respond, but instead give her strong eye contact for a couple of seconds as if to say "what do you think?" or "who do you think you are?”. I then turn away and position my body completely away from her. After all she's just spilled some of my drink!
A bit later we're all dancing inside. I'm dancing like I don't give a fuck, very sexual, large hip movements, pushing all the girls around. Then my two friends go for a smoke and leave me and girl B alone. Now I've just shown two of the biggest attraction triggers in a woman in large abundance: Pre-selection and Dominance. Girl B is horny as fuck and starts getting with me. I don't have to initiate it.
I move her into a corner and start physically escalating my hands over her body and getting some vaginal stimulation with my knee like suggested on this site. I always move away before she can move my hand. I try and pull her out the club but systematically face a lot of resistance. Every time I stop and act as if to move away she pulls me back and starts getting with me because she wants it so bad so even though she puts up a lot of resistance ( I have to physically drag and push her at points) I know she is so keen. Outside were waiting for the taxi and it’s more of the same. I start using hilarious logical counter arguments like:
And
We both know they’re bollox but it distracts her from ‘having’ to go back and speak to her friends. I had to be pretty persistent but I kept my eye on the prize and the Uber arrived relatively quickly. In my room she’s all over me. It’s nice having a girl who desperately wants to satisfy you as much as you satisfy her. I’ve had sex with too many girls who like to give up once they’ve orgasmed. We have sex in the shower, on the floor in the bed etc. However one confusing thing is she is still putting up some kind of logical resistance even once I’ve penetrated her. She mentioned she was on the blob or something but there was no blood. She also mentioned some baggage of some description. Recently broke up with a bf or something. Anyway she kept on trying to resist the sex even when I was shagging her which I thought was strange because in my mind once I’m inside you, you may as well stop resisting it and enjoy. Anyone know the chick logic behind that?
Anyway I had been completely dominant up to this point and I notice the more dominant you act the more the women will try and tame you to at least some level.
She tries to get me to comply and I decided to. It turns out it was so she can deep throat me. I’m willing to accept being slightly compliant for that
. She then licked my balls whilst I jizzed all over her back. Whilst she was washing herself off she said:
This was a satisfying moment for me to know that I had come a long way in becoming a very sexual “lover” in the last 3 years. I doubt she’d had shag quite like that before.
I the morning we parted ways early because I had work.
Quick update
So because shes friends with my friends. We we’re all ended up going to go to dinner two nights later (with my colleagues as well). It was all good she was laughing at my jokes at the dinner table (even the ones that aren’t that funny). This is always a good sign in my opinion.
We went to loads of bars and ended up in this quite crappy club, which wasn’t really any of our scenes. By this time I was too drunk, because my manager had ordered a big bottle of vodka that no one was drinking so I decided to step up.
Here are the things that I remember:
-She thought there was something going on with my and one of my colleagues, there’s not, but we’re close friends.
-She was apologetic about last time; I think she felt like a bit of a slut. I did my best to dispel this and told her I loved last time
-I started extracting her from the club again, got her outside but was facing equal amount of resistance as last time, I thought this was strange the second time around.
-I dropped the ball when we were walking back to my hotel because one of her excuses was she needed to check on her/our drunk friend (she was on her own and pretty drunk). I thought this was a “Let’s check on her then we can go shag” but instead it was just false resistance, so the second we got back to the club that was it.
-My friend who we went to check on started licking my face/getting with me a little bit (I wasn’t keen but didn’t stop her) Girl B say this not sure it helped too much.
-I got a tiny bit needy in persisting for her to come home but noticed I was doing it and stopped myself and bid them goodnight after that.
Think I'll leave this one for the time being, just see if i ever run into her again rather than push for a follow up.
So I was left a little annoyed I didn’t get the repeat lay I clearly should have, but I only have myself to blame. I note that i am still quite dependent on having large amounts of social momentum, but once i have it i usually get results. I think the best approach here may have been to do some deep diving and found out what her situation was. I basically didn’t get to know her on a deep level at all, although most of our interaction was in noisy clubs it goes to show it always help to connect with a girl on an emotional level as well. Fuck them physically, mentally, emotionally… every way you can. That’s when you really seduce them.
Cheers,
HipHop.
