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How often does a beautiful woman invite you out, get you drunk, pull out her game to get you going, take you home, and proposition you? Moderators, if you think this should go somewhere else, let me know. I wanted to share because it illustrates a thing or two about Latinas, and also confirms to me that Chase's techniques are really universal.
Background: I was in an exclusive relationship with "Sandy", but I had recently been contacted by an old fling, a Latina woman 9 years my senior (I actually gave her my V-card, another story for another time), let's call her "Lexy". I hadn't heard from Lexy in over a year, and I was interested to meet up, just to see how she was doing. Lexy invited me and Sandy out for drinks one evening. I talked Sandy into going along with it, and it went fine, unremarkable. After that, Lexy kept texting me, wanting to meet up again. One evening I was bored at home, and she offered to buy me a drink downtown, and I accepted. I was determined not to cheat on Sandy. I also remembered Lexy saying when we broke up that she wanted to get with me again later when I had more experience, and maybe even while I was seeing someone else. I viewed this as an opportunity to finally get her back for some of her mindgames by refusing her advances this time around, and to test my skills.
We met outside her apartment, where I parked my bike, and walked to the bar. We made small talk for a while, and eventually she started deep-diving with me. She did an excellent job transitioning from heavy topics (philosophical stuff about life, love, and tough times) to light subjects and back. She's a wizard of creating connection, she gives off a really warm and charming vibe. She touched on sexual topics in a sideways manner, doing some 'priming.' She talked about her weight and working out (she's still in fantastic shape, so this had the effect of pointing that out). She got some compliance from me by getting me to move from the bar with her to put some songs on the jukebox. Next she asked me to come to the Karaoke bar down the block, so I bounced with her, but it was closed, so she finally took me back to her place ostensibly to show me a music video she mentioned at the bar. She put on the video, and then another, and then dims the room lights and turns on a strobe light, and starts dancing with me. I started realizing I was close to falling under her spell, so I decided I had to leave. I had to insist quite a few times, but I wasn't walking out the door, so she kept trying to talk me into staying. Finally, she said "Fine, but I was hoping to hook up. We had good times when we were together, remember?" I tried to turn her down politely. Then she put her arm around my neck, and asked for at least a kiss, and I said no, and then a bit later she tried again, several cycles like this. Eventually, she got cold and angry and said, "Fine, you can go." I said, "yes, I should go, but we should meet again." When I had gotten home, I had several texts from her trying to talk me into coming back, and gradually getting more irritated, going as far as to say "Never call me again, and delete my number," and then backpedaling and apologizing.
Anyway, I finally learned what it was like to be picked up by a smooth operator and then experience LMR and get the boot. It was really interesting. If I hadn't been prepared to analyze what she was doing and resist her frames, I would have been toast. She had at least as much game as I did, and I don't know why she needed to develop it, she's so attractive! I could learn from her, especially the jukebox trick, and bouncing to a place that's closed, just to get me out of the bar. She's not used to experiencing much LMR though, as evidenced by her outburst at the end of the evening. Now that I'm single again, I texted her to see what she's up to, but it looks like she may have cut me off after that night.
Background: I was in an exclusive relationship with "Sandy", but I had recently been contacted by an old fling, a Latina woman 9 years my senior (I actually gave her my V-card, another story for another time), let's call her "Lexy". I hadn't heard from Lexy in over a year, and I was interested to meet up, just to see how she was doing. Lexy invited me and Sandy out for drinks one evening. I talked Sandy into going along with it, and it went fine, unremarkable. After that, Lexy kept texting me, wanting to meet up again. One evening I was bored at home, and she offered to buy me a drink downtown, and I accepted. I was determined not to cheat on Sandy. I also remembered Lexy saying when we broke up that she wanted to get with me again later when I had more experience, and maybe even while I was seeing someone else. I viewed this as an opportunity to finally get her back for some of her mindgames by refusing her advances this time around, and to test my skills.
We met outside her apartment, where I parked my bike, and walked to the bar. We made small talk for a while, and eventually she started deep-diving with me. She did an excellent job transitioning from heavy topics (philosophical stuff about life, love, and tough times) to light subjects and back. She's a wizard of creating connection, she gives off a really warm and charming vibe. She touched on sexual topics in a sideways manner, doing some 'priming.' She talked about her weight and working out (she's still in fantastic shape, so this had the effect of pointing that out). She got some compliance from me by getting me to move from the bar with her to put some songs on the jukebox. Next she asked me to come to the Karaoke bar down the block, so I bounced with her, but it was closed, so she finally took me back to her place ostensibly to show me a music video she mentioned at the bar. She put on the video, and then another, and then dims the room lights and turns on a strobe light, and starts dancing with me. I started realizing I was close to falling under her spell, so I decided I had to leave. I had to insist quite a few times, but I wasn't walking out the door, so she kept trying to talk me into staying. Finally, she said "Fine, but I was hoping to hook up. We had good times when we were together, remember?" I tried to turn her down politely. Then she put her arm around my neck, and asked for at least a kiss, and I said no, and then a bit later she tried again, several cycles like this. Eventually, she got cold and angry and said, "Fine, you can go." I said, "yes, I should go, but we should meet again." When I had gotten home, I had several texts from her trying to talk me into coming back, and gradually getting more irritated, going as far as to say "Never call me again, and delete my number," and then backpedaling and apologizing.
Anyway, I finally learned what it was like to be picked up by a smooth operator and then experience LMR and get the boot. It was really interesting. If I hadn't been prepared to analyze what she was doing and resist her frames, I would have been toast. She had at least as much game as I did, and I don't know why she needed to develop it, she's so attractive! I could learn from her, especially the jukebox trick, and bouncing to a place that's closed, just to get me out of the bar. She's not used to experiencing much LMR though, as evidenced by her outburst at the end of the evening. Now that I'm single again, I texted her to see what she's up to, but it looks like she may have cut me off after that night.
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