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I'm sorta at a crossroads of my life. I've been friends with people for four years. And they still treat me as the person I was four years ago. They make fun of me. They shame me into silence and they push me down. They cockblock me and and tell me I just jerk off alone. But I also have met people on spring break. They've known me for four days. But they treat me great. They treat me like I'm the best. They introduce me to girls and tell me I can get with any girl. They build me up.
I've known the old friends for longer. They've helped me through a lot of shit. But I also feel like they treat me like the person from four years ago. They break me down. The people who I've known for a couple days treat me like a king. They treat me like the person who I am now. They build me up.
It might seem obvious, but who do I believe? The people who have known me longer make me unhappy (During spring break I ditched them for the people who I just met) but the people who I've known for longer may actually know me.
Who do I believe? (I'm posting this because I believe its a common problem with people who find this site. They grow as a person and then their old friends can't see past the old them. I want this to motivate people to move on to better people (which I know is what I should do).
Anyways, please give your thoughts about this transition. It would help me and those who see this later after me.
I've known the old friends for longer. They've helped me through a lot of shit. But I also feel like they treat me like the person from four years ago. They break me down. The people who I've known for a couple days treat me like a king. They treat me like the person who I am now. They build me up.
It might seem obvious, but who do I believe? The people who have known me longer make me unhappy (During spring break I ditched them for the people who I just met) but the people who I've known for longer may actually know me.
Who do I believe? (I'm posting this because I believe its a common problem with people who find this site. They grow as a person and then their old friends can't see past the old them. I want this to motivate people to move on to better people (which I know is what I should do).
Anyways, please give your thoughts about this transition. It would help me and those who see this later after me.