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Mr.Rob

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When I was 16 I took a life guard certification class to work at a surf school the summer before my junior year in high school. There was a cute blonde beach girl that took the class with me and I had liked her from the very first day.

This was back in the extreme scarcity days when I would get a crush on any cute girl nice enough to exchange small talk with me. I'm sure some of you can relate... you sit next to a cute girl in class, you exchange platonic pleasantries, and proceed to fantasize for the next two weeks straight about what it would be like to date this girl exclusively.

Sad aint it? hahaha

Anyway after the week long lifeguard class I mustered the courage to ask for her facebook information and we became facebook friends. Here I would hit her up every once in a while and have a long clever conversation attempting to make her laugh over IM and come up with ways to ask her out in which I never pulled the trigger on... she drifted off and away just like every other high school crush I had due to failing to move fast enough and being rendered to the friend zone.

Fast forward 6 years later to ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------->Last Night

At this point it's about 1:30 AM and bars close at 2:00 AM. I'm at World of Beer in my hometown and there is no one in the bar except a ton of kids from my high school graduating class. I went to this bar by myself to pick up but I ended up knowing everyone and wasn't really trying to game any of these girls I've known for the past 8 years too hard.

At around 1:40 quit shooting the shit with everyone (which is wasting my time for the most part) and decide to burn down the bar next door and then hit the streets for some nightgame street action.

I'm walking out of the bar when two cute girls are walking towards me, a sexy small boobed brunette with great facial expressions and a cute blonde beach girl (the one from lifeguard class) both dressed up in slim black dresses.

I'm decisive as fuck and immediately take action by casually making eye contact with the brunette and then the blonde and take note on which one gave me better eye contact.

As I make eye contact with the blonde I realize it's my old crush from 6 years ago. She recognizes me too and I notice a spark of attraction kindle slowly in her eye.

I very smoothly open her
Me: Aye! You! (said very warmly as if I just noticed an old friend)
Her: Omg Hi!
Me: Whats up? How are you doing? (I'm good at being immediately comfortable with women even if I don't know them so her friend doesn't even think twice and leaves to meet some people without even saying anything... perfect)
Her: Omg do you remember me?
Me: Yeah we went to the swim club (I couldn't remember the thing off the top of my head)
Her: Lifeguard certification! haha
Me: Been a while yeah? I'm Robert (I extend my hand out in which she takes)
Her: I'm Cori
Me: Hello Cooorrriii (said slow and sexy letting each syllable linger; eye contact unwavering and knowing eye contact with subtext that "I know she loves sex"; I'm also holding her hand in mine and letting it linger as long as she will allow)

She makes a comment on my rosary beads and tells me about her neck accessories in which I tell her I take in my hand and examine.

I make a witty comment on our fashion (neither of us are overly fashionable) and as she is laughing and having fun I tell her to move with me to a table to sit down.

So up until this point their has been NOTHING flashy about this conversation and it has been about as average of a conversation as you could have but the vibe was very fluid and with energy.

Now we're sitting down at this table together secluded away from everyone else at the bar. She inquires on my drink in which I tell her it's water and that I don't drink. She calls bullshit so I let her take my cup and drink. She likes the water and asks if she can drink some in which I give her permission to do so.

The fact that I don't drink intrigues her to no beyond and she inquires on my past. I briefly tell her an overview of why I don't drink. I keep things vague and aim to paint myself as a rebellious youth with an addictive personality that became reformed through hardship. She likes this and her pupils dilate more (attraction for Byronic personality traits... I love my drug/alcohol ridden youth for that reason).

She then pokes a bit of fun at me for being sober to see my reaction by saying I am "straight edge".

For those of you that do not know people that are straight edge refrain from using drugs, alcohol, and sex for purposes that I am not really aware of. Back in high school cliques of kids would claim straight edge and get shit for it because they were seeking validation for how different they were for being abstinent.

*Best part of whole interaction... I tell her I am completely "straight edge"
Me: I don't drink, I don't use drugs, and (as I say the end of this sentence I put my hand on her leg and gently caress her inner thigh) I definitely do not have sex (I say this dripping with sexual undertones and sexy eye contact)
She momentarily melts in her seat.

After about 10 minutes of talking and at another high point of the conversation (she's right about to tell me about what she wants to do with her life) I tell her it's too loud and we should go sit outside and talk.

She complies but we have to go tell her friend where we're going first.

We walk over to the friend and she starts telling her what she's about to do. I'm standing right next to my girl and I make sure to casually say hey to the friend with a fun vibe. I then make eye contact with the friend and tell her "I'll keep her safe and have her back in no time" (delivered with sincere empathy through my eye contact). The friend holds eye contact with me to see if I flinch and tells me "Okay, but I'm holding you too it!" (said in a half serious half playful manner).

I take her outside and we sit down and she tells me about her chosen career path and I build a bit of a connection with her.

We're genuinely having fun and enjoying one another's company. I would've liked to have been more sexual in my conversation and more explicit just because I want to further integrate that into my game but it was not necessary for this interaction so I chose "not to fix it if it ain't broken" and keep things fun and with a platonic surface level and sexual undertone.

At this point in time we had been talking for about 25 minutes and I given her level of investment and compliance I could tell it was time to make a move and make things happen.

Time to Pull Baby
My spidey senses started tingling and I knew that as soon as we finished our current conversation thread its time to seed the pull.

At a high point in the conversation (before the vibe drops down after a good conversation thread) I immediately took both of her hands in mine and said
Me: Cori you know I'm glad we bumped into each other tonight I've enjoyed getting to know you don't you agree?
Her: Yeah I'm glad we bumped into each other!
Me: The clubs are about to close down. We're having fun let's not allow this to interrupt us, lets you and me go grab a nightcap at my place before calling it quits tonight.
Her: Uhm yeah that sounds good but I drove with my friend
Me: It's okay I'm sober I can give you a ride home no problem. Where do you live (screening for logistics)

I find out she lives 10 minutes down the road from my house. Perfect!

I prompt her to leave with me but she says she needs to go tell her friend goodbye and that she's leaving with me. This is always an area prone to getting fucked up (pulling a girl and friends interrupt, cock block, or worse) so I'm mentally preparing myself for any bullshit that may arise.

Turns out the bar door we last saw her in is locked. Yes! She tells me she'll just call her friend and let her know what she's doing. She mentions that her friend is going to judge her to which I tell her "no she won't because I'm just giving you a ride home". This helps relax her state.

She calls her friend but her friend tells her that she needs us to walk her to her car (she's a little girl by herself without a way to protect herself so I agree to this without much hesitation).

We walk her to her car and then walk to my car. Along the way I'm just keeping conversation light, playful, and even a bit random (pull talk to focus her logical mind off going home with me. I find pull talk to be incredibly useful even when a girl is committed to going home with you as it just keeps the mood more fresh).

We get to my car and begin the 30 minute drive home (sound familiar anyone?).

My state drops quite a bit and I'm struggling in the car to keep things on track and the vibe up enough so she doesn't get bored or have her pussy dry up and then request to be taken home. I'm proactive by keeping conversation fresh but I talk too much and carry to much of the conversation weight. A couple choppy moments here in which a doubt creeps in that I might drop the ball.

However I stay calm and collected and do my best to play it all off as if I meant for this to happen... "it's all part of the plan".

We get home I struggle a bit more to get the vibe back turned on right but I know I just need to keep leading and forget trying to be smooth to make things go perfect.

I offer her a drink and she obliges so I pour her a shot real quick which she chases with an orange slice she cut up with me fruit.

I tell her I'm going to give her a tour of the house. I show her my living room and my workout room/yoga studio in which she inquires on.

I tell her I do naked yoga and look at myself in the mirror and get turned on by looking at how sexy I am. (I've been playing around with excessive pride/narcissism for a while now as I find it to be a great technique to turn girls on QUICK)

I have her pulled into me and she's breathing heavier in anticipation of whats going to happen. I ask her if she ever gets turned on by looking at herself and she admits she doesn't.

I stop trying to be smooth and pull her in and start kissing her. She reciprocates no problem.

I push her against the wall quick and dominant but not reckless and start making out with her and grab her ass. Her breathing increases rapidly. I take her dress off leaving her with only her panties on. I'm stroking up and down her abdomen lightly and circling close to her sex.

She tells me to take her panties off... I tell her to beg. She complies and begs for me to take her panties off.

I play with her pussy for a second and find it wet and ready. I command her to undress me in which she complies.

I command her to stand up, face the wall, and bend over and grab my workout bench that's against the wall.

She is highly submissive and does what she's told the first time without further prompting. She also prompts me to fuck her hard and fast before I enter her.

I enter her and fuck her hard and fast...

Keep it pimping gents ;)

-Rob

P.S. One of the greatest take aways for me from this lay was a further unveiling of sexuality and the masks women wear (or the masks society/men force women to wear).

I think Drexel Scott has a post on "women are water" being that women conform to whatever shape cup you put them in. If you put them in a sexually liberated cup they will act like naughty girls. If you put them in the chaste virgin cup they will act like chaste virgins.

Perhaps it was my old beliefs that I held when I first met this girl or perhaps this girl just wouldn't seem like she's a fun naughty slut and seems more like a "good girl" without much of a sex drive.

Like being in conversation with her I just couldn't picture her being so dirty and naughty but once she got horny and knew I wouldn't judge her as being a whore she turned into the dirtiest little whore I've fucked in a long time.

Never judge a book by it's cover.

All women want to be fucked by sexy dominant man.

Don't be an asshole... give women what they want!

=)
 

PrettyDecent

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Rob, you're turning into one smooth motherfucker.

~Nick
 

ray_zorse

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Ha ha, put me in mind of some old high school crush of my own, although at 39 it might be like the popular Aussie song:
Saw an old friend but couldn't kiss her
She was lined, and I was home to the lucky land
Seriously though, loved the straight edge part, and how you turned a potential problem (don't drink -> vibe killer) into an advantage. And that she turned out to be a dirty little slut.

Did you use any non judgemental frames? I think ordering her about will definitely bring out her slutty side, but it sounds like you didn't use (or need) a whole lot of sex talk. Did you do something to bring out her free and open side, or was it basically the situation, the speed of the pull and your escalation mode? (Badass moves, hahaha, I have had a similar plan in my mind of escalating in the lift then just inside the front door ordering her onto her knees, potentially after tying her hands behind her back, but haven't met or pulled the right woman to try it on, would need good vibe).

About the 30min pull, why don't you move closer in? Now that I've moved, opportunities opened up a lot more (see LR: Pool pull), although TBH I've been quite complacent lately, this isn't a problem as I have sex on tap but I feel a bit of a pussy lately. Reading yours and radeng's reports I realize you are hitting up nightgame consistently whereas I've been staying home to do uni work, or staying in with the missus, and getting early nights. When the club is 5min down the road. Keep em coming it's extremely motivational to me.

You fuckin badass, I always get a feeling of a self amused yet fun and purposeful vibe reading your reports. Pimp it up ;)

Ray
 

Raqimus

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Holy shit welcome to boner city hahaha. Wow that was amazing how you stuck to your process and kept moving things along even when you felt the vibe was going down. Process >pussy
 

Hector Papi Castillo

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Yo, Rob, this was smooth as fuck! Your opening was absolute perfection. As difficult as it is to accept, the opening is the 2nd most important part of an interaction, next to the close, in terms of how pivotal to her attraction it is. But you pulled it off like a master.


Mr.Rob said:
We're genuinely having fun and enjoying one another's company. I would've liked to have been more sexual in my conversation and more explicit just because I want to further integrate that into my game but it was not necessary for this interaction so I chose "not to fix it if it ain't broken" and keep things fun and with a platonic surface level and sexual undertone.

Good move. You could certainly have turned her on even more with direct sexual talk, but it's a high risk move and it's lost me as many lays as it's gotten me. But if you want to integrate it more into your game, I'll show you the perfect place you could have pulled it off, which is

Mr.Rob said:
We get to my car and begin the 30 minute drive home (sound familiar anyone?).

My state drops quite a bit and I'm struggling in the car to keep things on track and the vibe up enough so she doesn't get bored or have her pussy dry up and then request to be taken home. I'm proactive by keeping conversation fresh but I talk too much and carry to much of the conversation weight. A couple choppy moments here in which a doubt creeps in that I might drop the ball.


Here. You could have done one of two things, or both -

1. I don't know if you drive a stick-shift, but I do and when I'm driving girls around, I teach them how to drive a manual. When they suck at it, I put my hands on theirs and teach them the gears. You can even drop a "you're a natural with my stick!" comment and a devilish grin. If you HAVEN'T been direct up at this point, this can spike her attraction. But if you HAVE been direct, leave it unspoken. The biggest flaw of direct game is how potent it is - too much of it and it sends the girl into unknown mental territory. From here, you start putting your hands on her legs and giving her eyes. And then, when you're ready, grab her hand and put it on your crotch and look at her, "You should make this car ride even more fun..." If she's down, she'll know what to do.

2. You can pull this one off AFTER she gives you road head or you guys flirt physically, but you can also do it out of nowhere if the vibe is great. Just mention that you should pull over somewhere and chill. If she inquires as to why, just be straight up, that you love having sex in random places and are always looking to be more adventurous. Utilize vivid language at this point and paint yourself as an adventurous man.


Direct game is best used as

1. A spike for attraction that you let linger in the conversation as an anomaly of sexual intrigue that she'll remember the rest of the interaction and she will NEVER forget your sexual interest

2. A close

Number 2 is probably one of the hardest things to pull off in seduction. It's so hard that it's almost an unnecessary difficulty, but I'm going to perfect it and I'm close.


Anyways, great job, man! You're making incredible progress! You've always been good, but this is some next level shit. If you want to know more about direct game, I've made a lot of headway in recent months and am going to write a large series on it once it's perfected; drop me a PM and I can help ya more with it.

- Hector
 

RDawg

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Rob

Props on this one man. It's gotta be an amazing and satisfying feeling fucking a girl that you use to have a crush on.

I command her to stand up, face the wall, and bend over and grab my workout bench that's against the wall.

This is fucking amazing hahahaha

Overall, good stuff man! I really enjoyed the read and hope to see some more damage done by you soon ;)

Keep Slaying!

Rdawg
 

JPWorld

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I agree with RDawg, that bit was amazing!

Also liked this bit, simple but so effective!

Mr.Rob said:
*Best part of whole interaction... I tell her I am completely "straight edge"
Me: I don't drink, I don't use drugs, and (as I say the end of this sentence I put my hand on her leg and gently caress her inner thigh) I definitely do not have sex (I say this dripping with sexual undertones and sexy eye contact)

She momentarily melts in her seat.

Mr.Rob said:
I tell her I do naked yoga and look at myself in the mirror and get turned on by looking at how sexy I am.

hahahaaa

Great job man!

- JP
 

Mr.Rob

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Thanks for reading gents

RDawg said:
It's gotta be an amazing and satisfying feeling fucking a girl that you use to have a crush on.
haha yeah it is for some reason... sort of like fumbling the ball horribly the first half of the game and then coming back 110% the last quarter and wrecking shop.

@Anatman- Thanks for the insight on direct game. I talked to Drexel about sex talk recently and have been slowly implementing it into my game so I appreciate your perspective on things especially the car fuck to enhance your inner adventurer ahaha.

Anatman said:
Good move.
Glad you thought the same. It honestly wouldn't have been productive given her attraction and my newbie skills on sex talk.

Thanks for the kind words man I'll be field testing a lot of this soon enough so I might toss some ideas and scenarios your way as I get more reference experiences.

@Ray- Sup mane!
ray_zorse said:
Did you use any non judgemental frames?
Yeah in the car ride back I told her my philosophy on how I view sexuality which got my views out there so she knew what the deal was but I was so choppy and non fun in the car it wasn't a good vibe to get in that good groove of fun conversation which can come about from such a topic. Nonetheless got my view out there which I think helped her see me as a complete lover.

ray_zorse said:
About the 30min pull, why don't you move closer in?
Free rent at the moment where I'm at plus I'll be moving back to Orlando in 3 months anyway so there's no point. Plus I'm used to the long pulls I can just keep increasing my pull skills. I'm about to write up a post on long pulls soon anyway!

ray_zorse said:
Reading yours and radeng's reports I realize you are hitting up nightgame consistently whereas I've been staying home to do uni work, or staying in with the missus, and getting early nights. When the club is 5min down the road. Keep em coming it's extremely motivational to me.
Yeah dude that's why I write these is to hopefully get you guys out and pimping hard. Especially since I've been a long term member here that had a VERY slow but steady progress and am only just now 2 years and 5 months later getting more consistent results. Like anyone can do this shit with enough desire and discipline.

Yeah man hit the clubs and write up a field report (or more ;) ) on the main forums (don't get enough time to read everyone's journal but once in a blue moon)!

-Rob
 

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Hey Rob,

This was truly an inspirational read for me. I want to be right there behind you in results (perhaps, 1-2 years to be exact, haha). Reading how you do things, I can feel your state of mind and relate to how I might apply it myself: the reformed man on the one hand, narcissist on the other… good stuff there!

My current issue is that I found out a couple of months ago just how fragile I can really be, and so I've clammed up to protect myself (genuine suicidal thinking needed quelling). It hasn't been all bad, by any means—lots of self-improvement in other areas, like fitness, fashion, and violin.

I have a funny feeling that this new pain might further enhance my byronic qualities and eventually add to successful lays down the road. I'm not a deep enough person, and I'm sure it shows. It's so ironic how this all works, which actually makes me sick in the brain sometimes—but reality is what it is. The sooner one comes to terms with that, the sooner one can heal and live a fuller life. Women really are like water and do in fact conform to however we choose to see them. This ends up being a bit of a scary power to wield if you ask me—something else I'm working on coming to grips with.

However circuitous my path may seem, I'll be damned if I give up on seduction.

Keep up your good work, Rob—I plan to be trailing behind soon!

Cheers,
-M
 
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