There's two particular moments during this week that i've noticed older women (40-50) have been giving me strong eye contact when i was shopping or at an event. My guess is that these women are even married w/children old enough to be my age (20). I know this happens to some guys here but its really never happened to me much and was somewhat taken aback when i saw them looking at me intensely, also left me wishing they were younger and unattached because i think chasing them would be a bit weak on my part because i know i should be aiming for better.
Short Versions:
Dollar Store- I was at the dollar store and as soon as i walked in i noticed an older, attractive blonde women (40-48 my guess) stare at me and smile seductively. It wasn't friendly, i knew that stare and smile by heart and instinctively knew she was checking me out. Even as i made my way through another aisle she kept looking at me hard ( she was about to check out). A lot of thoughts flashed through my head as i walked. One, i was both flattered and a bit embarrassed because i didn't know how to react towards this since its never happened to me. Plus i didn't want to look as weird or creepy if responded in the same way towards her, especially with other customers there. Two, it temporarily boosted my ego because i felt like an attractive/desired man in that moment because it never really happened to me with older women. Three, i wished it was a hot blonde/brunette who was giving me this attention instead of this older lady.
Library Event- I was w/my parents looking to check out some movies to watch for today and we walked in we realized there was a big event for children because of the upcoming holiday. Anyway, i'm looking for movies before the live music begins and my eyes catch another pair of eyes observing me. I look up and see this older, attractive women whose age i placed at maybe 50 give or take 3 yrs looking at me strongly, smiling a bit. I look away and ignore her since im thinking she's either here w/ grandchildren or with other children and it feels wrong to stare if she is. I walk around her and feel her gaze follow me and again the same feelings of above kick in. Finally, i sit down in some chairs behind her and watch the musicians play. I see her stand up and walk towards the bathroom (which im close to) and i gotta say i snuck a look at her and was somewhat impressed w/her body. She had an hourglass figure with a nice chest and stomach to rival some of the younger ladies there. She gave me one last look as i pretended not to notice and after a few minutes was gone and i didn't see her again.
She walked with style and an air of class surrounded her. I was impressed with all this and her fashion sense but i sincerely wished she was younger so i could flirt back without feeling weird or creepy for doing so.
So far these two events happened to me... Anything similar happened to you?
Short Versions:
Dollar Store- I was at the dollar store and as soon as i walked in i noticed an older, attractive blonde women (40-48 my guess) stare at me and smile seductively. It wasn't friendly, i knew that stare and smile by heart and instinctively knew she was checking me out. Even as i made my way through another aisle she kept looking at me hard ( she was about to check out). A lot of thoughts flashed through my head as i walked. One, i was both flattered and a bit embarrassed because i didn't know how to react towards this since its never happened to me. Plus i didn't want to look as weird or creepy if responded in the same way towards her, especially with other customers there. Two, it temporarily boosted my ego because i felt like an attractive/desired man in that moment because it never really happened to me with older women. Three, i wished it was a hot blonde/brunette who was giving me this attention instead of this older lady.
Library Event- I was w/my parents looking to check out some movies to watch for today and we walked in we realized there was a big event for children because of the upcoming holiday. Anyway, i'm looking for movies before the live music begins and my eyes catch another pair of eyes observing me. I look up and see this older, attractive women whose age i placed at maybe 50 give or take 3 yrs looking at me strongly, smiling a bit. I look away and ignore her since im thinking she's either here w/ grandchildren or with other children and it feels wrong to stare if she is. I walk around her and feel her gaze follow me and again the same feelings of above kick in. Finally, i sit down in some chairs behind her and watch the musicians play. I see her stand up and walk towards the bathroom (which im close to) and i gotta say i snuck a look at her and was somewhat impressed w/her body. She had an hourglass figure with a nice chest and stomach to rival some of the younger ladies there. She gave me one last look as i pretended not to notice and after a few minutes was gone and i didn't see her again.
She walked with style and an air of class surrounded her. I was impressed with all this and her fashion sense but i sincerely wished she was younger so i could flirt back without feeling weird or creepy for doing so.
So far these two events happened to me... Anything similar happened to you?
