On friday I'm going to disco I need to be prepared

[partytillyoung]

So yeah on friday I'm going to disco and I want to be prepared, not really prepared, but need some tips and advices.

There would be plenty of girls in the disco and there would be more girls. (I checked whereevent.com it show you how many males and females attended to the party )

So yeah I want to have some girls to have sex in toilet or somewhere outside, what would be the best way to get a girl and have a sex. I always fail here I can make really good move also with kissing, dancing I've got some skills I learned that by being a player, but after that I just can't lead her for sex. I can easily see how some lose interest if I say to her.

So I won't have any flat close only some nature. Is it better to fuck her outside or in toilet, because I don't want to be rejected or what do you recommend?

Any kind of tips, tricks and advices would be really helpful.

Thank you

 

[ray_zorse]

Brother I suspect you are getting ahead of yourself, you really need some good reference points before you will (1) be able to tell if the girl is down for super fast intimacy (2) be able to act on her desires smoothly and naturally if she is. Or to put it another way, what would help you a lot is to have a process for pulling girls from a specific location (here the disco) and getting intimate with them. You then tailor your process by skipping steps (she seems super keen) and adding public sex (countering logistical issues you encounter on the fly etc). Have you read Chase's ebook? Section 2 is about pulling, logistics and process. If you haven't, you should.

I can only go by my experience which was it took about 3~6mths of hard grinding (going out several times a week to approach 30+ women in a session) before I could convince women to go places with me with any kind of reliability or confidence, now maybe your conversation is already supercharged, fundamentals on lock, you're a popular guy with loads of preselection, charming and suave, and if so I would not presume to talk down to you. But assuming you're having trouble getting girls, then why not set some more modest goals, such as, I will talk to 10 girls I am attracted to tonight, for more than 5 minutes each. I will talk to a girl, ask her to dance, and grind on her. I will ask a girl to accompany me somewhere after talking to her for 10 minutes. Et cetera...

See also your post here: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=9631&p=46733#p46733
It does look as if perhaps you were not satisfied with the responses you received and thought asking the question again might elicit different responses. Well there are no shortcuts brother, no magic formulae that will get women to have sex with you in the toilet. It might happen if you are super lucky but more likely you'll fuck up the first 10 or so opportunities to have this happen through holes in your game so think of every encounter as just practice and a chance to level up.

Having said all that, if I've misinterpreted where you're at and you really needed some specific advice then do feel free to provide more info and I will attempt to advise u on that basis.

Ray

 

[partytillyoung]

Whoa nice tips.

First I would like to say I am pretty great at night game. Almost every girl I've approach, allow me to dance with her, before I wasn't that good at all. But I find really good and attractive thing to do dance spin + introduction. Also I smile and so on, so girls feel that I am kind. (I am kind anyways)

So getting girls to dance or to kiss is pretty easy part for me. Even if girl don't want to kiss I just try to move around things first. For example one girl didn't wanted to kiss me at all, so I made really sexy moves + grinding + look above her head somewhere else to other place and smile. I wanted to make her little jealous, but it worked, I went to kiss after that.

But getting her to pants or number is worst part. I don't even want to date girl who party, I've had one bad experience, that's why. Just some casual sex, it's nothing wrong with that..

... the problem I just say some weird things hey are you up for sex in toilet. Also how would you ask girl to go to her house (flat)? Because mine house is way to far away with train. I'll read the e-book.

Thanks.

 

[ray_zorse]

Cool man, well you are in pretty good shape then, you are like 60% of the way there if u can get facetime with girls in club. What you now have to do is capitalize. For the general strategy / process read the e-book. But for your specific case I will explain how I got past the same sticking point (well in reality it is a work in progress since I was struggling with this up until very recently, got it cracked but I have mainly been daygaming recently so have not seen real results yet, but bear with me).

Your problem is one of escalation windows, what happens is she meets you, you build up an intimate vibe, she gets all excited and wet thinking something is going to happen, her excitement peaks... and then dies. "Hey I have to go find my friends now". Or she just turns away and starts dancing with someone else. Et cetera... basically she got bored with you, and disappointed, cos you failed to keep giving her newer and more intimate experienes and failed to make her invest in you.

The solution is simple, the minute you feel it is getting stale or might get stale in the near future, act!!! This is a sixth sense you develop as a seducer, after many disappointments. You may have to cultivate it consciously at first, as I did. How to act: Easy... move her: at first, move her a few metres to another part of the dance floor, away from her friends. She will relax slightly and open up to you more. Then move her to the bar or some seating in the venue. Then move her outside, etc.

As to pulling her home you need some kind of excuse: An after party... or there's alcohol there... or it's too loud and you are gonna chill there or watch a movie or whatever... or just don't tell her it's your house and imply it's another bar, with cheap drinks or a pool table or whatever you have. Or be creative, as I have been in my two LRs this year (#1 pulled her to my tent on way back to dancefloor saying I have to get changed, #2 pulled her to my house saying I have to drop off the shopping, both were very casual smooth pulls with girls who were very DTF and knew what was gonna happen but needed deniability).

I know you have logistical issues but this actually makes it easier if anything, cos when you pull her out of the venue you'll have some reasonable excuse e.g. let's go for a hotdog... then you manhandle kiss her in a nearby dark alley or whatever.

Ray

 

[partytillyoung]

That's interesting and totally agree. So even fucking in park or somewhere in the dark would be okay, haha. Still better then going to toilet like you said it's going from 0 to 100 km/h. But yeah I'll learn this too.

Telling her : oh, I am hungry let's grab something for eat OR whoa I'm so hungry, let's take something for eat like hotdog, pull her little with hand and move. Something like that is okay?

My record (just saying) is 4 make-outs, different girls, same night, kissing included and dancing.

 

[ray_zorse]

Yes. Check out these topics on the site or in ebook:
- Compliance requests
- Compliance demands
- Taken compliance
- Unjustified compliance
You have to work through these. Doing stuff like having her mind your drink while you go to toilet etc. In nightgame there may not be time to build up lots of compliance so the justified compliance and "Let's ..." works well as a default choice.
Ray