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devlish

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So broke up with the ex a week ago now,

Get to the club and made to wait on the opposite side with everybody else (about 200 people). The moment the doors open everyone sprints to the other side - me with my background of rugby and football manage to pace almost to the front. My ex model girlfriend walks past me and smiles... LOL completely random haven't talked to her for a week and she's unadded me off all social media stuff. So I'm queuing about 2 metres away from her and her friends and I'm on my own as I lost my friends in the great sprint. I start chatting with the boys next to me and I'm making them laugh a bit and having a solid friendly convo, then I chat to the bouncer with them and we're all having a good time (this is for about 20 minutes) until I get to the front.

By the way I really cba'd for my ex tonight because I came here tonight to completely go in hard - so I don't know if pretty much ignoring her completely was the best thing to do but there ye go.

I get in and immediately go for a walk around this large club gently chatting to a few people here and there. I find my 3 friends after about 20 minutes and we're all massively celebrating. We organise to meet in the smoking area once every hour, ON the hour. Now it all starts...

I go dance for a bit with a few girls to get the vibe up, dancing with the fit one, make her laugh, get her number. I go to the smoking area to chill and begin talking to a group in a chilled way. I isolate a girl and try and kiss her but she doesn't let me :eek: how dare you! I go back in and drink some water and dance with my friends and another group of people. The club is starting to fill now so more options and stuff(also quite cool how I know about 50 people in the club including some quite hot girls who I chill with for some of the night). I go back to the smoking area and start getting a few solid interactions with girls+their numbers and chatting to people I know in between these interactions. I have my eyes on the 4 hot-hard to get typical blonde girls as that is what I'm currently attracted to. I open one of them and it's not going great, not going bad - meh most of my chats are like this. For the next 3 hours I am constantly going into the club and dancing for a bit, then back out to the packed smoking area to game (sometimes meeting other friends and chilling with them, some of whom are hot girls willing to stay over at my place already...I already know them though too easy ;) ).

I meet this one Blondie, I'd rate her a Strongg 9.5, the convo goes pretty well and I can tell she likes me a lot so get her number and organize a coffee date (she tells me she's not taking any alcohol/drugs as she has work the next day). I have almost all my interactions with girls in the smoking area including her. I continue my night in the same way as before.

100 conversations later (10% boys, 20% friends, 20% girls, 45% attractive girls, 5% stunners).
I'm sitting downstairs in the unisex toilet chatting with one of my best buddies and he's a bit smashed. he points out the 9.5 blondie from before that I liked and pushes me towards her so I go and stand near her and wash my hands to wait for her to turn around so that I don't look like a beg. She turns around and I say Hi, she smiles, I take her and lead her to a place upstairs that's quieter and chat a bit, kiss a bit (always finishing first making her want more...obviously). I say lets go for a walk - she has no phone, no bag and hasn't known me for long and she asks why. I tell her that I just wanna chill in the fresh air. She declines so I say lets go and sit somewhere else for a bit which we do for about 10 minutes. I carry on teasing her and then take her to the exit and say walk again. She once again asks why. This time I'm a bit bored of her making it difficult as I know she likes me so I answer all her Why's and Problems on the spot. 'my friends!' > 'I'll take you to them later'. 'We're not allowed back in the club!' > 'We'll queue again and I'll pay'. 'My stuff!' > 'We'll get it later'. 'What if you rape me!' > '(roll my eyes) do I really look like that kinda person' . 'Why do you wanna go though?' > I get her so perfectly with my response 'I just wanna go on an adventure' ...She's like 'So do I!' and we leave.

It's a 10 minute walk back to my friends place, on the way she's telling me how we're not gonna have sex. I respond 'Is that all you think about jeeeesus'. I have the keys so I unlock the door and enter. THE ALARM GOES OFF. I don't know the code so it's progressively getting louder and louder and... it's ridiculously loud and capable of waking up every house in a 500m radius. My phones out of battery and she doesn't have a phone so I can't contact my friend. I'm like fuck it I've gotta fuck her before the police come so we go to the upstairs living room and I start to escalate. She puts up a bit of resistance but this motherfucking LOUD noise might be ruining the mood lol...

I take her to the top floor (5 floors) and shut the door and throw her onto the bed but the noise is actually ridiculous so for 20 minutes we listen to some chilled music on the laptop (don't forget the background ear-splitting alarm sound) and eventually my friend tells me the code over facebook so I turn the alarm off (life seemed so much more peaceful now :'). I play her some piano and a bit of guitar to woo her and now we go back to the bed and I once AGAIN escalate. I'm making her horny and stuff but she's putting up resistance (apparently because she's quite hairy down there and embarrassed) so I leave it a bit but take some of my clothes off anyway. She takes her trousers off because they're 'uncomfortable' :') ohhh uncomfortable lol... Once again I escalate from kissing, to fingering, and eventually fucking. It's not amazing because we had a bottle of wine and I don't work that well while I'm drunk. Anyway it's good enough and she stays the night. She was also constantly reminding me of how good looking I am and how smart I am and all this other stuff like she was amazed, meanwhile saying she's ugly even though she is a very gorgeous girl - strange personality disorder?

In the morning my friend makes us all breakfast and her, my friends and I chill, laugh and eat together for 2 hours. Then I take her to the train station and bid my farewell - always with a kiss where I finish first... with her wanting more of course ;)
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

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Space Monkey
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devlish said:
One night clears away the X: So broke up with the ex a week ago now
Well done old son - live an abundant life and you'll never be one of those wussy gits begging her to come back!

devlish said:
By the way I really cba'd
Is cba'd an acronym for Couldn't Be Arsed?

devlish said:
We organise to meet in the smoking area once every hour, ON the hour.
That a fine plan - I shall take that on board, should I ever go to one of those club type places.

devlish said:
also quite cool how I know about 50 people in the club including some quite hot girls who I chill with for some of the night
It's totally awesome and convenient to be able to rock up at a place and already have established social network.

devlish said:
I tell her that I just wanna chill in the fresh air. She declines so I say lets go and sit somewhere else for a bit which we do for about 10 minutes.
Good persistence! She can't of liked the first offer so you found a better one.

devlish said:
I answer all her Why's and Problems on the spot.
Eliminate the resistance and commence the pull!

devlish said:
It's a 10 minute walk back to my friends place, on the way she's telling me how we're not gonna have sex. I respond 'Is that all you think about jeeeesus'.
Well she's a girl, so obviously that's all she thinks about. =D

devlish said:
I have the keys so I unlock the door and enter. THE ALARM GOES OFF.[...] She puts up a bit of resistance but this motherfucking LOUD noise might be ruining the mood. I take her to the top floor (5 floors) and shut the door and throw her onto the bed [...] I play her some piano and a bit of guitar to woo her and now we go back to the bed and I once AGAIN escalate.
Good work handling this, could of her lost here but you lead and then put her at ease... Music has charms to tame the savage beast!

devlish said:
I'm making her horny and stuff but she's putting up resistance (apparently because she's quite hairy down there and embarrassed)
Just tell her you're not a fan of the "5 year-old" look...

devlish said:
meanwhile saying she's ugly even though she is a very gorgeous girl - strange personality disorder?
They all have their insecurities and just because they might be externally attractive, internally they may not see themselves as attractive as you do. In which case, you can use this as leverage!

devlish said:
Then I take her to the train station and bid my farewell - always with a kiss where I finish first... with her wanting more of course ;)
Brilliant! Keep up the good work!
 

devlish

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Yes abundance is key and having a social group there is very helpful!

(cba'd is can't be arsed by the way)

cheers for the insight Explosive Results
 

ray_zorse

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Lovely moves... re the calling herself ugly she may have been asking for praise... in which case bust on her (see Chase's articke on how to be an asshole)... remember 90% guys are white knights who will jump in with "Oh no you are so pretty blablabla"... although from the sound of how she said it maybe she genuinely meant it... hmm.
cheers, Ray
PS Did you ever actually go back to get her stuff?
 

devlish

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cheers ray,

I kinda just laughed or smiled when she said stuff like 'I'm ugly' and 'I look so fat', then she'd revert back to saying how I'm the most gorgeous man she's ever seen - didn't quite know how to react to this self shaming and praising me - I smiled mostly when she self shamed because I knew it was bullshit (I didn't say no you're not) and I smiled when she constantly told me how good looking I am as I found it a bit over the top and humorous.

Which article do you mean on being an asshole - every girl calls me one anyway but just to check.

I think her friends picked her stuff up from the club for her and then she had to trek all the way to their house to pick it all back up.

devil
 

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devlish said:
I kinda just laughed or smiled when she said stuff like 'I'm ugly' and 'I look so fat', then she'd revert back to saying how I'm the most gorgeous man she's ever seen - didn't quite know how to react to this self shaming and praising me - I smiled mostly when she self shamed because I knew it was bullshit
This is something you need to assess on a case by case basis.

It depends on her self esteem levels and whether she's testing you or seeking your approval. If she has a low self esteem and is seeking validation, responding too harshly could be detrimental, while if she's testing you and you respond too positively, that could also count against you.

Either way you need to let her know you're attracted, but do so on your terms.
 

BlackBolt

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devlish said:
I get her so perfectly with my response 'I just wanna go on an adventure' ...She's like 'So do I!' and we leave.

Yeah this was golden right here man, great job! Sounds like you had a bunch of preselection at that club + your fundamentals sound like they are locked down tight, great read bro.
 
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